Do you agree that a man can hit a woman after being hit multiple times by one?

[Creampiekarl420]

Yes it’s self defense at that point

No never hit a woman

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+1 y

Whoever is the guy that picked no please get some self respect

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+1 y

The last girl that hit me I put her in a headlock and gave her a wedgie and a spanking it’s perfect because it hurt she was crying, it wasn’t excessive force, and you get to smack a girls ass 😂keep in mind she hit me multiple times and broke my phone

[Ghen30]

I think women are using this to their advantage because they know society will side with them. It's not fair in the least, and isn't right. Sometimes I feel bad for those guys that they have to be treated that way. If society wasn't so fucked, I'd tell the guy to hit her back and see how it feels. But no. Hitting is wrong. Guys can't do anything about it regardless without risking being put behind bars, and there's no telling what the girl will do, probably tell lies to make herself seem like the victim.

[Creampiekarl420]

Well that’s why women get away with pushing men to their boiling point and still being the victim because most regular guys don’t even want to hit women but women take advantage and cross the line all the time because they have safety netting these women deserve to be alone and in jail

[crossdressingrihno]

If you wouldn't kick a bear because it would kill you

Then you probably shouldn't hit a man who could break your ribs with his version of a love tap



In all honesty no matter what I do one of us is going to get hurt really bad

If I just let her hit me I'm going to get hurt really bad because I'm not fighting back and protecting myself

If I even as much as try to restrain her that might end up very bad on her which just means either way you look at it one of us is going to end up hurt and so I'm just going to choose for it to not be me

[crossdressingrihno]

Lesson 101 on how to eat concrete

[MCheetah]

Yes. No one should hit anyone without expecting to get decked back. All the guys who say no, ironically, are the super-sexist ones who think women are incapable of doing any damage to a man at all, even though women are way more likely to assault with weapons than men are. I don't play that; ANYONE over the age of 15 hits me, all bets are off.

[Creampiekarl420]

My sentiments exactly

[AmandaYVR]

As a defensive measure, not retaliatory.
First and foremost, walk away, or restrain her.
Same goes for women toward men.
Violence is the last refuse of the incompetent.

[Creampiekarl420]

Vote

[AmandaYVR]

I don't want to vote.
Hitting back is not necessarily just self-defence.
Restraint is my vote.
Hitting is a life or death situation. Then no holds barred. But most things can be walked away from.

[Creampiekarl420]

Grow up ma’am.

[crossdressingrihno]

Would you kick a sleeping Bear?

[exitseven]

@creampiekarl420 No, violence is not the way to go. If all you can do is hurt a woman that is a lot weaker than you it just shows you to be a coward. A man does not do that.

[crossdressingrihno]

I don't view it as cowardice

Cowardice goes to those who run away from their problems from those who try to sidestep the issue whether it be by explaining it away with their moral compass or hiding behind some social ideology

[crossdressingrihno]

Also why does everyone view violence is cowardice

I know recently the idea of going down the Martin Luther King route and letting people burn you to death and blow up your car and s*** like that has become more appealing

[crossdressingrihno]

But functionally speaking it doesn't work on the individual level you're not accomplishing anything if you're one person

[crossdressingrihno]

It worked with that movement because it was a movement an entire group of people working for the same goal going up against a large entity known as the US government

[crossdressingrihno]

But when it comes down to a person versus a person that's not going to work

Also as a man you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't

That same person will probably call up your family say some awful s*** and make a lot of people hate you they might even blame you for rape get you sent to prison in your ruin your life these are also the same kind of people who say they're going to kill themselves that way you feel morally obligated to deal with their crap longer

[crossdressingrihno]

Anyway I'm just going to leave you with that

[Lliam]

Why not just tell her to fuck off and leave her? I mean, what's a future gonna be like with a psycho bitch like that?

If she wasn't my girlfriend and attacked me like that, I might slap her hard enough to knock her out. Don't leave any bruises.

[HawkPerception]

I'd hit back after the first hit... depending on the situation of course. I don't believe men should just allow a female to hit them just because they're a girl.

[Creampiekarl420]

Thank you

[TexasRed95]

If I was just being hit I wouldn't. Now if she had a weapon then yeah I probably would. But who knows. I might just run out of there and call the police.

