Girls, Do you think indoors type guys are less attractive then the outdoorsy types? Would it make you decide against dating him?

[t-8900]

Yes

No

Either is just as attractive/dont care about such things

[Anonymous]

I don’t care. Both are attractive to me.


I dated both before. There’s different aspects to them that make them “indoorsy” or “outdoorsy” people, but I had fun and was deeply attracted to them both.


I dated a really indoorsy/introverted guy before. Im an introvert myself, but I love the outdoors/nature. He was a gamer and loved to sit inside and watch TV, make homemade meals or fast food. We didn’t do much, but I still had fun. It’s the little moments of intimacy that we adored.


I also dated a very outdoorsy/extroverted guy recently. Loved to hunt, shoot, hike, travel, road trip, explore, and go out to eat. I must admit, I did have a lot more fun and made a lot more memories and experiences with him compared to my Indoorsy ex, but both had great qualities to them.


Neither are more or less attractive to me personally. But I prefer an outdoorsy guy because I love adventures and getting out of my comfort zone (my home/indoors). I love to experience nature and doing things I’ve never done before. I’ve sat at home and watched movies for days, eaten at home, and played games — That’s my daily life, I want to spice up my life more with adventures with someone, So Im more drawn to outdoorsy guys for that reason.
That does not mean I don’t find indoorsy guys less attractive physically, mentally, emotionally or whatever!

[t-8900]

This was beautiful. Ty for sharing

[AmandaYVR]

I think of outdoor guys as potentially quite self-sufficient. They could survive if everything went down for a bit. They aren't out in nature to get some 'gram' shots. They enjoy connecting with nature. They work with it, not against it. (That means not shooting and killing every animal in site. Guns against animals is not a fair fight.)

But I could really care less if a guy is more an indoor type. Then we can talk, read, think, watch movies, read articles, eat/snack, and it's all comfy and relaxed yet mentally stimulated.
I don't like sports so I would be a wrong fit for a guy who's always on the go, wanting to do a sport. But I'll go for a hike. As long as we have a well-maintained car, and snacks.

[t-8900]

when I a girl says "I dont like sports" i ask "so when am I taken you out?" ^^
seriously can't stand watching most of them at all. Reminds me of the Romans and their bread and circus. I'd rather do something else like talk around a bonfire or go fishing or camping maybe. OR I'd rather sit inside and watch movies cuddled up next to my girl and just talk laying on the bed or couch together. Maybe bake or cook together too.

[DarkCarousel]

In a way— mostly that I’m looking for someone with similar interests and I prefer being outside/outdoorsy.
Also, many of the “indoor” types of people (not just men) are often far less active than I prefer.

[t-8900]

I do my exercises indoors because AC and also no bugs lol 😹

[DarkCarousel]

Understandable. But you can only hike so far indoors before you have to turn around! Haha

[t-8900]

this is true lol. I have a long strip i go back and forth on from my room to the front. I usually can do like 3-4 miles before getting bored. I hit the weights more often. Now in the spring or fall i'm good to go! or some random cool days in the summer (when's the last time we had one of those though?).

[Sarahr123]

I would love to just spend private time indoors together. I’m also an indoors type of girl. Why spend time outside with the world when we can just be alone at home? Idm doing that forever lol.

[t-8900]

Even going outdoors I'd be spending it all with her. On a boat, in a tent, near a fire, on the beach, etc etc. Anything I did would be with her and for us. But in autumn and winter indoors basically always lol

[ItsMeElliana]

i feel like it varies from different women how they feel about it, but to me id want to explore new places with him outside and just y'know live life to its fullest and enjoy every moment with him because life's short, and sitting inside playing video games could be done at night with me but at least in the morning we should go out
thats what id want

[t-8900]

but when you work full time it gets harder lol

[ItsMeElliana]

well, if we love each other we'd always make some time for each other. love is just so beautiful

[t-8900]

no i didn't say that but i'm saying when you work a full day of work you're body hurts all over, and you just want to chill lol. Weekends maybe different but work days are just hard.

[ItsMeElliana]

sure but when im done with work and come back home, or he's done with work and comes back home super tired, at least we'd still be there for each other, just venting it out to each other, telling work stories, sleeping together cuddling

[ItsMeElliana]

every bit of affection helps a lot

[t-8900]

oh yeah for sure!

[Raphtaila]

Both are attractive if you love me and I love you you care for me treat me well trust and communicate and honest with me I couldn’t be happier

[t-8900]

Good answer!

[Alyssa11]

I prefer indoor types of guys because that would mean we have less in common lol. Also I have a very strong personality and I would love to be with an introverted guy because I believe we will bring the best out of each other in that way.

[JosyJosy]

No give me the indoor guy, but come on now every now and then going to see something outside should be okay

[t-8900]

i'm the type that maybe wants to do camping or fishing maybe once or twice a year and maybe hit the beach or something. But mostly indoors.

[DizzyDesii]

Im indoorsy so its for the best. But i want us to go outdoors at times in terms of walking the beach or around downtown or going to a baseball game or theme park. Other than that im more indoorsy

[Somegirl678]

yeah to be honest i wanna be with someone that goes out a lot and socializes because im an extrovert so i need them to match me

[Subarugirl]

I'm attractive to people with similar interest and values. Since I enjoy outdoorsy type things, I enjoy spending time with people that like the same things I do.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well no not n the example you gave, but the guy sitting in his office was at work… If you ask him what he does on his spare time, either for fun of as a work-out, a guarantee that some if not most of that is outdoors!

[TrueConfection]

That's a tough one for me. I love the outdoors, but I wouldn't survive "roughing it". I definitely need a balance.

[Sualina]

I really don't care, If the guys nice; the guys nice.

[Uptowngirl88]

I dont think this makes a difference. Being indoorsy or outdoorsy isn't something a woman looks at. It's usually money, looks, and personality.

[Prettiest-Girl]

Yeah because they’re nerds and I don’t like dating nerds.

[sunshineglow]

Indoors is more attractive

[Gwenhwyfar]

I would answer no to this question

[bannacookies]

Yes because I'm outdoorsy.

[Sam2021]

I dont mind at all.

[melanieeeB]

Uhm no, who cares

[fonduegirl]

I dig sigma