Do you think that was the one and only time to find a girl like this?

[Inthecraphole]

I still almost get sick to my stomach thinking about it.

Back in 2020, I met this girl on a coding forum. We talked and really hit it off. She was around 18 and never even had a male friend before. She never had a boyfriend or a first love. She never even kissed a guy. She was homeschooled and grew up in a strict Catholic family. I was so excited.

We continued to talk for months, and I finally met her in person where she discovered I wasn't her type. I was too short in height for her preference. Plus, she wanted me to come off my medications completely, which I was hesitant to do.

Now, she is engaged to another guy about to get married in April of this year. I get sick to my stomach almost thinking about it. I still have dreams of her. He gets to be her first everything.

Do you think that was the one and only time I was to find a woman like that without a romantic past, even never having a male friend before?

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

Don't worry about her. She was 18 and never had a male friend before? She sounds overly-sheltered. And her blanketly saying that she wanted you off of your medications... Who was SHE to say that? What medical school did SHE go to? Count your blessings and move on. Find someone more mature.

Sorry for being so abrupt.

[Inthecraphole]

I agree with you on some of that. Her mom was anti-pharmacutical. The mom used to be a nurse. There were two deal breaker. One, I had to convert to Catholicism. The second, I had to come off my meds completely.

[slatyb]

As long as you insist on meeting a woman with no romantic history,, there’s no hope for you. You will die a virgin.

[Staximus]

Dude, you are 27. Who cares if the woman has a romantic past or not? You're being an idiot. That's not a realistic expectation.

[Inthecraphole]

I found a girl like that but I lost her. I want to find another just like her. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

[Staximus]

Yeah that's some fairy tale high school bullshit fantasy, it's too late for that now. There's no such thing as perfect but there is such thing as good enough. Learn to recognize Miss good enough and nevermind finding Miss perfect.

[Inthecraphole]

There are a few big reasons why I seek a woman without a romantic past.

[Staximus]

And they are all bullshit excuses. Enough of the bullshit