Is a 7/7.5 a good rating from your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Okay please don’t call me shallow but my boyfriend rated me a 7/7.5 when I get dolled up and I didn’t asked to get rated. It hurt my feelings cause I see the picture of the Spanish/light skin girls who he thinks is fire but I would think the guy who is telling me he loves me and shows me he cares would think I’m beautiful. Plus majority of my rates were 8.. I don't know really how to feel ever since then I haven’t felt like I’m attractive to him. Even when he tells me”bae you look good” deep down inside I know I’m not beautiful to him. It hurts

[Leonharted]

My wife could be in a chemical fire, and I'd still love her. Looks aren't something someone can really control beyond a little bit of makeup. Intelligence, loyalty, and shared interests are far more important. A smart man only values looks to the point that he can get aroused without difficulty.

This is to say, a smart man will take a 4 who is smart, loyal, and has shared interests (so long as its the type of 4 that can get him hard without needing to get drunk) over a 10 who is stupid, a known cheater, and has no shared interests. Money can fix looks. No amount of money can fix those other things.

[Asker]

Very true

[Anonymous]

I think you should really break up with him to be honest, girl.. If he really loved you, he would never say something like this. He has every right to think whatever he wants and he's entitled to his own preferences, but to publicly announce something like this, is disrespectful, hurtful and inconsiderate to your feelings

[Asker]

Yeah it is really hurtful smh we already have done so much together.. but maybe it’s best to start over

[Opinion Owner]

I'm in a similar situation, so I understand how you feel. He always calls other girls beautiful and hot, "and one of the hottest girl around". Although he says he likes my body and face, it still makes me feel bad... I've explained it to him many times, but he doesn't want to listen, or understand

[Aurora1010]

It was wrong of him to randomly rate you...
I think a 7 or 7.5 would be classified as pretty. He still thinks you're pretty but I think your feeling is understandable, girls love to feel their partner's admiration.

[Asker]

Definitely especially since he looks at girls all day on Instagram.. I truly don’t know how to feel. Growing up rating that’s just over a 6 like that isn’t someone I would fall in love with. Makes me wanna cheat tbh

[Aurora1010]

He seems disrespectful, don't cheat if you really are unhappy in your relationship then maybe it's best to just move on.

[In_Trance]

better than 4, not as good as 9

[Asker]

What does that even mean?

[In_Trance]

it means, it's all relative. What does your question even mean? What do you mean by good?