Assume that a girl approached you , asked you out, her friends can hear you but you don't feel attracted to her at all. How would you reject her?
Reject politely
Lie and say that you have a girl
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In my opinion its more embarrassing for the girl to be rejected In front of others. So i would lie and say i have a girlfriend or I'm not looking for a relationship
Wait, that does actually happen? Last time I had a girl approach me, she was seven and clearly didn't think things through :-D But ok let's pretend a girl could express her interest in such a direct way. Assuming the bit about already having someone wouldn't be true, I would go for my general response "That is indeed a very tempting offer, but I must respectfully decline." Then let her choose if she wishes to run away embarrassed or ask why, at which point would feel better about giving an honest reason. But, that said, I rarely judge women this quickly. Unless the looks are really really bad, I would still go on a date to find out her personality, interests and woldviews. If agirl did approach me she automatically has an advantage.
Politely , no reason to be rude about it , just say I am flattered but sorry I am already seeing someone else but thank you for noticing me , Now if she didn’t take No for an answer then you have a right to start being rude , I can’t stand people that are rude right from the start whether you find someone attractive or not you should never be rude from the start , we don’t walk around with signs flashing above our heads saying what we are into or what are relationship status is , so people that are rude from the start are the biggest piece of shits on the planet is the way I look at it
I don’t know how a guy would tell a girl. But I’m a woman and it was this girl at my job who kept trying to get with me. I was so shocked because she looked feminine and so do I. I’m straight by the way. At first I didn’t know what to say because that had never happened to me but I was so tired of her flirting. I told her I was married and she left me alone.
i usually say the "i have a boyfriend" line. yup. busy hanging out with my imaginary boyfriend that does not exist. i feel like it hurts less. maybe. i dunno. it's sounds better than no.
You are kind lady, i believe men are less sensitive when its come to rejection ( generally speaking ) , for a girl its hard to make the first move even so imagine after all that she gets rejected it will hurt a lot
Women don't take rejection well at all. I've tried all approaches to this situation in my life. Your best bet is to politely say something like, "Oh... I would but I have a girlfriend" or "I have a wife". Any other form of rejection will lead to drama created by her and/or her friends.
@KrakenAttackin Yeah. And the worst thing you can do is be on the fence... like a guy who loves to flirt with every random woman but also has a moral objection to doing married chicks cause then you'll get into a situation where you got her all hot & bothered but you reject her later and boom. Next thing you know she's telling her husband that you tried to rape her. Not good.
I would NOT reject her ! That is just stupid. Put the shoe on the other foot. Take it as a compliment, that she found you attractive and appealing. Why be a horses ass, and 'reject' her. I have gone out with girls that invited me out, and I enjoyed myself very much. BUT, that said, WOMEN can be jerk-offs too, and they do the same stupid shit with men, so be a 'man' and go out with her if she asks.
Why would some stupid shit, down thumb me for my saying I would NOT reject a girl who approached me? Jesus Christ ! I suppose he thinks I SHOULD reject someone ! What an asshole !
But fr if a guy would I ask me out I would definitely say yes unless there was literally zero attraction. Why not at least give them a chance? Could be a good guy.
I will surely try to reject her as politely and respectfully as I can.
I will tell her". I know why are approaching me and I appreciate you courage but I apologize, to be honest I only wish to remain single for life and so please save your time and effort for someone else and I am sure a guy will like you and will take things forward. Good luck".
That is how I will reject a woman if she approached me.
Reject politely. I have my baggage and currently health issues being addressed but of course treatment delayed due to covid. Nothing major of course. Just I've got other priorities so decline politely. In a perfect world, sure I'd say sure but alas but ah well.
Because every girl is beautiful and God's gift to our world, I would treat her kindly.
I would take her away from her friends and just explain to her why we can't be together. I am in a relationship and my girl is my forever. I would wish she finds hers soon too.
I would politely tell her she isn't my type, and if need be tell anyone who tried making fun of her over being rejected grow the fuck up and stop being a retard.
I don't see the point of being dishonest or making fun of someone for taking a risk and asking someone out.
Easy always say you already have someone... although I've used it before and the guy will insist that he also has someone and just wants to be friends :/ whatever that means.
I would politely tell her "I'm flattered but sorry you're not my type" or "I'm flattered but sorry I'm not interested".
The only times in my life saying something similar were in text messages after a date. Also breaking up in past relationships but those were all in person telling them face to face.
You know what I notice a lot of the younger generation does today? In person they won’t reject the person. They will wait til they call or text to tell them. People can block calls and texts now. They don’t have to deal with a bad situation in person.
Depends. If she is within certain parameters I would see where it leads emotional wise. and then be brutal honest and say I can't get the right feelings. If she doesn't fall into those parameters I will say I see you are interested in me. unfortunately I can only see us as just friends.
Most girls I'd at least give a shot if they had the courage to ask me out. But let's assume this is a 0% attraction rate, here (so, it'd be a transwoman). I'd reject them politely and say I'm not looking to date right now.
I normally tell them that I don't think we are compatible.
I don't say it is because I am with someone when I am not because that gives them false hope that if I were single it would be possible when it actually isn't.
But I mean... Even a hot girl who I am attracted to approach me before with a crush on me... And it never lead to anything cos I was too shy so didn't let her know I fancied her too... I could jus do the same to an ugly girl... They won't ask you out... They'll jus give you hints and then give up... There's no need to reject
whenever people do that i say i'm not ready for that right now or that they cld do better. however when they ask me if i hav a boyfriend or girlfriend, i jus say yes bc it's better than being like 'no... but i still wouldn't go out w u'
I don’t reject girls especially if they’ve got the balls to go up to A man and ask them out. And if worse comes to worse we can always be friends
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It’s pretty interesting how many men have mentioned turning woman down, when most other places here they complain they always get rejected. Seems it’s just the type of woman men want and get rejected by.
@Coulis I honestly don't have time right now. I work full time, go to grad school full time andjust bought a house. I was hooking up with a girl over the summer and that's pretty much what I told her when school started up.
Edit after the update; It is no more embarrassing for a woman to be rejected than a man, but men have been on the receiving end of rejections for so long that we tend to accept it with good grace, on the other hand when women are rejected they tend to fly off into a fit of histrionics that any man would reject them.
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