What Do You Hate About Dating Apps? (Page 2)

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I'll list my personal issues with them. I'm interested if you have any. After personally using daiting apps, I have to admit I've enjoyed daiting face to face rather than through apps. It feels more genuine and you 100% know they like you in some way.  Guys on daiting apps:  - Their photos are always really bad which makes them seem less attractive than they are. Pixelated photos of them drunk with the flash on or a low angle shot of them not smiling.  -Guy who want something casual but lie. Like just be honest. Plenty of people who are up for casual and you do nothing but waste the time of everyone involved.  -Not every guy, this is a personal experience of mine, guilt tripping you into a date. If I say I don't feel a spark and you then threaten to hurt yourself over it, it doesn't make me want to date you, only concerned.  Girls (from my guy friends)  -Their photos are too professional. Filters, editing, angles can mean the person you meet looks very different.  -A lot more female scam accounts than male.  -Women just trying to sell you their only fans. Apparently it hurts when you think someone is really interested in you only to find out they're trying to sell you something.  -A lot more picky than guys when it comes to looks so it's hard to get to know people.  Daiting apps themselves: -Hiding better matches and better looking people behind a pay wall.  -leads via looks rather than personality so if someone's photo isn't the best, they could get rejected even if their personality matches.

crazy8000 · Answer

People have a tendency to show their worst and think they gonna be attractive for those they are attracted to.
Loose social skills they might have IRL and appear someone that might be someone with personality disorder.

( majority of female's happens to fall into that bunch and make up messed up reasons to justify to be like that )

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing really. I guess its because i didn't expect a lot from it when i was still using it.

Ironically though i ended up being in a relationship with someone great because of a dating app. Funny how i used to download tinder merely out of boredom, just to talk and do some harmless flirting. Told myself i would never meet with someone from online, but ended up having an ex from it whom i liked a lot. I dont regret it. Good experience, but probably won't be doing it again.

MCheetah · Answer

The shallowness promoted by the app itself and the women on there. They're toxic.

Paul09 · Answer

I seems like I never get matches. Or replies. A lot of ghost profiles. Or maybe picky people? I've messaged so many, rarely any replies. I've tried so many other dating apps/websites. It seems more for women. I know you must be bombarded by a-holes a lot. But that sounds better then not having any replies. I'm also not very photo genic, so I do not have a lot of pictures of myself.

boxxie2002 · Answer

All of the ads now and scenery or group photos.

I don't care what your backyard looks like and I don't want to play Where's Wally to guess who you are in a photo with 10 friends.

The profile wite up is important, but so is the photo for both sex's

Guanfei · Answer

Girls are extremely picky, most profiles are copy/paste, they're acting like they're in a supermarket, picking every "product" around and discarding most of them without a word (aka matching then never replying). A lot of stuff behind a paywall. Lots of fake profiles.

2ndTryatThis · Answer

I hate being catfished, having a woman turn out to be the opposite of who they claim to be, being asked to meet far across town, and the “who do you think should pay for dinner on a first date?” Type of questions. I have money abs never cared if I was on a date when I paid. It’s gentlemanly..

Shihab91 · Answer

I tried them for a month , honestly in real life you approach someone based on their look only , dating apps gives you more than that even before you even make the first move. ( If they are honest about their bio or pictures ) , however women their are so unrealistic ( not just me but many men says the same ). Many people there are not really looking for a relationship and just want to chat 🤷🏻‍♂️

whatsupbri · Answer

I really hate being asked what do you do for fun or with your free time? It’s a pet peeve to be asked that. It’s cliche everybody says it. Be yourself be genuine.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Guys who assume there entitled to sex before forming a relationship

hanony · Answer

The ones I’ve been on are just full of people who only want to fuck. I want an actual real life meaningful relationship, not just friends with benefits.

cth96190 · Answer

All the females with whom I matched were either fake profiles created by scammers, or morbidly obese and insane. Seriously.

bubblespopcorn · Answer

I find it’s hard to find a decent guy on there but that’s how I meet my ex and current boyfriend. They were both good guys!

Dude_777 · Answer

I hate everything about them. The best way to meet people is via social circle. Expand it and it does wonders.

Relux47 · Answer

It’s a waste of money, it’s a waste of time, there always seemed to be some kind of excuse for not wanting to meet up, 1 girl sent me a message and then when another girl sent me a message it was exactly what the first girl said

Aurora1010 · Answer

That some people there aren't serious or are fake, you have to be careful with them

dray995 · Answer

Scammer accounts and being limited by having to pay to play. It’s a waste of time if I can’t even talk to the person I might be interested in. I might still be able to find some of their profiles on Social Media but that’s not the same.

Sidfawy · Answer

I agree with your opinion, but many girls don't put their real photo and some of em try to show us some sensitive parts and guys some of em use editing app to make your photo looking good if they not.
So your opinion is not right enough

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that it’s most used for validation than actually dating. People are more interested in showing how many people they could date or sleep with than actually doing those things. It’s a pseudo reality where if they get someone that looks like a 10 then their ego artificially inflated to the point where they think they always deserve that even if they are far from being an actual catch.

serious · Answer

I never used dating apps, so there is nothing to like and nothing to hate.

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