Do you guys think big age gaps are acceptable/sexy/kinky?

[bbygrl_69]

Yes!

No!

[Anonymous]

As a woman married to a man 16 years younger I strongly think such age gaps are acceptable. Before I met my husband I absolutely didn't agree. I never thought they were 'immoral' per se, but I always thought they were 'wrong' in the sense that there was no way someone with that much of an age gap could be compatible in terms of life goals or maturity levels. Maybe it could be some fun fling, but nothing else. Otherwise you're just giving into your midlife crisis that you'll latter regret. However, meeting my husband changed all that. After I decided to have an open mind about the age gap (which took a lot of convincing by the way) I found out we were actually very similar in terms of our maturity levels, life goals, etc. In fact, I was a lot more compatible with him then with a lot of other guys my age I'd dated. Basically, age only means something if it's an indication of incompatible maturity levels and/or goals. If that's not the case age is just a number (as it is with my marriage).

I don't think of age gaps as 'kinky' per se. However, I will say that my husband has a super sexy muscular body most guys my age don't have. He also lasts longer in bed and gets a lot harder then most guys my age (which makes sex a lot better). I suppose in that sense it's 'kinky'.

[lilyanony1]

In all honesty I don't think it really matters. I have been in relationships with guys closer to my age and I personally find them incredibly hard to relate to.
I'm not as socially versed as I'd like and I get really nervous around people my own age. They often feel like their analysing everything about me and calculating what everything means, how I dress, what I earn, where I live, etc etc.
Whereas I've been with older men and although they may be more likely to tell me what they think will help my career etc. They have lots of other interests that don't necessarily focus on the external aesthetics of a person.
They find themselves becoming more rounded by actually having experiences.

I personally think it's about who you meet and get along with.
At the end of the day, your the one spending time with the person getting intimate etc etc. If you can't stand to be around them what's the point?

Forget what others have to say.

[Diodoro]

Case by case

When I was 29 I was seeing a 37-38 year old. When I was 23 I was seeing a 19 year old. Earlier this year at 31 I was seeing a 23 year old.

The youngest I'll go is 22 if she's mature enough. The oldest I'll go is in her 40s if she takes care of herself. It's primarily about the attraction, chemistry, and overall vibe in my opinion

In some cases it is weird that I've seen. In other cases I've seen 15 year age gaps that worked and never felt odd. Pretty sure the oldest I've dated was mid 40s. She was in incredibly good shape and we got along well enough

[DaveJord]

All depends on the ages and women/man. On my part there are sexy women of all ages. But it also depends on what type of relationship she would want. I would be less willing to get seriously involved with a women too much older than I am, but I'd be less willing to get significantly involved with someone too much younger... but I would have a sexual relationship with any attractive women regardless of age... I guess the same may be true for some women.

[DryGermanGuy]

To each their own, as long as it's not such a scenario...:

America's "White trash Cinderella" Anna Nicole Smith

[Comrade_Sandwich]

As much as I want to click "Yes", it's not always that simple. This kink can easily get creepy and out of hand because many people are suffering through unhealthy/untreated disorders. Both parties not only have to be of age and consenting but also have a kind of mutual and honest disposition for one another and the relationship.

TLDR: Many people have hidden agendas, so make sure you 100% trust your partner. Be safe/have fun :)

[TrueConfection]

I don't think it's as widely accepted irl as it is on gag, at least if the guy is older than the girl. I have two female friends who are older than their husbands, one is 10 years older. My mother is older than my father.

My husband and I also have an age gap and he is older than me. I have been told more than once that, "Younger women who are with older men are just gold diggers." So no, I don't think western culture sees age gaps as acceptable.

[t-8900]

I'm currently talking to a woman 13 years older than me and I'm crazy about her tbh. She's just a great all around person and we like the same things romantically! XD

[TrueConfection]

@t-8900 An older woman seems acceptable in society. It's when the man is the older partner that assumptions are made.

[t-8900]

sadly true. When I was talking to an 18 yo that was something. People thought what they thought. I explained when I was 19 I was dating a 36 year old. Age doesn't reflect the heart of the person.

[kyleelyn199723]

I’m 23 and my man is 32. We are one sexy kinky couple 🤷🏻‍♀️

[WhiteBoyChill]

Says your 24 now. So happy Birthday!

[kyleelyn199723]

@WhiteBoyChill I’ll be 24 in 20 days lol I think I messed up my birthday when I was signing up

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh word.

[DonRollins]

Married for 6 years, I'm 23. do the math.

40 and 20 though? That's just an escort most the time.

[AviatorTom]

Very acceptable. My parents had a large gap in their ages, and stayed married for many years, until my father passed away.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes it’s acceptable to a certain degree, greatly depends on the reason for attraction, the compatibility etc.

Being attracted Because of age is wrong.

[Seangreen]

It's not always so bad when I was 30 I was dating a 44 year-old. But just by coincidence we kind of we're at the opposite ends of the same generation so I think it's more of a generational thing

[Aquestion992]

Voted yes
age is actually just a number in a relationship, and has nothing much to do with compatibility. A younger person can have a mature and logical outlook, whereas an older person can have immature traits

[Comrade_Sandwich]

Very well put. Over a handful of years I've realized that for sure... age is just a number. Keep in mind that in some cases, it can be a very representative number.

[normalice]

If it's just for sex sure but dating someone half my age could be really awkward.

[ElvenMr]

Yes. If we get along well, it's the best. Usually young girls only want to date older guys, if they also love the gap. So they are also into that. It's a mutual thing, it's not just the men who are into young girls.
Otherwise it wouldn't happen if the girls didn't also want it to happen.

I don't date older women tho. I'm not into that.

[bamesjond0069]

Im 35 and my girl is 19 and we been together a year. We both love the gap. She only was looking to date guys 10 to 20 years older. And i was seeking the reverse. Worked out perfect.

[exitseven]

I would say maybe acceptable but not kinky or sexy.

[Dchrls78104]

Age gaps don't matter to me; they are not special or anything extraordinary. Ultimately, age doesn't matter to me; compatibility does.

[purplepoppy]

Remember if a grey haired wrinkly guy identifies as a 18 year-old you have to fuck him or you're being really offensive.

[Comrade_Sandwich]

Yeah you've def got that unicorn brain

[HighValue]

It is perfectly fine. Nothing sexy/kinky about someone's age though.
A big age gap is okay as long as they have compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, and have things in common they enjoy doing together.

[MandyandScott]

My 2nd wife was senior to me by 12.5 years, and a freak as long as the drugs didn’t run out

[Ironic_Method]

Yes, sometimes. I'm in one myself and it's been great... but have heard horror stories as well.

[houstontexans]

It still feels weird at my age but everyone's parents that I know all have decent age gaps so I guess it's acceptable.

[varan69]

Once I went out with a lady 14 years older than me (I was 24) I started to like older women its just fun, sexy and kinky