Would it bother you if someone you were dating wanted you to send new pictures of yourself every day?

[Flower7]

Yes, this would bother me.

No, this wouldn’t bother me.

[SteveSmith1985]

Yea. That's definitely not ok.

It's too much.

Unless we're talking about two people in a super-lovey-dovey "honeymoon phase" of a brand new relationship... and a dude says that... then fine. He's just being a goofy bastard, and doesn't ACTUALLY mean it. It's more... just... you know... the lovey-dovey non-sense.

If you are talking about someone who actually sincerely asked you to send new pictures everyday... or maybe a better way to put this would be...

If you have a guy who expects you to send him pictures of you everyday. That's a red flag.

Also relevant is whether it was a situation of
1. "everyday I find he's asking me to send him a picture while we're chatting"

or

2. somebody saying something like "I want you to send new pictures everyday".

Because. the second one... that's worse than the first.

Regardless, that sounds like some bad news.

[Flower7]

I’ve experienced this a few times before with different people and it was very stressful to me. It was always more #1, like it just happened to come up in every conversation. Still very annoying though. And didn’t make sense to me.

[SteveSmith1985]

Yes that's controlling/obsessive behaviour that IS concerning. If a guy does that, that's itself not a good sign. But you need to call them on it should that ever happen again. Tell him you don't wanna be sending pictures all the time. If they have a problem with that. DROP THAT GUY 100% he's fucked.

[crazy8000]

Wouldn't do it no matter what she thinks and say.

[Flower7]

Good decision!

[Cynicaldreamer]

As someone that hates taking pictures, I wouldn't like it. It seems needy and bothersome (again, this is just my opinion).

If a guy wants to see me that much, he can visit me IN PERSON.

[Flower7]

I hate taking pictures too.

[eblehe]

Yeah, I send pictures frequently to my boyfriend but he everyday asks me lemme see you. It gets tiring and tedious. Even if I say I'm sad and crying he'll say lemme see u send me a pic, instead of comforting me.

[Flower7]

Sending constant pictures can definitely be tedious.

[DonkeyDan]

Yeah I think it would, I don't like sending pictures anyway, but someone wanting them everyday is a bit weird. What are they selling them online or something lol

[Flower7]

I dislike sending a lot of pictures also. I never understand the point of it, once they already know what you look like.

[DonkeyDan]

Agreed, the only reason I would send pics is if it was a LDR, but I'm never going to have one of those so I just don't send them. I've always said if someone wants to see my thing, they can come and see it in person 😂

[Recurrence]

I started talking to a woman who was like this and with how I am as a person, it was too much for me, like multiple times a day she asked if she could see me, and it was just very off putting and lowkey stressed me out

[Flower7]

I’m the same. This has happened to me and it does cause a lot of stress.

[bones_20]

Why would they need pictures everyday?
If you’re dating wouldn’t you rather see each other in person?

[Flower7]

Who knows? I’ve definitely had this happen before and I didn’t understand it.

[Ninani]

It would bother me to feel pressured to do it, but if we're just snapchatting each other I'd do it voluntarily. I take selfies no matter how I look, I rarely wear makeup anyway, so I look the same most days.

[beebella]

Yeah, especially if I've already told them that I hate taking selfies.

[Flower7]

True, and some people just don’t care!

[beebella]

Tell me about it. 🙄

[Cherry234]

Yes it would definitely bother me. Why would I have to send pics of myself to someone everyday?

[Flower7]

I’m not sure why this happens. So I can’t answer that lol. Have you ever experienced having someone ask for too many pictures?

[Cherry234]

No I haven't

[FunkyMonkee]

Why would I need him to send me pictures of me every day? I have a fully functional mirror!

[Flower7]

Oh, so you're dating yourself?

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I just read the question wrong.

[Flower7]

Ok just wondering lol. Sometimes I’ve gotten to the point where I’ve considered doing that!

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, I thought you asked something about THEM sending ME pictures of myself every day. I'm not even THAT vain!! I really don't need pictures of my every day! I had 3 aunts that were CONSTANTLY taking pictures and even movies of everyone and I have thousands of them that I never even bother to look at anymore. I rarely ever listen to my own records, either! I only watch our videos when I'm trying to decide which one to send someone.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, it would bother me but this does happen with people

[Flower7]

Yes, this is definitely a common thing.

