Would you date a guy with a diaper fetish?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't personally. But I mean it seems harmless. Just his dick gets hard to an inanimate object. Is that bad enough you wouldn't date him even if you thought he was cute or was a good match for you?

Yes

No

It depends.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Not gonna lie, the first time I had heard about this one years ago I freaked out when the guy told me about it. I got like LEGIT mad. I thought he was involving actual kids and I wanted to hit him in the face and report him to the police.

I had it explained to me more and realized that ultimately in a lot of cases it is just a variation of the sub/dom thing with a particular twist. Earlier this year I got reintroduced to a variation of this called ddlg which I found to be more of my speed. It is a good way to mentally check out for a bit, although there are parts of that community that I still get squeamish about.

I am a switch cg, but I don't think I could do changing or anything because I am a germaphobe.

[Asker]

Yeah, a lot of people think that because diapers are associated with kids. Like I was telling the other girl on that I don’t have that fetish but I have a Chastity and the woman I was with had a caregiver fetish. When tried a diaper it kind of worked with my chastity fetish because it’s like I can’t do any because a soft padded surface is keeping me from my dick doing anything. I didn’t know a pamper would have that effect. But I prefer other items though.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I mean, I do caregiver but it doesn't involve any of that. It's more just showing lots of affection and checking in on them a lot to make sure they are remembering to take care of themselves (this is usually really helpful for those who are really depressed). More like an accountability buddy, but with more of a motherly tone.

[Asker]

I wish I had you as a girlfriend.

[FlaffyCheez]

Bruh...

I'm not about that particular fetish life js. I wouldn't really mind it if it was like a every 3-6 months type thing.

If its a weekly or bi weekly fetish or even daily, he'll no. Just no. I'm not about that life, it just doesn't doesn't with my lifestyle.

[Asker]

I know a girl that dates one and she agree to change him as long as he doesn't shit himself in it. So he only pees in it. And she agreed change him every 2 month because she said if he uses them too much he will become diaper depended. But sometimes she just puts them on for him if he really want it. He only wears them for an hour and he take it off. they still have normal sex most of the time. He doesn't use them everyday she said and most of the time they're dry. Would you agree to it as long as you don't have to change or as long he only takes a piss in it. Because I already can tell you ain't wiping his shit covered ass.

[FlaffyCheez]

Yeah no I ain't doing that you right lmaoooo.

I wouldn't agree to her arrangement...
Like I don't think I could be in a relationship with a guy who is regularly practicing/indulging in this kind of fetish. Like I said it would have to be once every 3-6 months that he is even putting on this diaper... not me changing it...

Shiiiiz I ain't even think about the changing part, I was just thinking he wanted to be a baby 🤦🏽‍♀️ I am too naive for this kind of kink that is clear.

[Asker]

Lmao. you're not into it and you have that as your profile picture. From I heard there are two parts to the fetish. It's called ab/dl. the DL wants to be put in a diaper and then after they go in it they climax and they're done. They want to be changed or be treated like a baby. They just get off from the embarrassment. The is the one that wants changing to be fed, given a bath, you the care giver stuff. Alright I'm not going to lie I don't have that fetish, but I was with a woman who had some kind of platonic caregivers or mommy fetish. She enjoyed the power exchange and she enjoyed humiliating men. She wanted me to wear a diaper and I had no idea they adult diapers with cartoon pictures on them. She would put me in a diaper give me a suppository she told it makes her horny seeing a man's faces when he's struggling to hold and just can't. She would climax after i blew up. It was weirdest shit i ever did. Thank god I'm not with her anymore. I hated doing that. But i was willing to do it because I loved her. But never again.

[FlaffyCheez]

I actually changed pfp on purpose just cause of this!! Lmaoooo.
Was like "oh look at that"
Yeah that's an interesting experience.
I'm a mommy and girl kink myself. A bit of a switch majority of the time as fate would have it.
Degradation has no place in any of my relationships kink or no kink I am ain't about that life. My mommy kink is more on the nurturing pampering side. "Let me take care of everything for you while you relax" type of thing and comes and goes. If I'm in an extremely happy mood I regress to a girl with mommy traits, who wants daddy to be proud of being able to take care of herself and him for a bit...

But its never gotten into pampers... or the like lmaooooo

[Asker]

Yeah, she had times where she enjoyed taking care of me like a baby. And sometimes she just wanted to see me struggle to hold it. Yeah, it's stigmatized fetish. And it's really not that bad for people who don't have it and are in a relationship with someone. I'm not going to like I kind of enjoyed the times where she just acted more as a care giver, made dinosaur chicken nuggets, and fed me. But the shittying myself part I hated it. It's not that bad tbh. I have the Chasity fetish and the diaper is kind of like a chasity device in away. So I don't a diaper fetish but I still got turnet because of the whole chasity component to it. It's my dick wants to fuck but it's a soft padded surface blocking me from doing anything. I was afraid to admit I like it sometimes. But that's cool that you're a mommy. I'm happy to see more women like coming out. But I much prefer other thing besides a pamper. But it was nice sometimes. I don't have a diaper fetish, but the diaper works with my chastity fetish. Which I have no Idea that a diaper can do that.

[FlaffyCheez]

Ah I could see that

[Asker]

I’m to meet someone on here that’s into the care giving. She said she likes having her boyfriends in pampers because a lot of times guys get a real hard on and she doesn’t feel comfortable seeing a guy getting raging boner all the time. And she think it looks cute when the guys dick gets hard, but it can’t come out. I wasn’t with it at first. But it wasn’t that bad.

[FlaffyCheez]

Lmaooooo ohhh ok interesting

[Asker]

Yeah, everyone got their kink. But I ain’t going back into diapers like that again.

[FlaffyCheez]

Lmaoooo I feel that

[Asker]

Lmao 🤣. After thinking about it for a little bit why I put up with all that BS? The “awe your dick looks so cute trying getting hard” bs. she was stupid tbh. I should’ve left sooner.

[FlaffyCheez]

Ope, probably so. I mean you just barely enjoyed it overall right?

[Asker]

Like the watching cartoon and when she was play i enjoyed it a lot. But the constant wanting to watch me shit myself and insults got to me after a while.

[Asker]

I think you cool. You don’t mind if I follow.

[FlaffyCheez]

Yeah no problem I'm new on this don't know how this stuff works just answering randomly to kill some time lmaooo

[Asker]

Alright I followed not sure if we can dm because we are level 1

[Asker]

I added on my friends other account so I can message you on that one.