Usually when people go broadcasting lovey dovey stuff all over the place its a often a smoke screen to a problem. Usually the opposite.
It depends. Some really do love their partners, others do exactly what you say.
The hardest part of it all is weeding out the perfect person. It's so difficult.
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Until the guy in a restaurant drive through pays your meal ahead of you in attempt to get to know you with a nice gesture huh?
@Darknut I have had guys hit on me, which i find creepy since i dont know them.
Well going by that, at one time even your husband was creepy because you didn't know him.
@Darknut I met my husband at age 10... kids are not creeps. They are cute.
Still... you see what im getting at though? There was a time you didn't know each other. Same applies at a later age too.
I respectfully disagree
@whipitout women want men who are incapable of loving them like that to start loving them like that, that's true. But if those men ever did, the woman would start to say he's just boring now for some vague, unknown reason. When it comes to women's taste in men, they always want to be chasing the sunset. Y'all wouldn't know what to do if the sun waited up for you and you actually caught it.I can find a hundred articles that paint actual devotion in a bad light. The justification seems to be that if a man is ACTUALLY devoted to a woman, then that's just because he doesn't have any other options and has no value. He's just boring.
I see your point. I get that it may be the case a lot of the time, but honestly, I just cannot say it's applicable to all women. The majority of women will find it attractive if a guy is wanted by many women, but it actually turns me off a bit if I feel like I'm competing or that all of the other women want him. I want a weirdo who can be equally devoted to me as I am to them. I am interested in those articles you mention though, and if you'd be willing, I'd love for you to link them or pm them to me.
I hope this is something you've managed to overcome 😢It might sound weird to write, but it's a totally valid way to feel and totally okay.
Better get your boots on lol