How come he said I was so boring but dates a girl that does nothing but Netflix?

[Anonymous]

[Киттйлинк]

sometimes you're boring not because you don't do fun stuff but because you don't do something that HE finds Interesting.
For example for me boring are guys who are party animals and smoke week and drink and listen to music I don't like haha you see? yet someone else will say that's the "fun" type of person and will call me instead 'boring' lol

There just wasn't chemistry between his personality and yours and he finds there is with the other girl, therefore feels bored around you.

even with friends.. you can sometimes do nothing at all and sit in silence with some people and it won't feel awkward or boring just like whatever and with others it might feel awkward and or boring as well... it's not WHAT you do, it's the feeling someone evokes in you.

[laurieluvsit]

Maybe he likes the same series' as she does... lol

[Guanfei]

Maybe that's what he likes to. Staying home with a girl, watching shows and movies. Maybe he finds what you're doing boring.
Like, for example, clubbing is boring to me, when it's fun for most people. I'd rather date a girl who would stay at home with me that one who goes clubbing.

[AdithyaR]

Interesting and boring are very subjective things. Maybe he finds that girl interesting.
Although your question lacks context as to why he said or what the situation was so can't really make an assumption.

[Asker]

I've moved abroad all by myself to work in marketing, I film landscapes using drones, have a art hobby on my Instagram and travelled solo around

[AdithyaR]

That's really cool but again, interesting is a subjective thing. I'd find your life super fascinating but he doesn't need to.
What I wanna know what exactly was the conversation about that came to him saying you're boring? Depending on the context, it could be anything him defending himself to him projecting his issues on you.

[Asker]

He just ra donly moans I'm just acting normal tbh

[AdithyaR]

I see, probably means nothing then. Just ignore it

[loveslongnails]

What he really means is "she's hotter than you" or "she's a good lay". Telling someone they're boring, even if it's true, is a very tactless thing to say. Obviously, he doesn't like you but he likes "something" about her.

[Asker]

So why did he have sex with me then?

[loveslongnails]

Maybe he likes how you look but didn't think you were "boring" until he got to know you.

[martyfrazier80]

A man can love someone and steal a piece

[martyfrazier80]

He loves and likes just a piece

[Honesttguy]

@martyfrazier80 maybe u actually were boring in bed. Many good looking girls just lay there doing fuk all, thus boring in bed. Ask him what he means boring? Boring in real life or in bed? Specify

[martyfrazier80]

@Honesttguy Trust me I have no problems keeping mines

[loveslongnails]

@martyfrazier80 That's what she said too :)

[martyfrazier80]

Lot of times guys says that to tear down your confidence! and just maybe it's more than Netflix that's keeping him there!

[spartan55]

How could you possibly know that about the girl 'he' (whoever that is) is dating? Why does it matter?

[Livelyserenity]

Thats BS. He is just not interested in you :/

Sorry girl you had to go through this 😕

[Dragonpurple]

Could be he is bored of you, and she is new and exciting still.

[Roses19870]

Because he feels bad about himself with you. You probably have interesting things going for you. What a loser.

[FilmGuy93]

Your choices of conversation probablt didn't work with him,

[jjj101010]

Maybe she does naughty things to him while he watches it with her

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like an excuse to me.

[Asker]

I'm not ugly either o have pics

[Dinosaursandanime65]

This can only mean one thing

[Asker]

What do you mean

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Come on, you know what im talking about

[Asker]

he's only after sex

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Exactly. Just like the filthy casual he is. If you keep trying these are the only type of people you’ll bring into your life. Dating (at least in my opinion) is the only thing you don’t wanna put effort to, in terms of trying to find the right person at least. I find dating to be very fake. Everyone always feels suffocated, “gotta make sure I look as hot as I can be”, “fancy restaurant, hopefully I get a kiss out of this”, “I’d like to give you something special, my great grandmother’s necklace. It’s been passed on for generations when the truth is this whole date is just bullshit and I bought this necklace at the 99 Cent Store an hour before our date started. Now hurry up and flash your tits, I’ve waited long enough”. Dating never works, one either gets heartbroken or the two turn out to be incompatible

[Dinosaursandanime65]

It might be true that men and woman can’t just be friends but really who gives a shit. I say that’s the best way to get a partner. It’s natural, you don’t feel like you have to be perfect with friends. You don’t feel any pressure for making mistakes around them.

[Asker]

I had a friends with benefits who wanted to live with me why would he want that?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Probably too horny to function

[Asker]

Why would he want that set up at almost 30 years old he knows I'm looking for something more with someone

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Well now that I know that I can’t say for sure. I don’t know, maybe. Some people just really are that selfish. Hopefully he’s a good boi

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Wait, you said you’re 30 and you want something serious or you’ve been looking for something serious for 30 years?

[Asker]

I'm turning 30 in August it's just recently I want to look for a relationship I didn't mind being single in my 20s

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Hmmmm.. either way, you might not make it off this island alive

[Asker]

Huh lol

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Do you mean that as in you’re like “whatever dip-shit” or are you ending the conversation?

[martyfrazier80]

Right

[zagor]

Maybe she has good taste in Netflix.

[Jamie05rhs]

Do you mean Netflix, or "Netflix"?

[jasco]

Maybe thats what he's attracted to

[noohair]

Everyone has their own personal perspective.

[BarryLiverstone]

To trick you

[Asker]

What do you mean

[BarryLiverstone]

I mean clearly there is a reason he hasn’t blocked you yet. He is not being honest

[Asker]

I have no idea 🤷‍♀️ what do you think he's lying about

[BarryLiverstone]

He doesn’t think you were boring.

[Asker]

I just blocked him in the end I'm getting nothing out of it at all

[BarryLiverstone]

Smart move, good job

[BarryLiverstone]

He was trying to use you anyway by tricking you

[In_Trance]

Were you having sex?