I sexted with a guy I have feelings for and now I’m worried that he’s going to lose respect for me because of this. Is it over?

[Anonymous]

We haven’t met yet, but we’ve been talking every day for a while now. We started exchanging sexually explicit messages yesterday. I’m worried that this now makes him perceive me as being anything other than girlfriend/wife material. I even told him that I was embarrassed about what I did and that our convos needed to be PG-13 from now on. What should I do? What should I believe?

[Bigtitz7]

Hey I am a girl! Just from a girl perspective. I would say be careful. But if things go in that direction don’t be afraid to hide your feelings or show that your in the mood. (Guys like that). Also that’s how me and my boyfriend started. And I asked him if he saw me as a slut or hoe because I sent pictures or explicit messages. He said no. But every guy is different. Just be careful cause you never know about guys these days. A good friend also told me something I will always remember. “Don’t show all your cards”. In other words. Leave him wondering always have mystery in the relationship. It makes it more fun and always leaves the guys wondering. Good luck hun!!

[Asker]

Does sending naughty texts before we’ve met and before he’s committed to a relationship make him think I’m easy? I told him how I felt and that from now on all of our messages will have to be pg13 because I don’t want him to get the wrong idea about me.

[Bigtitz7]

He might think your easy. You can always ask. Don’t be afraid to ask him questions.

[Mortdikeuu]

Don't date people who get you to do these things. They are often bad news and narcissistic

[Asker]

What should I do now?

[Mortdikeuu]

Find someone worth your time. Work on yourself and you wouldn't want that guy anyway

[Asker]

How do I know if he really is narcissistic and bad news though?

[Yahall0]

I am gone through this in some manners don't worry too much and don't feel embarrassed you did nothing wrong

[Asker]

What is he going to think of me? Does this say anything about the kind of guy he is?

[Yahall0]

It's hard to tell

[Yahall0]

Tell him your thoughts

[Asker]

He said not to be embarrassed and he apologized. Is it true that guys like these tend to be narcissistic and bad news as another user on this thread just said?

[Yahall0]

narcissistic people are always bad news for any good relationship

[Asker]

Is he that though?

[Yahall0]

Is he love him self more then his partner and others in a strong way

[Rachel794]

If there’s consent from both of you in sexting, go for it! I don’t know your story but a lot of women have social conditioning that can make them feel guilty for opening up sexually. I hope I helped!

[Emanon25]

Did he text you another day?

[Asker]

Yes, he did.