I think we chatted about this yesterday, and since you’re posting about it again I’m going to guess that you’re having a really hard time with him drifting away. No, you’re not wrong for ignoring him because his actions (the ones you mentioned in the other post) have “ghosting” written all over them. I get that maybe you wanted it to work and probably bummed at a failed situation, especially if you haven’t had much success with dating in the past. But honestly, let this one go. Maybe you’ve had some successful dates and were starting to like him a lot, but 5 weeks isn’t long. You’ll get over this in a week, week and a half tops. You just have to have confidence in your decision and stop questioning it.
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Honestly thats how we all usually feel. You are just being normal (in a way) and overthinking. Usually if we desire love for a long time, and finally get it the way we desired.. guys tend to be less interested. I would suggest to take things slow and have a conversation about where you guys stand, where you wish to take things. Whether you/he is interested to take things ahead and are your thoughts in the same direction.
If it was me, I too would be having similar thoughts and trust me you aren't having any thing weird. Better talk and come to the same page to avoid trouble some thoughts and feelings.
Let me know what you feel about the situation and my thoughts. Cheers 🙌
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No you are not overreacting. You have every right to find the right guy at your given place and time. Keep in mind that kiss was probably harmless, and his text was as well but I sense you really don't feel much for the guy and therefore it is ok to move on and pretty much ignore his messages.
The less you wander about how he is feeling the better you'll go about your day and life. Trust me, the right guy will come and you will definitely not want to leave any gathering to be with your family. I think someday you'll find the the right guy that you'll be wanting him to go with you to be with your family too. And if that guy wa ts to go with you, then you'll know where your feelings and heart truly are
Girl, this sounds like one of my stories dealing with shady guys like this one. I can reassure you now that he’s not a good guy. You aren’t over reacting and please stop collecting red flags. He’s a f*** boy who’s messing with other girls. I bet you he has a whole list of other girls in his contacts, and you aren't the only one he’s talking to. I suggest you delete and block his number and block him everywhere else and occupy your time with other things. You will know when a guy is really into you and only wants you. He isn’t it.
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You aren't overreacting. I'm gonna be honest, he probably has met another person and is weighing his options. Lots of guys do that so he won't be seen as a cheater since the two of you aren't official yet. He wants to see if one is better than the other and I've been there too. Just be yourself, supportive, loving, show him what he would be missing out on if he left.
When a man is into you then you know that and your gut is telling you so much of human communication is non verbal. This males behavior indicates he has something else going on
Uh, what did he do that's got you concerned? Texting you only once in a day? I don't think that's a red flag.
F*ck texts, I hate it. You think somebody might be meaning something in a certain way, but maybe it's the complete opposite. In person is the only way.
Have you communicated your (very lofty) expectations to him? Or are you just expecting him to read your mind?
All I read was everything he was doing. What were you doing? Waiting for him to do everything? Seems he was making more effort than you and it was pretty one-sided. I wouldn't blame him if he wanted to cut bait and search for more invested options.
You are definitely overreacting. Stop worrying about how things are with texting and start worrying about how things are in person. That is what counts.
If you think he's stringing you along, that's what's important, not the opinions of random strangers.
Clearly something is not right. I don't know what it is, but I would drop this one like a hot potato. There are plenty of perfectly nice guys out there, so stop wasting time with a weirdo.
He is out of your league. Therefore, he will date down for sex but he will not marry down.
Nope,
Don't feel too bad
You need to know when to move on from someone
It beats getting caught cheating on himJust relax, take it easy, and don't put too much mayonnaise on the sandwich
No your not because there's to many good fish in the see 😉 like me baby.
He took a day off and you think he doesn't like you? Jesus Christ
It's up to you if you want to move on or not
Nope
No u are not
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