Should parents of barely legal girls encourage their daughters to date guys around 10 years older?

[Anonymous]

Or at least teach them to not act offended when guys ask them out

[btbc92]

Why? So you could continue to sexually harassed us? Dude get a hobby. You make every other men that don't have bad intentions have a bad name. This is a little reason why I don't want to date because I got to attract sickos like you.

[ananias55]

I don't think parents should encourage their kids to date anyone, the kid will choose who they want. But I think parents should teach their girls how to reject someone properly and how to deal with weirdos who don't take no as an answer.

[btbc92]

Trust me. That doesn't work. When you attract sickos oh, they don't care if you're polite or not. They want to hop in your panties and that's their goal. And if you ain't giving them what they want, you got to be very careful because you don't know if they got a knife, a gun, or they may God be try to rape you. You don't know what crap a lot of us females have to go through. This is why I don't think it's wise for a lot of females to be by themselves. Because a lot of them don't pull that as long as you're with somebody especially if you're with another guy like your father. They only go after women they see that is vulnerable.

[ananias55]

I have a little sis and I understand that 100% I've had to fight some grown adults because they wouldn't leave her alone. My sis always calls me if something is wrong and I'm a big guy so most of the time when I get angry. They run away.
But my sis carries a taser and pepper spray.
The thing is, those occasions are rare but they happen.
I think it's because most guys are so deprived from affection that they're desperate to get it one way or another and they turn into manipulative weirdos.

[btbc92]

Why don't know where you live at but at least she's able to carry that. You got to understand that in certain places those weapons are illegal. And if you get caught you run the risk of getting arrested. It's not that most guys are deprived from affection. What it is is that they have entitlement. That's why you hear so many guys raping girl and so many guys going after women the way they are. It's not that they're lacking. That's just how they are. And no amount of helping them with change that because it's a lot of mental and psychological problems there. They're not the pride of anything they can't naturally try to have on their own. What it is is that they reject normal relationships and what they want is that they want sex. Because the world has to everybody if you're not having sex, if you're not married, or if you're at least not having a kid or mess around anybody, then you're technically a loser. So now everybody scrambling to do everything and everybody's done but then so many people are miserable. They truly do feel they have entitlement. That is makes them go crazy. It's no different from female to have that entitlement. They see a handsome man. What's the first thing they want? They want him because he's handsome. They don't care if he's involved with someone else or not. They don't care if he has a family of his own or not. At the end of the day they feel entitled to him even if he says no. It's mental illness.

[btbc92]

And their mind, they truly do think what they're doing is right. But it's wrong. And that makes it very scary because they don't care what you say. You have to understand the state of that person's mind. They really don't care. And it's very sad because a lot of them don't get help, and that's how some of those men not all of them. But that's how a good amount of those men become rapist did if they thought they ever would become one or not. Trust me there's a lot of men out there who feel they are entitled to sex even from their wives and girlfriends. And when they are not getting what they figured they deserve, some of them will go that route because they feel they are that entitled to it. They really do think that females are to be conquered.

[ananias55]

I wouldn't take it that far. In my opinion if a man rapes a girl then lock him away forever.
But I have made mistakes in my life that made me come off as creepy. I didn't realize it til later. For instance I once clicked with a girl and walked her to her car. She then told me because I walked her to her car I was a creep. And I didn't realize it. I learned from that mistake. In truth, my mom never taught me about how to date or how to treat a girl well, and I have no dad, he has another family.
And yes some guys and girls are very entitled. But i don't think it's a mental illness. It's people not understanding the other gender. And it's also about not caring about what the other gender wants. Cause I've dealt with terrible women as well. One threatened to tell the police I raped her if I didn't go out with her. And another one threatened my other female friends for talking to me.
I just wish people took the time to get knowledge and mental help before they decide to try dating.

[btbc92]

You weren't a creep for walking her to the car. What you dealt with was an immature person. There was nothing creepy about being a gentleman. You were just with the wrong kind of person. Oh, trust me. Right now your 17, if you lived with my dad, you would change your mind. Plenty of them do have some mental illness, that's why I can tell you. No amount of mental help would help that, because again. It is about what they felt entitled to. And there is demonic influences controlling a person too.

[boggboss]

Don't think they should teach them to date older guys but preping them for dating f life should happen yes

[kyleelyn199723]

Why do you equal age to not being a piece of shit? Being a piece of crap has no age.

[es20490446e]

You have to know that many girls in their early twenties try to flirt with me by themselves.

[kyleelyn199723]

And that doesn’t make you not a piece of crap. Not insinuating that you are a piece of crap, but flirting does not signify that the girl knows you or knows your history.

[es20490446e]

I just dance for three hours, without alcohol, and that seems to work.

[kyleelyn199723]

And that determines who you are as person?

[es20490446e]

Perhaps you liked to answer this:
Am I crazy about physical activity? ↗

[Whizzy83]

You can’t choose who you fall in love with.

[Anonymous]

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