Do you guys think big age gaps are acceptable/sexy/kinky?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As a woman married to a man 16 years younger I strongly think such age gaps are acceptable. Before I met my husband I absolutely didn't agree. I never thought they were 'immoral' per se, but I always thought they were 'wrong' in the sense that there was no way someone with that much of an age gap could be compatible in terms of life goals or maturity levels. Maybe it could be some fun fling, but nothing else. Otherwise you're just giving into your midlife crisis that you'll latter regret. However, meeting my husband changed all that. After I decided to have an open mind about the age gap (which took a lot of convincing by the way) I found out we were actually very similar in terms of our maturity levels, life goals, etc. In fact, I was a lot more compatible with him then with a lot of other guys my age I'd dated. Basically, age only means something if it's an indication of incompatible maturity levels and/or goals. If that's not the case age is just a number (as it is with my marriage).

I don't think of age gaps as 'kinky' per se. However, I will say that my husband has a super sexy muscular body most guys my age don't have. He also lasts longer in bed and gets a lot harder then most guys my age (which makes sex a lot better). I suppose in that sense it's 'kinky'.

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

In all honesty I don't think it really matters. I have been in relationships with guys closer to my age and I personally find them incredibly hard to relate to.
I'm not as socially versed as I'd like and I get really nervous around people my own age. They often feel like their analysing everything about me and calculating what everything means, how I dress, what I earn, where I live, etc etc.
Whereas I've been with older men and although they may be more likely to tell me what they think will help my career etc. They have lots of other interests that don't necessarily focus on the external aesthetics of a person.
They find themselves becoming more rounded by actually having experiences.

I personally think it's about who you meet and get along with.
At the end of the day, your the one spending time with the person getting intimate etc etc. If you can't stand to be around them what's the point?

Forget what others have to say.

Diodoro · Accepted Answer

Case by case

When I was 29 I was seeing a 37-38 year old. When I was 23 I was seeing a 19 year old. Earlier this year at 31 I was seeing a 23 year old.

The youngest I'll go is 22 if she's mature enough. The oldest I'll go is in her 40s if she takes care of herself. It's primarily about the attraction, chemistry, and overall vibe in my opinion

In some cases it is weird that I've seen. In other cases I've seen 15 year age gaps that worked and never felt odd. Pretty sure the oldest I've dated was mid 40s. She was in incredibly good shape and we got along well enough

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

All depends on the ages and women/man. On my part there are sexy women of all ages. But it also depends on what type of relationship she would want. I would be less willing to get seriously involved with a women too much older than I am, but I'd be less willing to get significantly involved with someone too much younger... but I would have a sexual relationship with any attractive women regardless of age... I guess the same may be true for some women.

TrueConfection · Answer

I don't think it's as widely accepted irl as it is on gag, at least if the guy is older than the girl. I have two female friends who are older than their husbands, one is 10 years older. My mother is older than my father.

My husband and I also have an age gap and he is older than me. I have been told more than once that, "Younger women who are with older men are just gold diggers." So no, I don't think western culture sees age gaps as acceptable.

Comrade_Sandwich · Answer

As much as I want to click "Yes", it's not always that simple. This kink can easily get creepy and out of hand because many people are suffering through unhealthy/untreated disorders. Both parties not only have to be of age and consenting but also have a kind of mutual and honest disposition for one another and the relationship.

TLDR: Many people have hidden agendas, so make sure you 100% trust your partner. Be safe/have fun :)

kyleelyn199723 · Answer

I’m 23 and my man is 32. We are one sexy kinky couple 🤷🏻‍♀️

DryGermanGuy · Answer

To each their own, as long as it's not such a scenario...: America's "White trash Cinderella" Anna Nicole Smith

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes it’s acceptable to a certain degree, greatly depends on the reason for attraction, the compatibility etc. Being attracted Because of age is wrong.

Aquestion992 · Answer

Voted yes
age is actually just a number in a relationship, and has nothing much to do with compatibility. A younger person can have a mature and logical outlook, whereas an older person can have immature traits

ElvenMr · Answer

Yes. If we get along well, it's the best. Usually young girls only want to date older guys, if they also love the gap. So they are also into that. It's a mutual thing, it's not just the men who are into young girls.
Otherwise it wouldn't happen if the girls didn't also want it to happen.

I don't date older women tho. I'm not into that.

purplepoppy · Answer

Remember if a grey haired wrinkly guy identifies as a 18 year-old you have to fuck him or you're being really offensive.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Its is what it is, but i find nothing hot about dating someone old enough to be your parent or young enough to be your child

HighValue · Answer

It is perfectly fine. Nothing sexy/kinky about someone's age though.
A big age gap is okay as long as they have compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, and have things in common they enjoy doing together.

TheorionMage · Answer

Aside from occasional visual appeal...  "WHY" would any vital young woman want an hubristic, inexperienced PEER 'whore dawg' as her Suitor/Lover?

