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If a guy asks you out to eat then he is supposed to pay for everything, right? (Page 2)
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50 cent once said who has the idea needs to pay sooo lol
I believe that the person who invites you should pay. When I invite someone I’m usually the one who pays in this case yes, he should pay.
Yes and no. Depends on the woman. If she's a feminist then no of course not. If she's traditional then yes of course. Most women are not traditional though.
If women want equal pay then you can pay for things equally.
There is no 'should' or 'supposed to' anymore, if your company was good I pay, if not everyone pay his share.
50 Cent said it best when he was asked about who pays on a date, he responded with "Whoever who's idea was to go on the date"
Never make that assumption. All the men I’ve been with paid but I do offer to see what their response is on a first date.
How would you react if he agrees to your offer?
I wouldn’t like that I wouldn’t disclose that to him I’d pay but definitely wouldn’t be interested. Sorry call me what you want that’s just me and well my friend group as well.
The person who asked the other should be paying. So yeah if he asked you then it's assumed that he's paying.
Old school here. I think the asked should be the one who pays and it should be the man asking. Sometimes when its the womans idea and she says she'll pay I am ok with that
That should be the case. It’s always been that way, but today apparently some women get mad if you do pay.
I mean the first date yea, but i feel the 2nd date it should be on her than the 3rd on me. Basically take turns
I guess I'm old fashioned but I think if you invite someone out on a date, then you should be for it.
And when exactly does a woman ask a man out on a date? Your math makes zero sense.
@Paul09 They do all the time. Sorry about your luck with the ladies.
You must be a model or have a high paying job lol. Us regular people have to do so much work and dish out so much cash.
@Paul09 Heave hard, she come easy!
Yes the guy plans the date and he pays. Would you rather he ask you what restaurant to go to or just plan it and invite you based on his suggestion?
If I ask her to dinner, it means she's already at least given me a BJ. I'll pay for the date and she will pay me back later with the only valuable thing she possesses.
Aww hell naw heaux, you crack open that purse and pay too !
If it is a lunch date I pay no matter whether I ask or she ask me, I always do the funding for food... Lol
I'm generous so I don't mind paying, even with guy friends. But you shouldn't expect people to pay for you
fuck no. Unless she's a complete bitch she would order every expensive meal on the menu and order twice over.
She pays for her fair share.
Not anymore. Out wallets our choice, you aren't entitled to our money. Just like your body your choice and guys aren't entitled to your body.
Our body out choice forever. You guys will never have the final say in abortion ever. Stay mad about it.
@Aphrodite801 who's mad? I agree with your body your choice and not just for females just like our wallets our choice isn't just for guys, but in my comment is was for guys.
if I'm dating a girl I will always offer to pay. I couldn't imaging asking a girl out and then splitting the bill at the end. 🤪
Depends of the context.
If its a date date then yes (and he also gets to choose the place) but if its just a friendly meet up then no.
Not necessarily. Depends on what kind of man he is. A stingy man won't be fond of paying for it all though.
That is how i look at it. Whom ever ask the other person out should pay. But, I am not going to offend anyone who want to pay for themselves...
This is exactly why (until the girl becomes my girlfriend) I don't ask her out to eat out.
Why so cheap?
It’s only like $60
Gold diggers intend to use us for money and then ghost us.
Have some fundamental respect for men.
@heartbreaker007
If it's only $60, you can pay for own sh*t and stop being a womanchild. Or just tell him no and save us the time and effort.
@MCheetah men make more money than women these days because we still aren’t equal yet. Not only that but makeup is expensive. I am probably losing more money than he is spending time on the date when everything adds up.
If you want to live in a Communist society, move to China.
No one's forcing you to wear makeup.
And if a man is expected to spend money on you for a date, then you're a hooker and might as well admit as such.
Nope. You're a strong independent woman in 2022, you pay for your own thing.
Absolutely yes, unless the 2 of you agree otherwise for whatever reason.
Yes if you invite someone out you should be expected to pay.
Why there's no obligation like that... I would pay as a gentleman but if I don't for some reason and she's salty about it then bye bye to her
Not necessarily. An invitation to go out is not the same thing as an offer to pay for you
Yes. Any guy saying "no" won't be going on many dates. Women are privileged. If you dont pay, she has 10 other dudes lined up who would, and they probably have just as good looks as you too.
we do not care... at least i'm saying half the bill by splitting the bill
i'll rather be single than paying for her
yes if he is not german.. by the way you looks like uma thurman
yes, but I am only going to do this a certain number of times before you need to be putting out
He's not supposed to, but probably should. And should definitely let you know ahead of time
If he pays for everything, you need to be willing to give him at least a blowjob.
Lol. Not owed or expected, but appreciated.
@jerdanro I would never disrespect a man by not giving him a blowjob if he takes care of me.
Yes, the guy who invites for eating out, he should pay
If a guy pays there are terms and conditions. A guy defo doesn't want to let a girl pay...
I think it’s a norm for a gentlemen to pay for it since he is asking her out (invitation)
Not at all in my opinion
If you want a man to pay for you just be prepared to lay down on your back after dinner
In my country South Korea, anybody who suggest to eat pays. I think men usually pay anyway. Girl don’t have control over food.
I never expect my boyfriend to pay for me.
Adults can work this out among themselves.
30 guys said no. LOL
I'm surprised it isn't more, it is a transparent arrangement to get men to pay for every meal because we all know women do not take initiative for shit.
If men are paying for EVERY meal then they are dumb. Most women will pitch in after a while.
I'm not giving a single penny to some slut who just wants a foodie date.
@Juxtapose Don’t go out with sluts then. Lol 😂
Women want to be equal but they want to feel special as well… you can’t have it both ways.
@VanillaSalt faaacts
@Juxtapose facts? You two need to stay in your moms basement women deserve better lol
By definition your can’t be equal and privileged at the same time. Shoulda clarified special and privileged but whatever.
@VanillaSalt A man who walks in his masculinity and leads as a provider and protector will have Chivalry... it's biological to what women are attracted too. Too many men today walk in their feminine which is a turnoff to a high value feminine women. Most men these days don't have masculinity... they have a day care on Redditt for them all to jerk off and complain about stupid shit like this. I say you guys stay in the day care... us MEN will handle business out here.
Lol you’re just another idiot who thinks his ways the right way and everyone else is scum. No “leader” would automatically assume everyone else is wrong. He also would teach rather then call people names like a jackass. Take your comments and go to hell with them.
@VanillaSalt It's biology. There you have been taught. Now go look it up for yourself. Stop using bad language. it's immature.
Oh fuck off, I have to fly hours to visit my mom.
Your rudeness towards me was completely uncalled for, I won't be forgetting this anytime soon. Now I am starting to think you deserve your long line of detractors.
No. Go dutch or go home.
whoever asks to meet up should pay. Simple.
No, that's an assumption you shouldn't make.
Yes, unless you agree to split the bill
I mean, depends. In some cultures in acceptable.
50%!! 50%!!
Equality
thats how it usually works
Sure! There's a Burger King near.. You drive.
Yes, I think I should.
yep, and be prepared to work overtime
Is it a date or two friends meeting up for food?
Money is better than women
Yes, I would do so
Not at all.
Guys don't ask her out ever!
Nope.