[Creampiekarl420]

Sir you are human even if you say that what if you’re in a poor mood a person can only take so much and if you have the mental fortitude to withstand abuse in total submission then kudos but we can’t expect everyone to be that strong we are only human I realize that men are usually stronger but everyone has a breaking point and I’m sorry but violence is the answer any woman who would put hands on you doesn’t respect you and that is unacceptable

[OddBeMe]

What’s hitting mean for you? You punch her? Or slap her? Backhand her? Gut punch? Break her nose?

[Creampiekarl420]

Either of those are acceptable for being hit multiple times regardless of gender remember when Chris brown beat up Rihanna they showed her face and not his on purpose men need to start pressing charges against these women because assault is illegal

[OddBeMe]

I mean…yeah, but there’s a reason girls can hit us 10 times and we’re fine, yet rhianna goes down like a sack of potatoes.

[Creampiekarl420]

Would you try to fight a tiger?

[OddBeMe]

No. But if I were Siegfried or Roy maybe. Point?

[Creampiekarl420]

Im getting to it but why wouldn’t you fight a tiger?

[OddBeMe]

It’s stronger faster and could be completely feral.

[OddBeMe]

I guess if I had a tiger pet and it was playing a bit too hard I’d swipe it’s face.

[Creampiekarl420]

What if you were playing too ruff and he swiped your face? My point being that just because they can take it doesn’t make it okay if you were rich does it make it right for someone to steal your car just because you can get another one?

[OddBeMe]

So men are feral beasts who can’t control their instincts? We’re no better than wild tigers?

[OddBeMe]

Dont get me wrong, I read the recent research about female physics abuse in relationships. I’m just saying fire against fire ain’t ever the answer.

[Creampiekarl420]

Only people with no answers at all say such things and you missed my point which is you shouldn’t do wrong just because you can get away with it

[OddBeMe]

I did and asked a serious follow up question. Are you saying male behavior is just like feral tigers?

[Creampiekarl420]

No I said it to compare the differences in strength

[OddBeMe]

Ok…and?

[megabamse]

To get away sure. But that's only if your sort of trapped.

[jshm2]

Don't be such an abusive gimp.

Sure you can pummel her to the ground, but for those few minutes you "felt like a man" you're going to get three years in prison, and a record for the rest of your life.

It's just not worth the hassle.

[Creampiekarl420]

I don’t think you know the law very well sir

[LetgoLetgone]

Why are you in a relationship with a woman who is hitting you anyways?
Just leave her

[Creampiekarl420]

Thank you some of these boys think it’s okay to just allow that

[exitseven]

unless she has a gun or some other weapon I still say no. I have been physically abused before. I would just restrain her until she calmed down. She was abused as a kid and I just could not hurt her anymore.

[Creampiekarl420]

You need therapy

[exitseven]

yes, you are probably right. I still have no regrets about hitting her back.

[Creampiekarl420]

I didn’t mean to sound rude but everything you said was very personal and I get where your coming from and like hearing others experiences and pov but you seem like you have a lot to workout that’s not okay to let anyone walk over you like that

[Creampiekarl420]

@exitseven @exitseven i hate bullies and that’s exactly what these women are that do this to men have you ever seen an elephant attack someone because I did it’s tamer was whipping it mercilessly and it charged at him and people immediately intervened and it pissed me off because something being stronger than you doesn’t make it okay to abuse it these women are pieces of shit who hurt men because they can and no one will care “it’s just a stupid elephant “ it’s just a stupid man he can take it

[exitseven]

I hate bullies too. I am six feet 200 lbs and I could really damage somebody if I ever lost my temper. Once you start a physical fight you do not know how far it will go. It is not like you see on television. One person could end up dead. I would be afraid that I would really hurt somebody maybe permanently. I could not do that to a woman or maybe anyone.

