Would you do a long distance for 4 years with your boyfriend of 3 years? We are both 22 years?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

No.
If you've been together 3 years why are you 2 suddenly going long distance? Why 4 years?

Just break up.
Don't try and tie each others lives up for 4 years.
Just marry or break up and move on to find the long term mate.
You two should marry and one move with the other... choose the relationship over this 4 year interference... or just break up and each move on to your separate lives.

[Asker]

He is going to do a phd in germany while I still have my studies to continue in Malta for the upcoming two years

[Miristheiss]

Well, you two are choosing your studies and careers over this relationship. You two should just make a clean break and both be free to date and meet the opposite sex... him girls in Germany... you, guys in Malta.

[exitseven]

I had a long distance relationship for over 3 years with somebodythet lived 1500 miles away/ It was before e-mail or Skype. Phone calls were expensive so we mostly wrote letters. We saw each other maybe 2 or 3 times a year. I really loved her and we talked about getting married. The whole thing fell apart. Looking back, I was really miserable the whole time. I felt like my life was always going to be like that .
I would not date anyone that lived more that 2 hours away.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Prettygurl12]

My husband and I did long distance for 4 years. We were committed and made plans to visit regularly. We were dating and went to different colleges. We prioritized our relationship and one of us traveled the distance once a month. We made it work but it wasn't fun lol

[jennifer_bloom]

I would if I trusted him and he trusted me

[mark000h]

Nope. He'll get feelings for other girls and you'll get lonely and find another guy. Nope.

[Zenpanda]

I've done long distance once.
I'm never doing it again.

[Danny_dan92]

As long as you and your dude are patient and can wait THAT LONG. Without either of you cheating then you should consider it

[jahaims]

I would make it not long distance.

[In_Trance]

why is the distance becoming a factor?

[slatyb]

I would not.