Im never good enough for one?

Question

Getting told no one would ever approach you unless you distanced yourself from your prettier sister hurts. I'm not good enough standing next to her, but if I move behind or ahead of her I'll be approached? that's pathetic. I knew men were pathetic. I'll never be good enough. I'm the settle for less and she's the better one. happens with my friends all the time, guys come up to them, not me. guys come up to ask me about them. Everyone finds her attractive.

I'm a bbw, and I'm in a few bbw groups and I made a threat about me being vulnerable and they asked for the photo of her and I. I've never cried so much, I've put it on here and got shot down. I'm bigger, and guys say it's in the eye of the beholder. But guys who claimed they like bbw told me "she's hotter than you" "no one will approach you if she's around" "You're ugly". They told me to stand away or go out alone. Or find ugly friends. Like wtf.. why am I never good enough like I am? Why can't someone approach me and WANT ME? Even if she is there or if someone else is there?

Rob596 · Accepted Answer

Just work on your self confidence. Or work on yourself. I do, and I’ve been single for two years because I’ve been trying to improve myself. I know I have flaws to work on, and it’ll take time. Like I still don’t have a body I like, but I still go to the gym to try to fix that. Or how I still am shy with girls, I try to talk to as many as I can to break away from that. I even got complimented the nicest thing from my boss the other day. She told me that I’m “the perfect guy.” Yet I know I still have my flaws, I just thanked her. So you see, the more you try to be a better person, the more people will notice that. Because how can you expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself? Or how can you expect someone to give it their all, if you don’t do the same?