Suppose your boyfriend admits that he thinks one of your female friends is attractive but you know and believe that he has never approached that girl in any way, never flirted with her, never tried to meet up with her, never did anything to try to even hold her hand. Do you consider the feeling of attraction, all by itself, to constitute cheating? Why or why not?

It's a tough pill to swallow, but it's not cheating.

If they’re so brazen to check out other people wile you’re with them, maybe.

Not at all. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean that you go blind.

if I'm their partner I don't need be informed by them who they consider attractive. To me it's rude.

It's not cheating, but it's not a prudent thing to say.

Just thinking is not cheating. You don't harm anyone by your thoughts.

No. He thinks she’s pretty, that’s all there is to it. At least, that’s what we wish how it were

You can’t help if you are attracted to someone who fits into what you Iike. You can however control your impulses

I am married but I actually find other girls more attractive than my wife lol

That's not cheating by any means, it's an honest opinion and it's good he/she tells you about it.

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It's a tough pill to swallow, but it's not cheating.

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If they’re so brazen to check out other people wile you’re with them, maybe.

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Not at all. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean that you go blind.

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if I'm their partner I don't need be informed by them who they consider attractive. To me it's rude.

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It's not cheating, but it's not a prudent thing to say.

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Just thinking is not cheating. You don't harm anyone by your thoughts.

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No. He thinks she’s pretty, that’s all there is to it. At least, that’s what we wish how it were

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You can’t help if you are attracted to someone who fits into what you Iike. You can however control your impulses

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I am married but I actually find other girls more attractive than my wife lol

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  So the attraction to your wife is more than just physical attraction, right?
  
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That's not cheating by any means, it's an honest opinion and it's good he/she tells you about it.

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No. That's being a healthy heterosexual human

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It shows the potential to cheat.

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  Everyone has the "potential" to cheat.
  
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😂 no I think everyone would be a cheater.

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No. It'd be insane to be jealous simply for that

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no not really nut I wudn't like the idea ofc

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Nope because thought police are bad.

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No that would be stupid

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No, unless they act on it.

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Nothing wrong with looking

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No way he not acted on it

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No of course not.

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Jingi18 Follow
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Attraction isn’t a choice

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100% No.

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Not at all

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Nope

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I'm not 12, so no.

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No easy answer on that one.

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of course not

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No but it's a red flag that he may cheat.

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  Oh my... no, not so much.
  
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  Not at all. You will always notice attractive people of your preference
  
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  Once he starts approaching her, talking to her, weasling his way in, that's when you get out your red 🚩 flags.
  
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Its not cheating

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Nope

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No, it’s not

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İdk.

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