[Creampiekarl420]

You are not Superman you are a human being people say treat others with respect not just because it’s the right thing to do but because as humans we are emotional creatures do you really feel bad for someone who got a broken leg from mercilessly whipping an elephant ( which by the way is unnecessary because they’re very smart and learn fast) you think they didn’t know that it was stronger than them this doesn’t happen in nature because there is no safety netting unless they have to animals don’t fight creatures bigger and stronger than them because they know they could get hurt or die if you won’t hit a woman for no other reason at least do it because women need to understand that there are consequences for their actions that’s why we are still dealing with this pro-choice mess women just get to do whatever they want and play the victim if me and you were talking face to face we both know there is a line drawn and we shouldn’t cross it because there won’t be too much conversation before we start fighting you shouldn’t feel bad for losing your temper when being purposefully antagonized but your too old to not have better control over yourself I feel like you’re like me and rarely get angry but once you do it’s hard to come back to your senses

[Creampiekarl420]

@exitseven you’re afraid of yourself and what you’ll do in that situation

[exitseven]

yes, if I ever let myself off the chain I hate to think how it would end up. I might end up behind bars. Like I say, it is not like TV. You punch somebody and he gets knocked out and later everyone is okay. Usually there is brain damage and maybe prison.

[Creampiekarl420]

You should practice something I’ve been trying to grasp myself and that’s silent controlled rage because defending yourself won’t get you behind bars what will is using excessive force for a situation that doesn’t call for it

[Creampiekarl420]

You ever see a TKO you should know when to stop beating on her because if she has hit you multiple times you can bust her lip break her nose and black her and not go to jail

[Creampiekarl420]

I meant Eye

[Snsl153]

No one should be hitting anyone for any reason. Full stop!
Why do so many people believe that violence ever makes anything better?

[Creampiekarl420]

Woodstock is over dude

[Snsl153]

Woodstock?
Are you referring to that weird concert back in the late 60's that I'm vaguely familiar with?

[Snsl153]

Why was this voted down by two people? Do they actually believe that violence is ever anything other than yet more evidence, if any more were needed, that the human race is basically a failure?

[Creampiekarl420]

Shackle yourself to those petty morals but real life has consequences

[Snsl153]

"Petty morals"? Are you a psychopath? I ask because they don't care about what's right and wrong either, and only ever do whatever happens to benefit them personally. They lack empathy. Do you lack empathy?
No, I don't see myself as being "shackled"'; just the opposite, in fact, and yes, it is precisely because I understand the real world and the consequences of actions that I believe what I do, and behave the way I do (i. e. with dignity and decency).
People who tolerate, or even enjoy, violence are evil as far as I'm concerned.

[exitseven]

@snsl153 One of the first questions I asked on this site was is it okay for a guy to hit a woman. I was amazed at how many guys had no problem with it. Also startling was that people called me a pussy and a simp and some of them were women.

[Snsl153]

@exitseven Maybe some of them were just pretending to be women. I've heard that's what some people do here.

[Creampiekarl420]

@exitseven see that accountability is kryptonite for modern women

[Snsl153]

No it's not. I accept the consequences of my actions, and have never been the type of person to just lazily blame someone else, or "the system" for mistakes I've made (and there have been plenty of those). Men (it's always only ever men) who think that women can't behave maturely, that we're "gold-diggers", "children" and all have it easy, are, without exception, either women-hating incels or belong to the MGTOW cult.
Those "men" I avoid whenever I can, because I don't want to be anywhere near their immature, toxic personalities.

[Creampiekarl420]

You get treated like children because women like you have the emotional maturity of a child

[Creampiekarl420]

Even now your still blaming men

[Creampiekarl420]

you women still find a way to blame men for your own choices

[slatyb]

only if there's a danger that he could be injured, and there is no other option There's almost always another option.

[Creampiekarl420]

Why do you say that

[Twalli]

I hit back, even if she hits me once

[Anonymous]

He *can* but it doesn't mean that it is legally safe to do so.

[Creampiekarl420]

It literally is assault is Illegal just about everywhere

[Opinion Owner]

I'm answering in the context of the question. I don't think defending yourself should be illegal but the Duluth Model made any attack on a woman, even if she is trying to kill you, illegal. The man will always be assumed to be the aggressor.

[Creampiekarl420]

Okay fuck the law im not tryna get into that from a moral standpoint is it okay to hit her back?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd try to get away. If I can't then I'd try to throw her off.

[Creampiekarl420]

Don’t be afraid to go upside a bitch head because it’s men like that who end up dead because a woman or anyone that you allow to abuse you will walk all over you

[Creampiekarl420]

I hate bullies but people too afraid to stand up for themselves piss me off even more

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Gender equality!