Sick lonely and depressed. I get really down after bad first dates. Why?

[Anonymous]

Well i’ve never went on a second date. or a boyfriend. and i hardly ever go on first dates. i didn’t like him. i’m tired of not feeling anything and being disappointed and defeated. i have liked a couple guys before and it’s just that it wasn’t a good time in my life. and now that it is a good time in my life, there’s never been a better time.. there’s no one i have a crush on at all.

[sensible27]

You'll find someone you like, if not well you'll always have yourself : )

Hope you're okay, "Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible."

[Asker]

this quote is false. as humans we have relational needs. frequent isolation and having no one around to talk with, laugh with, etc is a cause of loneliness

[Asker]

i am unable to communicate because i have no one to communicate my views to… so being single my whole life makes me feel even more lonely because no one understands my viewpoint. in that way the quote is correct. but it’s also because i just don’t have anyone

[sensible27]

http://imgur.com/a/yRM1bhJ

[Anonymous]

Because u have never met someone u really loved. But u will meet one one day. Dont be so depressed 😉

[illallowit]

Dating can be exhausting! Good thing is... It's not a requirement. Your in a perfect position actually. You have no crushes.. Go out and enjoy yourself. This is usually when we meet someone. 9/10 relationships fail. Don't be so hard on yourself.

[Asker]

what do you mean go out and enjoy yourself? where?

[illallowit]

anywhere.. everywhere.. I'm assuming you have friends? It doesn't have to be groundbreaking stuff. People are everywhere..3 of my friends met their husbands at the grocery store, know what I mean?

[sensible27]

http://imgur.com/a/yRM1bhJ

[Asker]

@sensible27 i’m happy. i’m emotionally and mentally in a good place… i’m just alone