He has been 2 days out of quarantine and still didn't ask me out?

[Anonymous]

We met online a little over a month ago. We chatted, we're supposed to plan a date. Then he got Covid that lasted for 2 weeks. We had great, and sexy, and lovely conversations in the meantime. Last weekend he asked me if I want to meet up as soon as he recovers, to which I said I'd love to. He is recovered now, has been 2 days out of quarantine, he published that on his story and I commented on it "negative? awesome!" to which he left me on seen. :/ So yeah 2 days still nothing from him... What should I do?

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+1 y

Still no word from him... Would it be stupid to text him again and ask him if he's still interested in meeting up?

[NutellaTrish]

Eh. He might be stringing you along, or maybe he has other things going on. Just feel it out. Use your discretion. If he starts being flaky now, it might be a red flag and a sign that you should just move on before he ends up doing some fuck boy shit and hurting you.

[4afriend]

I'm thinking he is trying to get caught up. Like with laundry, manscaping, bills etc. Maybe was really just resting when sick. I would give him some more time, but don't wait by the phone. Maybe even ignore a respond from him (at first) To set the tone

[NamerOfStars]

If he's only two days out of complete isolation, he's probably still adjusting. I'd drop him a line saying something like "You still want to get together?". That way you show interest without coming on too strong.

[spartan55]

Uh relax? Have a little patience, it's only been two days. Your comment didn't require a reply, so getting hung up on being 'seen' doesn't apply.

[Asker]

Should I wait for him to ask me out or should I do it?

[spartan55]

I think it's great when girls ask guys out. Does that answer your question?

[Asker]

Not really haha

But I would seem clingy if I shoot him another text after he ignored the last one?

[SurströmmingLover]

He is probably taking care of some business that he couldn't do while he was quarantined and met with friends and relatives. Also, he might plan a surprise for you or he is overthinking about your date.

[LegendaryIcon]

i don't get why people think it was ok to date during covid. do people not understand what a lockdown is?

[driven159]

Might lots of catching up to do after in quarantine or all talk and no do which happens a lot online people are a lot braver behind a computer screen

[noohair]

Texting is not talking. Try the old fashioned approach? Speak to him?

[noohair]

How about a text. Hi, how are you today?

[CallmeTheKnight]

He never said when, give the guy a break

[Wise4myage]

Why the rush?