Should I be annoyed he doesn’t tweet about me?

[blondefun1]

My ex and I are getting back together and I feel like I have told my friends and family and have brought him into my life more than he has brought me into his. He tweets his girl-friends and makes it sound like he’s not talking to someone… I got upset bc he subtweeted me (it wasn’t bad but I knew it was about me). I said he never tweets anything good about me. We FaceTimed and he could obviously tell I was upset about it. He laughed it off and made sarcastic jokes. Then he said he would tweet about me and said “being blonde and fun is hot” (my Twitter handle handle is ‘blonde fun’) Like that could be about anyone! I’m not going to ask him to tweet about me but I want him to because he wants to. So do I have a right to be upset? We ended the FaceTime really bad because I didn’t want to cry. He hasn’t said anything to me. What should I do? It’s on my mind and I don't know if I was being too dramatic or if I have a reason to feel this way?

[Starla1234]

You should DEFINITELY be annoyed that he is tweeting other girls and acting like he isn’t with you, because that’s awful, but maybe don’t get caught up in whether he tweets about you or not... it doesn’t really matter if he sticks your name up on social media or not, what really matters is how he treats you in real life. I know people who are couples that have they’re partners names on each other’s social media pages, and post cute ‘couple goals’ pictures, and are actually TERRIBLE together in real life... let him know how he shouldn’t be talking to other girls if you are in a relationship with him, but don’t tell him to tweet about you, it’s just a bit weird and is completely unnecessary in my opinion. Good luck :)

[Anonymous]

I’d say to be patient, rather than getting upset about this. You said that you guys are getting back together, and to me that means you aren’t quite in a relationship officially again. So I wouldn’t expect him to be broadcasting the situation yet, even if you were eager to do so. Also I’d say that in choosing your battles, whether he tweets about your or not doesn’t need to be one. It just doesn’t seem like a big enough deal to get upset and want to cry over.

[blondefun1]

Yes I agree and of course I’m realizing that after the conversation happened. I want to text him and be like “that was ridiculous and I’m just in my feels” but I also don’t want to

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t have to apologize to him if you don’t feel wrong. It’s just a matter of changing your approach to that situation going forward.

[blondefun1]

Update: I was talking to my friends about it and went and pulled it up again. Some girl said “tell me about it” and he liked the tweet. Wtf. What should I do?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think that means anything, that’s a pretty simple tweet. Regardless you couldn’t really say anything until you guys are together again. Unfortunately he’s acting within his rights as a single person.

[Sam_The_Savage]

Honey you have strong reason to feel that way... I feel you baby. You don't deserve him you deserve better. 😘❤️

[blondefun1]

Thank you for making me not sound crazy. I need to pick and chose my battles. It just really bothers me and I want him to want to show me off…

[Sam_The_Savage]

Honey be with the man who feel proud to have you. And you deserve the man who feel proud to have you. 😘❤️

[jahaims]

Why would you want him to tweet about you

[msc545]

You actually CARE about something this trivial?