I feel like every guy isn't happy with my looks and wants to date their dream looking girl what should I do?

Question

This is what I look like

FlutteringFeelings · Accepted Answer

Self-love. Whether you come across the man of your dreams or not you have to ask yourself if you’re emotionally ready to date him. If you don’t love yourself how can you give that love to another guy who’s confident in himself? Relationships where one person isn’t secure in themselves never last.
He’s the man of your dreams and you feel insecure whether you’re enough for him, if he’ll leave, is his ex better looking than you, and so many questions that will run through your mind.

With self-love you’re not seeking validation from the worlds population of men because if you believe in being in a relationship with one man then that will be on your agenda. I was in your shoes before and I thought that every guy I came across had to be attracted to me. I wanted to know if a guy was staring at me because it made me feel wanted. When I loved myself I barely pay attention to the guys and now they’re approaching.

I realized that quantity isn’t always quality. Every guy can be at your feet and there will be 1 out of the 100 who’s genuinely interested. The other guys are approaching because they’re looking for sex, an emotional teddy bear, rebound after a relationship, flings, one night stands, and the list goes on. Once
you realize that a man valuing you is more important than a man solely listing after you will change your perspective on dating.

I look at you and you’re so pretty and it truly sucks that you can’t see that. It sucks that you believe validation from other guys will either add or take away from whether you consider yourself desirable or not. I pray that in the year of 2022 that you learn self-love, you recognize your unique beauty, and you heal from whoever told you in life that you weren’t pretty enough.

Gina90_0 · Accepted Answer

Hey I'm a bisexual feminine girl so I don't know if it counts but to me you're super cute.
My friend who is sitting next to me and he is a 8/10 (we are just friends) said you look hot and would ask you out. I think many guys like to set high standards on what they are looking for and I'm not talking about intelligence but they love pick me girls I guess. So many times I was rejected by guys because I change outfits really easily (sometimes I dress up like a suicide girl, usually I wear office clothing, sometimes I like going out with wigs and teen looking, sometimes pick me girl as well)
I really would like to be strong enough to not care about rejecetions but what I would say to you is that we should keep up with our lives and we will meet the right guy who likes us for who we are. 😘

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

There is NOTHING wrong with your 'daily' face and I can only imagine what could be done with a truly 'glam' make-up artist's handiwork. In some cities there are portrait studios called 'Glamour Shots' you should book a sitting for full glam.

You want to take those contact prints to consider which you want... have a female confidante show them around to HER friends for an unbiased assessment of your 'best' look.

Buy a 5x7 of that one and clip it to your make-up or bathroom mirror. We SELDOM are fully aware of our potential and how Other's PREFER to imagine us~ 'Looks' get you an audience, your personality and style is what 'sells' them to your 'audition'. BUT... don't be 'fake', trying to do / be what down deeply makes you uncomfortable, is soul-crushing.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Trust me any guy with a "dream girl" that looks soooo good you don't even compare isn't worth your time.

Because I got news for you: you're attractive.
So any guy who really knows the value of intimacy and how to navigate the dating world will be intersted in you.

Now if this is about some specific guy who's a full on male model himself and insists on seeing only the superficial playboy level girls then you need to look elsewhere but that's not to say lower your standards too much only explore the options of a decent guy with a good head on his shoulders.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If I was in your age range, I would be very excited about having a date with a girl who looks like you!

justafoolisall · Answer

Look I’m not being a bitch, this is the nicest possible way I can say this but you’re fucking stunning. You’re stupid if you think otherwise.

If a guy is literally saying he isn’t happy with the way you look he is not worth your time and didn’t love you to begin with.

honeslty you are so stunning please don’t feel less to any man, I’d love to be your hype girl, any day anytime. xx

HighValue · Answer

I like your looks and I am one of the picky ones. I like that you aren't covered with make up and have no visible tattoos.
I would date a girl with your looks if she was compatible with me morally, had compatible long term life goals, some interests in common that we could enjoy together, and if she had a past that was acceptable to me.

jaykumar123 · Answer

Well that's what anyone does when they don't have the courage to say that they feel there's lack of compatibility or they aren't interested.
We aren't perfect but we are all good enough and we shouldn't be waiting for someone to come and tell that to us.
I've dated girls who told me I am a husband material and they are just looking for a fling and so we should not go ahead or else we will end up falling for each other and will break some or the other heart. Like seriously 😂.

will20834 · Answer

Of course every guy (and girl or whoever) wants to date their dream partner, and maybe you’re not everyone’s dream girl, but you’re certainly a dream girl for lots of people. Honestly if any dude had an issue with your looks he is either blind or has incredibly high standards, but then again different people like different things and you can’t be attractive to everyone even if you are pretty like yourself. Try to focus on people who give you the time of day and are clearly interested, because lots of people should be.

