You should never expect something more like a close friendship, romantic relationship, ext with complete strangers. You chose to date a complete stranger and therefore you are seeing things that only YOU can judge and decide for yourself. What are you dating for? What are you looking for in a man? What are your intentions and what do you expect? If he is not meeting what you want, then you already know what to do if he is not what you're looking for. The mature way is either-or: address it and inquire, or tell him it's not working out and move on. Decide from there if this is how you will continue to date men. I personally would never date this way.
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It it's bothering you and making you feel hurt and neglected that I would definitely say something. It's possible that he doesn't realize he's making you feel this way in which case I would hope he would want to know so he change his behavior. However, it's also possible that he doesn't recipricate your feeling and either doesn't know how to break it off, or doesn't feel the need to. Either way, it's not healthy to feel bad about yourself by dating someone.
Ask him, and walk if you don't give the answer you desire.
I think it would be reasonable to give him one warning.
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Most mature way would be to tell him directly. Then walk away. If you just trying to get him to act more interested? That's a whole different game.
Definitely express your thoughts and if he ignores your concerns then move on
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