[GoldenCage]

I'd rather video calls.. It is sweet of him to want pictures or share pictures but I don't know why I dont like taking pictures. I'd rather a video call instead 🙁

[exitseven]

It is so easy to do it with modern technology it would not be a bother.

[Flower7]

But wouldn’t you find it annoying to have to make yourself look photo-worthy at random times of the day, like when you’re just trying to relax at home?

[exitseven]

I didn't say I would comb my hair or anything. She would have to take me "as is".

[Flower7]

Lol…that’s probably what women should start doing. Maybe then guys would stop asking for so many pics.

[WowwGirl]

What are you asking for? I suggest something

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I think it would start to get annoying after 4 days

[Flower7]

Sounds about right!

[t-8900]

I'm okay with sending a few every few weeks maybe. It yeah I hate taking pics of myself but when she asks I try to oblige

[Shizunk]

Not sure why anyone would want that. But if quality isn't an issue, it's easy enough to grant that wish. Takes a few seconds. So why would that be a problem?

[Flower7]

It might be easier for a guy, but for women, it can take longer to fix hair and possible add a little makeup.

[NathanDavis]

if you're dating me... you will get to actually see me and have me, every day

[sarahlumpkin]

I get pictures of him everyday. The difference between him and the woman's brother in Jungle Cruise is he likes women.

[boomstheory]

No. And I hope she doesn't mind getting pics of me naked from time to time

[Paris13]

I would only Agree to Once a Month. lol!!! xxoo

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yes, because it seems excessive for one thing and I hate taking pictures in general.

[Sadgirl1994]

I will be flattered but I think his infatuation will die off eventually hahaha

[AviatorTom]

Unless it's a long distance relationship, why not just see each other... no pics needed?

[Paul09]

Oh yes! Why would you need pictures everyday? It doesn't seem strange to you? People are so obsessed with selfies, it's really a strange mental thing. That should be fixed.

[JennBITx]

If we did not see each other all the time. I can see that

[Wiredone]

As long as she doesn't expect me to comment on each and every picture I wouldn't mind

[Jayplays900]

Absolutely not..!

I wanna see them all that I can..!

[Joshua0213]

Dating yeah but if we are boyfriend and girlfriend then no not at all

[ChiPaPa]

I hate how I look. It would make me uncomfortable.

[Flower7]

That’s understandable.

[Twalli]

Depends on if she cares what types they are

[Flower7]

You mean as far as looking good vs not looking good?

[Twalli]

More like poses and amount of clothing

[REDHOTLINE]

Yes i dont like taking photos

[Flower7]

Same here!

[REDHOTLINE]

I am not alone ☺

[Dinklex3]

Yeah. I ain't doing that shit, lol.

[kqueen]

I'd find that kinda weird yeah

[Gwenhwyfar]

Hell yeah. But no one has ever asked me that.

[Slim57]

Yes I hate taking pictures of myself

[Flower7]

I do too. I really don’t like situations like this.

[loveslongnails]

Everyday? Yes, that would be annoying.

[Hairylegs222]

Yes, it gets annoying.

[Andres77]

That would get real old really quick

[Wise4myage]

That would annoy me after a while.

[Staximus]

No, that would mean she really loves me

[jasco]

I don't like taking pictures in general

[Lonely888]

Yes, I wouldn't have time

[Guardian45]

That's just TOO annoying!

[anylolone]

As long as they aren't nudes.

[andy530]

Nope wouldn’t bother me

[Jerre]

If she wanted pictures, I would send

[sage2021]

I think it's weird

[Pink2000]

Kinda.

[Toldol2]

Beware of catfishing

[Flower7]

Do you mean that’s the reason why they would want so many pics?

[Flower7]

To avoid getting catfished?

[Toldol2]

You Never know

[Exterminatore]

Hell yes.

[Iron_Man]

Yeah

[clampfan101]

Only in shyness.

[WowwGirl]

No I did

[WowwGirl]

Same as if they saw you daily

[LegendaryIcon]

Kind of

[Relux47]

Yes.

[TheAfrikan]

A big bother.

[JesseJayNeak]

No, not really

[dolemite89]

new or nude? 😂

[Flower7]

Either, as long as it was a new pic.

[dolemite89]

if we saw each other regularly i’d be confused why she’d want pics at all, if it was long distance or she was traveling for work i wouldn’t care if she liked sending pics back and forth everyday