TonyV · Answer

Well no EVERY guy isn't happy with your looks, you will never make every guy happy, it's just not possible. There are so many preferences it impossible to be what everyone wants.

You look fine cutie, don't sweat it, I'm sure plenty of guys are interested.

ohshee · Answer

Well I hate to burst your bubble first of all you look good second of all you are guys dream girl that they dream of you have Beauty you have character you had this sexiness you have this naughty kind of look to you you look like you had character you look like you have a beautiful heart if I was you I would just look for a whole nother group of guys because you're just at the wrong place at the wrong time it will all change for you

Fireguy17 · Answer

you really shouldn't worry about every guy, no one is attractive to every guy.
If they think they are then they are only fooling themselves.
All you have to do is be yourself and at some point, you will attract the right guy who will be lucky to have found you, and you will get along great.
Life is too short trying to please everyone, in doing so you might just miss the guy that is right for you because you are too busy trying to be someone that you aren't.

InYourHead · Answer

You're beautiful. Don't let guys determine your value.

TrueCaliGirl07 · Answer

When guys say they say they want their "Dream Girl" they are living in a fantasy world. Its unrealistic. What one guy sees as his "Dream Girl" another thinks she's far from it.
Why do you think they are called "Dream Girls"?

VikingWarLord · Answer

Average face, small t! ts, lanky body I'm assuming (5'5 and 120 ?), definitely CuckQuean material. 5 out of 10, maybe 5.5 at your best. I'd definitely cheat eventually if we were in a relationship (don't take it personal, I've cheated on every ex with small t! ts). But, you could try putting on tons of makeup, wearing a pushup bra and wearing sexier clothing. It'll help your chances.

Honestguyopen · Answer

Find a guy who likes you for more than just what you look like. When you meet him, don't go out of your way to dress up for the first few dates. See if he treats you well. If he does, then start adding different makeup and dress. But you are naturally beautiful in this picture. I would be happy with this look.

DWornock · Answer

If you look like that, you shouldn't have any problem attracting 90% of guys. That doesn't mean you can compete with the top 5% of girls that are models, beautiful, or extremely stunning. Your problem is you reject guys that are not in the to 10% and they are hard to please since they can have most any girl they want.

donnny2367764 · Answer

Ho ey if you ever came across my way, I would sweep you off your feet in a second.
My charm would highly intoxicate your hormones and my way with words would make you so wet you would want to take me to a movie theater to make out non stop.
You are very good looking and any guy who thinks otherwise is not worth your time.
Stay beautiful and keep your head up high.
Love your selfie so much I would love to save it on my phone!!

Interstate · Answer

Personally I think you are beautiful. I love how you keep your hair, and you have a BEAUTIFUL smile 😍 I mean this as a compliment, it is not intended to be interpreted as a "hit" or flirt.

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

Well, I can tell you right now (at least in my opinion) that there's nothing wrong with your looks that I can see right off the bat. Maybe it's just the way you are with guys or that you're sending the wrong signals when talking with them even.

Denier · Answer

Never EVER change because some guys said “you’re not their type” or something
You are beautiful just the way you are and remember if you aren’t their type you are someone else’s
Again be however YOU want to be don’t let a guy determine that

Kittycurious · Answer

You are an attractive woman. I think you are aware of that. You look quite confident in the picture. Are you fishing for compliments?

TwinTonyz · Answer

Prime Quality Bait

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Erm, I would tell them to fuck off if they are not interested. you look great, bugger all wrong with you. if they are like that, you are better off without them,

Lionman95 · Answer

Wait until you meet a guy does like your look. Because changing the way you look would get you what you want.

