Do you guys think big age gaps are acceptable/sexy/kinky?

[bbygrl_69]

Yes!

No!

[Anonymous]

As a woman married to a man 16 years younger I strongly think such age gaps are acceptable. Before I met my husband I absolutely didn't agree. I never thought they were 'immoral' per se, but I always thought they were 'wrong' in the sense that there was no way someone with that much of an age gap could be compatible in terms of life goals or maturity levels. Maybe it could be some fun fling, but nothing else. Otherwise you're just giving into your midlife crisis that you'll latter regret. However, meeting my husband changed all that. After I decided to have an open mind about the age gap (which took a lot of convincing by the way) I found out we were actually very similar in terms of our maturity levels, life goals, etc. In fact, I was a lot more compatible with him then with a lot of other guys my age I'd dated. Basically, age only means something if it's an indication of incompatible maturity levels and/or goals. If that's not the case age is just a number (as it is with my marriage).

I don't think of age gaps as 'kinky' per se. However, I will say that my husband has a super sexy muscular body most guys my age don't have. He also lasts longer in bed and gets a lot harder then most guys my age (which makes sex a lot better). I suppose in that sense it's 'kinky'.

[lilyanony1]

In all honesty I don't think it really matters. I have been in relationships with guys closer to my age and I personally find them incredibly hard to relate to.
I'm not as socially versed as I'd like and I get really nervous around people my own age. They often feel like their analysing everything about me and calculating what everything means, how I dress, what I earn, where I live, etc etc.
Whereas I've been with older men and although they may be more likely to tell me what they think will help my career etc. They have lots of other interests that don't necessarily focus on the external aesthetics of a person.
They find themselves becoming more rounded by actually having experiences.

I personally think it's about who you meet and get along with.
At the end of the day, your the one spending time with the person getting intimate etc etc. If you can't stand to be around them what's the point?

Forget what others have to say.

[Diodoro]

Case by case

When I was 29 I was seeing a 37-38 year old. When I was 23 I was seeing a 19 year old. Earlier this year at 31 I was seeing a 23 year old.

The youngest I'll go is 22 if she's mature enough. The oldest I'll go is in her 40s if she takes care of herself. It's primarily about the attraction, chemistry, and overall vibe in my opinion

In some cases it is weird that I've seen. In other cases I've seen 15 year age gaps that worked and never felt odd. Pretty sure the oldest I've dated was mid 40s. She was in incredibly good shape and we got along well enough

[DaveJord]

All depends on the ages and women/man. On my part there are sexy women of all ages. But it also depends on what type of relationship she would want. I would be less willing to get seriously involved with a women too much older than I am, but I'd be less willing to get significantly involved with someone too much younger... but I would have a sexual relationship with any attractive women regardless of age... I guess the same may be true for some women.

[TrueConfection]

I don't think it's as widely accepted irl as it is on gag, at least if the guy is older than the girl. I have two female friends who are older than their husbands, one is 10 years older. My mother is older than my father.

My husband and I also have an age gap and he is older than me. I have been told more than once that, "Younger women who are with older men are just gold diggers." So no, I don't think western culture sees age gaps as acceptable.

[t-8900]

I'm currently talking to a woman 13 years older than me and I'm crazy about her tbh. She's just a great all around person and we like the same things romantically! XD

[TrueConfection]

@t-8900 An older woman seems acceptable in society. It's when the man is the older partner that assumptions are made.

[t-8900]

sadly true. When I was talking to an 18 yo that was something. People thought what they thought. I explained when I was 19 I was dating a 36 year old. Age doesn't reflect the heart of the person.

[Comrade_Sandwich]

As much as I want to click "Yes", it's not always that simple. This kink can easily get creepy and out of hand because many people are suffering through unhealthy/untreated disorders. Both parties not only have to be of age and consenting but also have a kind of mutual and honest disposition for one another and the relationship.

TLDR: Many people have hidden agendas, so make sure you 100% trust your partner. Be safe/have fun :)

[kyleelyn199723]

I’m 23 and my man is 32. We are one sexy kinky couple 🤷🏻‍♀️

[WhiteBoyChill]

Says your 24 now. So happy Birthday!

[kyleelyn199723]

@WhiteBoyChill I’ll be 24 in 20 days lol I think I messed up my birthday when I was signing up

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh word.

[DryGermanGuy]

To each their own, as long as it's not such a scenario...:

America's "White trash Cinderella" Anna Nicole Smith

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes it’s acceptable to a certain degree, greatly depends on the reason for attraction, the compatibility etc.

Being attracted Because of age is wrong.

[Aquestion992]

Voted yes
age is actually just a number in a relationship, and has nothing much to do with compatibility. A younger person can have a mature and logical outlook, whereas an older person can have immature traits

[Comrade_Sandwich]

Very well put. Over a handful of years I've realized that for sure... age is just a number. Keep in mind that in some cases, it can be a very representative number.

[ElvenMr]

Yes. If we get along well, it's the best. Usually young girls only want to date older guys, if they also love the gap. So they are also into that. It's a mutual thing, it's not just the men who are into young girls.
Otherwise it wouldn't happen if the girls didn't also want it to happen.

I don't date older women tho. I'm not into that.

[purplepoppy]

Remember if a grey haired wrinkly guy identifies as a 18 year-old you have to fuck him or you're being really offensive.

[Comrade_Sandwich]

Yeah you've def got that unicorn brain

[DizzyDesii]

Its is what it is, but i find nothing hot about dating someone old enough to be your parent or young enough to be your child

[HighValue]

It is perfectly fine. Nothing sexy/kinky about someone's age though.
A big age gap is okay as long as they have compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, and have things in common they enjoy doing together.

[TheorionMage]

Aside from occasional visual appeal...
"WHY" would any vital young woman want an hubristic, inexperienced PEER 'whore dawg'
as her Suitor/Lover?

[Cheechee4me]

Because people like to be going through the same stages as the person they are with. That’s what it means to grow old together. It takes growing and being together.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, age gaps are sexy.. All my ex-GF's were younger
and I treated each of them with total respect and pure love

[Nerdz2003]

No I think its very creepy, Why would an older man/women want to be with someone half their age. Please go and date someone around your age.

[9inchesBIG]

Why do you want to be 20 forever...

[Nerdz2003]

@9inchesBIG No, when I get older I date people around my age.

[9inchesBIG]

Men dont think like you

[Nerdz2003]

@9inchesBIG I mean't when I'm 50 I'll date someone whos around the age of 50

[Nerdz2003]

Do you understand now

[bodiesands]

I believe he's trying to say that men want young women, for the same reason women wish they could stay young (i. e. stay 20 forever).

Because young women are more attractive.

[DonRollins]

Married for 6 years, I'm 23. do the math.

40 and 20 though? That's just an escort most the time.

[Avicenna]

As Long as both parties are adults, I don’t see a problem with big age gaps. It’s compatibility that matters.

[AviatorTom]

Very acceptable. My parents had a large gap in their ages, and stayed married for many years, until my father passed away.

[Seangreen]

It's not always so bad when I was 30 I was dating a 44 year-old. But just by coincidence we kind of we're at the opposite ends of the same generation so I think it's more of a generational thing

[normalice]

If it's just for sex sure but dating someone half my age could be really awkward.

[Anon833]

Acceptable to my wife and me. I’m 31, and she’s 69. We’ve been married for twelve years.

[allaboutyou2]

I've always found age gap appealing, I lost my virginity at 16 years old with my 38 year old neighbor lady. Now that I'm older I find younger women appealing.