I’m white and minority girls like me more than white girls?

[Anonymous]

This is more of a funny observation. But I’m a white male and for the longest time it seems to me that white girls are never into me at all. Even the ones that do date white guys.

However, light skin and Hispanic girls always seem into me or I’ll have way better interaction with. It’s like light skin, Hispanic, black and white on the list of who likes me normally.

I don’t mind this because light skin and Hispanic girls are my preference anyway lol. But I’m wondering does anyone have a theory on why this is? Like why would light skin, Hispanic and black girls be much much more attracted to a white guy than white girls would? (Including white girls who do date white guys)

This really is nothing too serious just a funny observation but it does get me wondering sometimes.

[Rob596]

I have the same problem but the opposite lol. I feel like Hispanic girls don’t get along with me that we’ll even though I’m Mexican (well my dad’s side is French, but my parents were born in Mexico). I don’t know why, but it is what it is. Like mostly Asian and white women get along with me the best.

[Asker]

This is very interesting I’m glad I posted the question lol. Do you have a theory as if to why?

[Rob596]

I don’t know? Like at all. I even went to a school full of Hispanic and white people. But I never had Hispanic girls flirt with me unlike my fellow classmates who were white. I guess you can argue I’m just not like a typical Hispanic because I am really tall, fair skinned, and grew up with not liking some aspects of my Mexican culture. But yet again, I don’t know? Like I can speak Spanish fluently, and I think Hispanic chicks are hot, but when I speak to them, we just don’t click.

[zariahdp]

I can see why you question that. I’m quite confused myself lol. But from my stand point I’m a black brown skinned woman but I’ve only dated black men. I get attention from every type of guy but I notice white guys have this fetish with black women that makes me completely disgusted. Go for what your heart leads you too and not based off friends or family beliefs and thoughts

[Asker]

I can honestly say that my attraction isn’t a fetish, I just always find myself talking snd being more attracted to light skin, Hispanic girls more than white girls. It could be because most of the white girks where I live are rich, sheltered and snobby/boring. But what I’ve noticed is that I get more looks and they seem more attracted to me which is funny to me. So, I just want you to know I don’t have a fetish. I just click and seems like they’re more attracted to me lol. Like I said funny observation.

[noohair]

There is a lot of factors going into why people are attracted to other people. Dark skin was associated with working outside. People that had jobs inside were considered a higher class of work. So it was a socioeconomic disposition to see lighter skin across all races as better. This is actually just as common in China as anywhere else.

[KostasKouvalis]

It's the same thing with me. White girls, like TRUE White girls are rarely interested in me, but Brown girls love me. Latinas and Black girls show interest in me the most, and then Indian girls a little bit. And online, Muslim Middle Eastern girls.

This is pretty normal. People seem more attracted to people who look different than them. I'm certainly not complaining, as I kind of prefer Brown girls anyways.

[Asker]

I love lightskin/brown girls so in my situation I’m not complaining either. But it is funny. I see what you’re saying with people being attracted to others who look different than them.

[Asker]

I’ve theorized mauve it’s personality too? Like I’m not a fanatic Starbucks, Pinterest or home goods decor guy if that makes sense lol. My black coworkers gave myself a 3-4 on my 1-10 whiteness scale 😂. But again I listen to Garth Brooks, Tim McGraw, Brad Paisley so mostly country so it’s still interesting.

[KostasKouvalis]

Look at my cover pic.

[Asker]

I see I see lol. Loving the dream as far as I can tell. How tall are you? You look pretty tall. I’m at 5’8 and they still like me more than true white girls who date white guys

[KostasKouvalis]

5'10"

[Asker]

Most of my white friends give me a hard time (like teasing) about mostly being interested in light skin girls. Do your white friends tease you about it? It’s not that I don’t like white girls but I don’t prefer them and they don’t have much interest lol

[KostasKouvalis]

My friends not so much, but my family gives me a hard time for being attracted to Brown girls. Latinas they're still okay with, because they have European genes and are Catholic, but they can't understand my infatuation with Indian girls. Though my mom has sort of started to accept it. But I don't dare share my attraction to girls from Islamic countries. If my family, especially mother knew some of the girls I was talking to, she would flip.

[The_Maphio]

Evidently you alchemize better with other ethnicities for any reason. Enjoy yourself and be responsible.

[Anonymous]

You sound like me and noticed exactly the same thing because that’s exactly what is happening to me and I don’t know why, I feel like the minority now, seems like white girls mostly go for black guys now

[Asker]

That’s true and I feel that definitely. But the funny thing with me is that even the white girls that date white guys are never into me lol. Always lightskin and Hispanic that are. Which I don’t mind at all. But I just wonder why lol

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know why either, Latina and black mostly like me and not white that date white but I like Latina mostly and have been with black and one Latina, I haven’t been with a white woman in 25 years because of this

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe because it’s the differences in our looks that they like

[Asker]

I’m thinking also maybe personality? Like I’m far from a starbucksy kind of guy if that makes sense. All of my black coworkers rated my “whiteness” from 1-10 and gave me a 3-4. So maybe that’s why? I’m country but not a redneck if that makes sense. So I listen to a lot of country like Garth Brooks, Tim McGraw and etc. So I don't know. I’m thinking it’s maybe personality

[Opinion Owner]

Probably personality but usually it’s looks they first notice , I think it’s because we are different from them that attracts them

[Anonymous]

Things are more complicated in my case. I receive attention from white girls for the most part. I still hate them regardless.

[Grubhub]

Because people are attracted to the opposite. Most Hispanics you see with white guys are flat ones

[RichSD]

That's been the case for me all my life too.

[Asker]

You’ve got a theory as of why?

[RichSD]

No, not really. I'm sure the reasons must vary.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, that's been my experience too

[Anonymous]

Yeah dude

[Asker]

Yeah what? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

I’m white and minority girls like me more than white girls?

Yes for title

[Anonymous]

i dont know lol