Guys, How to get a guy who has ghosted you to come back?

[Anonymous]

I talked with a guy a few times and he said that he would like to meet me when i was in his city visiting family there. A few days later i confirmed my dates for the trip, and he suddenly ghosted me. How do i get him to unghost me? I only have his cell number.

[Friendlyexperienced]

If you get or discover, please let rest of us know! Once ghosted, in my experience, they never come back. Though one time I gave woman space and when I called her she answered and we talked for a bit in that call. It was clear at that time she just lost all interest, so I let go. Maybe give him space, which can be challenging to gauge. I guess if you talked/texted daily, could try giving at least 3 days and then try calling. If talked/texted less often, maybe give more time, like week or so and try contacting then. Where it can be tricky, because we really don't know what's going on in someone's life, is if you try only one time or more than once. Many tend to view as "desperation". In some ways it might be, but I've also had woman pursue me and I saw as she was really interested. The key that's helped me move along is to be in context of game. Not "the game", but making it fun, like playing video or board game. If you lose, don't make huge deal about, and try again or not.

[boggboss]

U can't lol he ghosted u because he dont care to hear from u he will come back when he cares to hear from u

[Wise4myage]

Don't waste your time on sketchy characters.

[magiusX26]

just plain old, you don't.