Mary087 · Answer

You are beautiful and tbh you look younger than late 20s only like 21 or 22. Those guys are missing out on you.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

I think you're pretty enough, people looking for their dream women (or man) are living in a fantasy world in my opinion.

bgreek · Answer

Let me say"That guy's loss, another guy's gain" On a scale 1-10 with 10 being hot I'd give you 9, don't worry what people say? There are plenty of guys for you to choose from

buddysboy16 · Answer

You look fantastic girl! Keep looking and you'll find a guy that sees you as his dream girl

Avicenna · Answer

There is nothing wrong with your looks. However, every guy isn’t going to be right for you anyway, so prioritize the ones who are compatible.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

how do you not know how pretty you really are? Seriously? If a guy dumps you for a more attractive girl, then he did you a favor.

slatyb · Answer

Get over that. You are Sofa King cute. Five cushions. A man would be lucky to have a partner as lovely as you.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

Don’t worry about making guys happy, especially not “every guy.” Worry about making you happy.

loveslongnails · Answer

You're dating the wrong guys. You look great!! Message me, I'll pick you for dinner at 7 ! Oh wait, where do you live?

ElvenMr · Answer

Gonna state the obvious, you need to find the guy who finds you beautiful.

That sounds a bit like i just said you are not beautiful, but you are.
You remind me of my swim teacher. I had a thing for her by the way.. hah.

EbonyPrincess · Answer

Find YOUR dream man. Never accept to be a second option. They have seight issues in your area.🙄.

DJaQueef · Answer

Revenge. Pull as many upper deckers as possible then flee the scene.

BCA6010 · Answer

I don't think your looks are what's holding you back.

Robertfootball · Answer

I bet you’ve rejected and friendzoned many guys, so I’m not buying your pity party. Sorry.

PeterQuillsAlive · Answer

You look beautiful :) don't worry about the losers! would you mind answering some of the questions I posted?

Stevefiveo · Answer

You are very pretty. The only thing I would suggest is some makeup and something a little different with your hair.

Shamalien · Answer

you must be chasing the top 10% of men because 90% of men would be totally happy over the fkn moon for you incl myself

Soremain · Answer

You're above my league and expectations and I'm at least 7,8/10

MelonSoda · Answer

There's tons of guys into girls like you. You're just not running into the right ones, I assume.

Anonymous · Answer

You know how most women like guys to have confidence? We like it to in you. It's hard isn't it? lol But you're very attractive, so have some confidence! It will show and make you even more attractive.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Honestly you look great. Don’t worry about it too much. Women always have untrue thoughts in their heads. You are very pretty and if I didn’t think so, I would have skipped the question.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Aww, you look beautiful darling , don't be so down on yourself <3 <3 <3

boredKen · Answer

New is always more exciting. I don't think it's to do with your looks. You look good.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol. I love how fake problems are real in peoples minds. It's always so sad to me. If only she could see what we all see.

CoolGuy7532 · Answer

You look really nice. I would go on a date with you. You just need to find a guy who is not a jerk.

bowenw · Answer

You are beautiful. You can't worry if some guys are too blind to see that.

Shubham614 · Answer

U should find people who adore and respect u as u are , u dont need 2 change urself 4 somones else fantasy. Love ur self 😚

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Let me guess. Guys just want to be fuck buddies? Keep your values strong and a good man will come along one day. I’d give you a 7 out of 10.

Hulk30 · Answer

look your best but simultaneously date the men that appreciate your looks and as fine as ya are if i wasn't in a monagomous relationship and ya wanted it you'd actually be pregnant by me

TsAubreyKate · Answer

I feel like women don’t want to date me because my sex drive is too potent

Anonymous · Answer

Date someone old enough to know that life is not a fairy tale.

linka_pat307 · Answer

Beautiful, just appreciate yourself and your special man is waiting

Massageman · Answer

What should you do? Pray that they get a brain! You look fine.

Raidernation01 · Answer

Lol you're beautiful. You will find someone. I wouldn't mind if you were my girlfriend.

bulletbob555 · Answer

You go out and find the guy who does care for you as is. You are attractive and shouldn't be discouraged

Tomtom9494 · Answer

Well if that’s the case then I’m screwed because you’re out of my league and I’m beneath your standards

nawtee_me · Answer

I love your smile and think you are absolutely gorgeous. You should be fighting the guys off of you unless they are all gay where you are at? lol ;)

Hadyyy · Answer

Are you for real? Either they are idiots or gay. No offense to either one. But I'd date you in a heartbeat. and if we enjoy being together I'd even up it up a notch.

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