Guys: what's up with the "Pump and dump" attitude with girls/ladies?

[sage2021]

Are most of you pumping and dumping the lady after sex? Is that all mostly what you want? Or do you want a long term love relationship?

[Hulk30]

i personally am a relationship guy maa'm most men dont wanna be players but simultaneously most men go into it wantin sex and even after givin ya a commitment on our side that never really changes and bottom line if ya bring more to the table than sex then automatically most of us will give ya relationship energy instead of sexual energy

[exitseven]

I never did this. I always wanted to have a serious relationship with somebody.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[The_Maphio]

Sexual interest, and not much more. Pure, unadulterated fun with no interest to tie any strings thereafter.
Absolutely nothing weird about it. Deep feelings and continued relationships are stuff reserved for few people on this ball of dirt, for each one of us.

[Lliam]

I never did that. I don't see the point in just fucking her once if what she wants is to be in a relationship and fuck a lot more. I never had a fetish for just fucking as many girls as possible in order to put notches on my belt. I liked the girls I got into relationships with and found the sex to be much more amazing when we were infatuated and could explore ways to pleasure each other in more ways than just pumping and dumping.

Also, I would never lie or misrepresent myself in order to get in a girl's pants. That's some cold blooded shit.

[Anonymous]

The casual sex era means long term relationships are pointless for any man that believes in monogamy only. I refuse to add to the problem by taking part in casual sex, but a lot of guys do. But you will find a lot of those guys used to want long term relationships or even marriage, but just gave up and decided to switch off that side to them. Some men walk away, others just 'adapt'.

What many don't realise is casual sex is probably part of depopulation agenda...

[Opinion Owner]

I totally walked away for good after realizing that the majority of women have a past of severe promiscuity. No thanks!

[HellGeist]

This is very true.

I'm a diehard romantic, but I always feel like I should be pumping and dumping instead because these Western women are not loyal and can't pair bond in part because they ride the cock carousel day and night.

[HellGeist]

Some women are wife material and others are for pumping and passing around.

I personally don't engage in it because I'm a diehard hopeless romantic, but I don't blame guys for doing it either.

[worldscolide]

Depends on the woman. Most girls you see on Instagram, or only fans, and the like are only worth a pump and dump..

That having been said, I've never been one for casual sex, I just can't do it.

[koolbrz]

Because women are up to it. Just imagine how many women are doing casual flirting for no reason. Then they whine about men not wanting anything serious.

[HellGeist]

Lmao. Women are the ones driving the hook up culture, but they always whine about it and say they feel used, even though they are willing sluts.

[koolbrz]

To be honest sluts are safer than ones who are pretending to be sweet and modest. Sluts are sluts; modest ones are bitches. And a slut is better than a bitch. Also a slut can change, but a bitch never changes. Virgin women who are above 25 are ones to avoid, those women are nutcases.

[HellGeist]

I dunno bro... I think once a slut ALWAYS a SLUT!

A lot of these Tinderellas are out here riding the cock carousel, giving peices of their souls away to 20, 30, 40+ dudes, and some even engaging in getting DPed by guys.

They can't pair bond well anymore, which just turns them into even bigger sluts. By the time they're 30, they could fill a house with all the men they've been pumped and dumped by.

I would rather take my chances in an LTR with a crazy virgin or low body count girl than these other damaged broads.

Plus some of these sluts are walking biohazards that need to be quarantined 24/7, yesterday.

I'll pass on the sluts, but if guys want to pump and pass them I just hope they double wrap and stay SAFE.

[007kingifrit]

i would like a long term relationship with kids and marriage... but i still need sex until then and if the girl isn't marriage material like she expresses gender nonsense like "i identify as blah and my pronouns are blah" ill still bang her... but i would pump and dump

[DaveToo]

I've had the long-term relationship. While it's nice, long term for me would not be the same for, say, a 25-year-old.

[exitseven]

Maybe you are right about that but when I was in my 20s it was still what I really wanted.

[Jitternation]

No need for generalizations. I don’t even know what my next door neighbor wants nevermind all men. Personally I want something casual and non-commital. You will have other guys who want long-term relationships. Nothing wrong with either preferences.

[jasco]

Well early years sex is usually on the minds of most men, as some of us grow older we may eventually change. However some may never despite how old they become. Of course if the pussy is offering why reject it?