Do guys ever feel guilty for stringing a girl along and hurting her feelings, the way we women feel bad for rejecting a guy/hurting his feelings?

[Anonymous]

[TurningGraves]

No, those guys don’t feel guilty for stringing a girl along because they usually know they’re being deceitful but continue to do so anyway, meaning they are bad guys.

Rejecting someone is usually innocent and even nice girls will have to do it if they simply don’t like someone.

[LinaDaGoddess]

I honestly believe it depends on the guy, they’re all different. I know men who would feel guilty, but I also have dated the ones who couldn’t care less.


If you feel like you’re dating someone or interacting with someone who treats you like they don’t care, then believe them. They don’t care because ask yourself, if someone cares about you why would they do anything to make you question it?

[Spyre]

Yes. A couple years ago I went out with a girl one night who I knew liked me a lot but I wasn't attracted to her at all. We had sex and the next day I told her that I didn't want a relationship and I was using her for my own gratification. She was okay with it and still wanted to be friends which makes me feel even more like an asshole.

[Asker]

Why were you not attracted to her?

[boggboss]

We are talking in massive generalisations atm no not all guys will the ones that didn't care from the start ofc won't care

[Jfranco12]

Most women don’t feel bad or guilty at all they just immediately start talking to the next guy they have lined up.

[Wester1967]

No woman has ever felt bad or expressed any remorse or regret for stringing me along or dumping me cruelly and unceremoniously.

[exitseven]

I have never really done that to anyone. Even girls that I did not treat all that well never were deceived like that.

[Justme1290]

What? I see girls caring less than men about rejecting men harshly and breaking their feelings.