In dating, is it better to chase or to be chased? (Page 2)
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I like to be chased, but not to the point where I get so annoyed with them that I don’t like them anymore. I’ve had that happen.
Once we start chasing, if we start chasing, we won't stop at ALL untill you tell us to.
Everyone wants to be chased but it's a game of patience.
If you don't play well then the game turns other way round.
Both. Not either one or the other. If there's no balance, he probably isn't the guy for you
men who chase are an absolute turn off. I have a few hundred currently in my pms and they think I will get turned on by them.
Chased, because then you at least know your efforts of pursuit are reciprocated and there is interest.
I don't want to chase at all. I want to say "I like you, so lets get to know each other".
If someone says that what happens next? Who instigates the first date?
Then I would. I correlate chase with playing hard to get.
no longer wear the uniform anymore... chasing isn't in my vocabulary or mindset. Why do we have to chase? can't it be just just meeting in the middle?
I prefer a bit of both. I have no problem chasing you if you give me a chance, and I'll reciprocate your love and affection.
I like a man to start the chase and then I reciprocate. I don't want to be seen as an easy slut.
I want them to initiate.
Kinda like tag. Your it. Lul.
I prefer to chase especially when I know the girl likes me I like to surprise her and make her feel special
No one likes to feel undesired unfortunately for guys like me who struggle with woman with no clear idea on why it's all I ever feel like.
I don't chase nor want to be chased. Let's just talk and get know each other.
I've never been chased, but it might be nice. The chaser takes all the risk of rejection.
I treat dating like serial killing. Always the chaser.
Sounds exhausting.
@dustybiker right? Thank you for the sympathy.
You’d look good as a lampshade.
:)
Remember a psychopath is attractive because of his confidence and finds approaching easy.
@OddBeMe 🤣🤣🤣 That is so damn creepy!!! Love it.
@Slartybartfast So very true.
@dustybiker and you’ll be my toilet seat cover.
One step too far I feel.
@OddBeMe Yeah. It’s official. You’re even more of an oddball than me. Thanks for that. Made me feel much better about myself. lol I could have been really mean and just stayed silent on reply for 24 hrs. ‘What you think I’m thinking’ and all those mind games. It’s Christmas though. 🙃
@dustybiker in my defense I meant to reply to the other guy. Didn’t mean to target you twice :)
Ah. Well, that sucks the fun out of it.
@dustybiker yeah when the freak turns out to be a normal beta male…uhg.
lmao
I don't chase and I probably wouldn't know I was being chased
I used to hate being chased, but that was when I still had to focus on school/college.
@JosyJosy
Well I guess this poll ends the myth that guys hate being pursued.
Only guys that hate being pursued one rich ones or ones with some serious game
To be chased, least I know they're interested, even if its not for long after lol
To be chased, which is why women have it so easy in the dating world.