Would you care if a girl lied about her age if she was only underaged by 1 or 2 years? (Page 2)
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Ofc it matters. A man doesn't want to go to jail or be thought of as a pedophile for that. Why would you lie about?
The problem is he doesn't trust you anymore. If you lie once, there's a probability you'll lie again
Considering a man can be charged for statutory rape and be imprisoned for a long time along with getting this life destroyed, I'd say it is a huge deal.
A girl did this to me when I was 21 she said she was the same age but when we went to a bar downtown I found out she was actually only 19 I immediately left her and drove home yes that was a small lie but if she would lie to me about something so petty and we just started dating that’s a red flag that she’s a pathological liar
Apparently to him it did. Why weren't you up front with him?
I would say in your case yes, because you where pretending to be and adult while you where still legally and minor. He could of gotten in a lot of trouble.
That extra year does matter if it’s between being legal or not. it’s weird to lie about your age in the first place
Yes. That extra year is the difference between being raped in prison and not. At least if you're in America.
When I was 13 I would often say I am 15 😁 Now I am 25 and I would rather say I am 23.
But what can you do, only the dead stay 17 forever. So, it’s always better to be honest.
Girl that year is the difference between prison and being safe.
You could have came out and said to him, Look here I will be age 18 in a year could we date then I'm sure the guy would have said, yes
In this case, yes, that one year matters. You're legally underage and he could go to jail for statutory rape.
It's COMPLETELY unacceptable.
Huge read flag and automatic deal-breaker.
(PERMANENT deal-breaker!)
Yes, because you couple get him in a lot of trouble. Additionally, you’re trying to start a relationship with a lie.
Yes it does because you were lying about not being a minor and that could result in a lawsuit for him
Yes. Not because you're underaged, but because you lied.
When I told guys on tinder they would just stop talking to me. It's not my fault I had to lie to even get a chance.
You can use all the reasoning you like to justify it, but the fact of the matter is that you started things on a lie. All trust would be gone.
The age of consent is 17 in my state, so I wouldn’t really care. If it’s 18 in your state, then he made the right decision, and you should expect anyone else in his position to do the same. Not everyone wants to go to jail.
Yes, if you want to stay off the sex offender registry.
legally yes in most states. You are a minor, and he isn't.
It is only 1 year, but at that age it really does matter, sometimes a lot!
Read up on what the law says related to this in your country. We don't know where you live. It all depends on that, if what you ask matters or not.
I think generally the law is specific about who can have sex with who at what age, and not who you can hang out with / meet as friends, or "date".
So, if it's not allowed for you two to have sex yet, then you could just date and hang out.