Is this a red flag?

[avony12]

Is it a red flag that in a relationship your girlfriend/boyfriend says ‘you should dress like this more’ or ‘you would look so sexy if you wear this’? My boyfriend constantly tells me I should wear this or wear lashes. Now he’s starting to say I should do a cat eye or wear tighter shirts.

[Truthbewithyou]

For me, Yes. It's a red flag.

It's one thing to suggest adding lashes. It's another when he's telling you to dress a certain way and wear tighter shirts. That's strange, especially, if you didn't ask.

[Shanaya_S]

If he is constantly telling you do something you don't like, then yes.

[boggboss]

No I wouldn't say that's a red flag no it can dip over into the relationship of being controlling but it is not inherently a red flag

[exitseven]

That is definitely a red flag. A) He is vey controlling, B) He has very poor fashion sense.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Well if he’s controlling you constantly, then it’s a red flag.

[Anonymous]

I don't see that being a red flag.