I am a 16 year old girl wanting to date, but guys my age are dumb. Is it wrong that I like older guys? (Page 2)
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Older guys are going to think you are immature and dumb, just as you think of 16 year old boys. The only thing an older guy would want a 16 year old girl for is to get in her pants.
You do you, kiddo. But take it from a seasoned guy, and invest in your life and skills first. Dating can always come after. But if you don't get your career on track; adding an SO makes it more difficult - especially if you get knocked up.
Obviously if you're looking to be a devoted wifey, then it's a different thing. But still I would implore you to at least get your grades first.
Of course they exist, just there all the outcasts that no one to little amount bother's to talk too.
How do I initiate something without scaring them then lol. I'm afraid they think I'm insane.
They probably think you think that of them. I don't know cause while there more mature but like you said more shy or just awkward to that social interaction they don't really get. Just something you have to initiate really and hope it goes well.
Not wrong, just be careful about what kind of older guys you're dealing with. And please for the love of God, do not be 16 hanging around guys old enough to be your grandpa. Maybe just a couple years older, that's it.
Nothing wrong with older guys. Vet them good though most are gross but some are great
What a nice thing to say lol.
Oh, hun; you don't wanna date older guys, yet. Better stick to your age range; no older guy who is healthy up there ↪️🧠, is gonna want date underage teens. If one appear to wanna date you, and if you like him, bring up your senses, because he's surely likeky a sexual predator. Unless if we are talking about a 2y age difference 16-18. In that case I don't think is trouble.
It is NOT wrong that you like older guys. It IS wrong if you date them outside of your legal range. I've always liked older girls/guys but I never considered dating one that wasn't within a few years of my age until I was over 18.
Even I like a guy who is older than and have age gap
I think love has no age gap as long as its true
Besides it's just dating, u aren't going to be with them all your life
God had someone special for you
@PrettyPriya sorry lol but I am 16 and profile says 21
@nawtee_me
Good catch. @curiosi_tea would you like me to have @GirlsAskGuys correct your age?
@PrettyPriya Maybe gender too?
@dustybiker
After observation, I would have to side with you on this.
However, it is entirely possible the user logged into the wrong color account. It has been known to happen.
@PrettyPriya lol oops.
@PrettyPriya @dustybiker
I made this account at like 2 am and I have no idea what I did when i set it up. When I logged in today it was already fixed. Thanks!
@curiosi_tea
No worries. It was likely my tag to admin that got it fixed. They likely saw the issue and took action.
That sorted, have a great day!
Don't go for older guys yet, as you can easily land them in prison for it.
relatable... that’s exactly how I felt when I was around your age, but I honestly wouldn’t recommend dating a guy that’s 18+ until you reach 18... it just makes things safer for you
I don't think if there's anything wrong with it. I personally like older girls and could connect with them really well. I know someone special who is older and really close to me.
She'd probably reading this.
I don't think it wrong what you are thinking at your age kiddo a lot of girls and boys like older people at that age.
There is nothing wrong in it, it's just that at this age you would a lot of guys who might want to take advantage of you so be careful with that.
Ok kiddo
Simple
Liking older for maturity is very common. Just don’t date older then legally allowed in your area. Not until you are of legal age. I still prefer to date older myself
No. That's pretty common at your age. Most girls mature faster than boys. Consequently most girls your age look for older boyfriends who have a more similar compatible level of maturity than guys their own age
I’d say do 17 or 18.. 19 is a bit of a stretch tbh but you do you
This is the most basic shit of any known society, slightly older guy with slitghtly more life experince takes care of slightly younger woman with slightly less life experience.
You're fine unless you're ugly.
You're not going to find most 18-19 yr old boys to be "that much less dumb". LOL But they will be more interested in sex and less in talking.
Females begin to mature at an earlier age than do males.
Some will wait it out until about 26-27 y. o. when the brain cortexes even out a bit and fully mature. Some will just start looking into relationships with the older guys.