For example if he is type is usually something else but he still locks you down cause he is attracted to you a lot.
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I view it as a backhanded compliment.
What if he never said anything but you can see what his type is based on who he follows plus who he dated. And why would you say it’s a back handed compliment
For example, "I don't usually find Asian men attractive, but you're cute." At that point, I'm cute for an Asian man.
Okay, what if the person never said that but you can tell their type is usually not Asian men? And you’re an extremely attractive Asian would you say that’s still a backhanded compliment
Especially if they say something along the lines of I don’t care about the race as long as they have this “particular facial aesthetic”
I don't think about that kind of thing unless they bring it up.
So if they bring it up THEN it’s a back handed compliment right
That’s how I feel about it.
Ok thank goodness
I’m also not a fetish, so there’s that aspect as well.