I ghosted this guy I was talking to and came back, now he’s weery of me. How can I here back on his good side?

[Anonymous]

He said he’s not like upset but he’s being dry and barely responding now. Before he was all over me and I really do like him, how can I get back to that?

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+1 y

So what I’m getting is be genuine and give him time. Can definitely do that👍

[Ekvark]

It's like shock therapy. Ghosting may be something people do to each other on the regular but it still stings either way. He's keeping you at arms length now as an attempt to not go through the same thing again. He may also feel like he's just the a back-up choice. So I guess if you really do like him, just keep up communication and show interest in him. However, you have to feel it out the best you can.

[SteveSmith1985]

Time. If you ever can get back there at all.

[20yearsolder]

If he had done the same thing to you, wouldn't you be weary? It takes time to earn someone's trust. Just be honest and open with him. It'll happen overtime

[AsaKyo]

You can't

You ghosted him

[Asker]

He’s still taking to me there’s no way it’s completely unfixable

[In_Trance]

you can't. You fucked up. Move on

[Asker]

He’s still talking to me so it can’t be that bad…

[In_Trance]

All he sees is an opportunity to rail you and he'll probably stop talking to you afterwards anyway

[Asker]

Not gonna let him, he Haley even thinks I’m interested.

[Asker]

barely* he doesn’t expect me to stay for anymore than a week

[Noodle_fan]

get him a pizza

[Anonymous]

You can't you broke hos trust and hurt him

[Kryzo]

He'll always be wary