Nerdz2003 · Answer

No I think its very creepy, Why would an older man/women want to be with someone half their age. Please go and date someone around your age.

Avicenna · Answer

As Long as both parties are adults, I don’t see a problem with big age gaps. It’s compatibility that matters.

AviatorTom · Answer

Very acceptable. My parents had a large gap in their ages, and stayed married for many years, until my father passed away.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, age gaps are sexy.. All my ex-GF's were younger  and I treated each of them with total respect and pure love

Seangreen · Answer

It's not always so bad when I was 30 I was dating a 44 year-old. But just by coincidence we kind of we're at the opposite ends of the same generation so I think it's more of a generational thing

normalice · Answer

If it's just for sex sure but dating someone half my age could be really awkward.

DonRollins · Answer

Married for 6 years, I'm 23. do the math.  40 and 20 though? That's just an escort most the time.

Anon833 · Answer

Acceptable to my wife and me. I’m 31, and she’s 69. We’ve been married for twelve years.

allaboutyou2 · Answer

I've always found age gap appealing, I lost my virginity at 16 years old with my 38 year old neighbor lady. Now that I'm older I find younger women appealing.

TaleTeller · Answer

I usually dated younger women, 6-0 years, but my first (My 'teacher') was 12 years older than I and then there was a woman who approached me for a long while who I broke down finally with who was 27 years younger.

Cheechee4me · Answer

That’s kind of a loaded question. Just because something is acceptable, doesn’t mean I think it’s sexy or kinky per day.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Im 35 and my girl is 19 and we been together a year. We both love the gap. She only was looking to date guys 10 to 20 years older. And i was seeking the reverse. Worked out perfect.

animesenpai · Answer

As long as people are happy and not being preditory I don't care what they do

Pj1981 · Answer

If you are an adult and you are OK with it that's all that matters

exitseven · Answer

I would say maybe acceptable but not kinky or sexy.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I honestly isn't interested in girls under 18 or over 60, but anything else I honestly don't mind.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Age gaps don't matter to me; they are not special or anything extraordinary. Ultimately, age doesn't matter to me; compatibility does.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

The biggest age gape that I have been with is someone who was 32 years younger. That lasted about 2 1/2 years, but we were not seeing each other or dating. Nothing but sex.

MandyandScott · Answer

My 2nd wife was senior to me by 12.5 years, and a freak as long as the drugs didn’t run out

Ironic_Method · Answer

Yes, sometimes. I'm in one myself and it's been great... but have heard horror stories as well.

houstontexans · Answer

It still feels weird at my age but everyone's parents that I know all have decent age gaps so I guess it's acceptable.

varan69 · Answer

Once I went out with a lady 14 years older than me (I was 24) I started to like older women its just fun, sexy and kinky

WhyteNiqqa · Answer

Well duh. Why do. yoi think so many guys are pedos and hardly aj woman are?

pink_and_inlove · Answer

Tbh I find it a bit disturbing 😂 I wouldn’t want to date someone more than 5 years older than me

Morgador · Answer

For me it's not something I want but I don't have any issues with it

007kingifrit · Answer

you asked multiple questions in one. i can't answer with a yes or no

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

That’s like if a chicken and a archaeopteryx crossbred

2021biguy · Answer

If 2 people love each other, it shouldn't matter to other people.

TallAnon · Answer

As long as they are all consenting adults, it's not my problem. I'm not into it.

noohair · Answer

Age is a socially imposed thing. It limits your chances of finding true love.

Zygum · Answer

I don't have problem of sex with older or younger than me

Bdsmaster · Answer

For sex probably yes luv but for relationship I don't think so.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I think 15+ age gap isn't a good idea for me. She must be at least 20

ForestPark · Answer

As long as they are legal adults who am I to judge.

GlennWillislovesyou · Answer

I dated a girl that was 14 years older than me and she was hot! I liked her a lot.

Ryantg · Answer

Most definitely I've always wanted to bang my friends moms haha.

Zlantur2 · Answer

Yeah, I like older and younger women than me. How about you?

Anonymous · Answer

Its always exciting to meet a girl who just turned 18

Anonymous · Answer

Sexy for sure. I love dating/fucking older women. It's such a turn on.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Yes for acceptable but no for sexy / kinky.

Anonymous · Answer

It's amazing how if a guy is older It's creepy and gross but if the woman is older she a cougar and empowering

Layafell · Answer

There are always exceptions but generally yes

MCheetah · Answer

Neutral. I don't care.

hahahmm · Answer

Depends on the details.

Browneye57 · Answer

They're fine for a fuck. Not much else.

ImRetarded · Answer

71 year age gap minimum.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes but it’s not a kink

OddBeMe · Answer

For guys it’s usually about young flesh.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

my moms friend, 75, is married to a man, 95

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