He never forgot about her, finally grew up and got the balls to talk to her.
The question made me think of one of my experiences. There was one particular lady who is the only girlfriend I ever loved with my heart and soul. She loved me.
I was 37 by then and she was 30. She had had a very rough childhood, been sexually molested for many years from a very young age by her step father, then gotten married at 17, had a son, and gotten divorced a few years later. Her son lived out of state with his father. But that plucky lady had really turned her life around and become an amazing person by the time we met.
I had a nice apartment and she was renting a house, but we wound up virtually living together for over a year. Sadly, circumstances forced us to part.
For several months afterward, I felt like my guts had been kicked out and sometimes doubled over, cried and moaned and almost felt nauseous. It was the most pain I ever experienced in my life.
After almost a year, I finally pulled myself together and moved on with life.
About three years after we separated, I met a wonderful woman and we got married two years later. We've been very happily married for over 25 years now. But I never forgot that one girlfriend. I still think about her all the time.
About 20 years after we separated, she found me on Facebook. We even talked a few times on the phone. Her voice made me melt. It hadn't changed. She was living out of state near her mother and grown son. I was so glad to be in touch and to know that she was happy and pursuing her dreams for retirement.
Then, five years later, I heard that she had died from a sudden medical problem at the age of 55. I was devastated. There is a hole in my heart that will never heal. I will always love her and will never forget her. But that love doesn't detract from the deep love I have for my love for my wife.
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I have had the same experience in the past or might be having it till now I will know when I meet her again. It isn't becz I can't get any other girl (i have a girlfriend at present and have dated 5 -6 girls after failing to get her) or I am such a loser or something like that. It's becz she is the perfect one every time I see her I feel like it's the best day of my life, my heartbeat goes way high, I have chills all over my body and the intensity of this feeling never changes (it increases every time I see her). For me, she is the perfect person. I am not saying that she has no bad qualities but I love her bo good and bad aspects.
( for the record I proposed to her in 2017 and she rejected me becz she was with someone else, then in late 2019 we again started talking and became good friends I again proposed to her she accepted it but we broke up in 5 - 6 days becz she wasn't that much interested in me. We still talk occasionally but I don't think that it's gonna work like ever.)
your answer - there is a boy who still loves you, then believe me girl no one ever gonna love you as he does. Still getting into a relationship with him is fully your choice, think wisely
Either he truly loves her or is obsessed with her. Obsession is bad, true love is sweet.
That he can't move on and wished things could have gone differently
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It means he is was and always will be interested in you I think theirs a disconnect between men and women when it comes to Love like this cuz I still think about my 1st crush in kindergarten like specific things she did that was nice when others won’t or like my female friends I haven’t seen a while I think about them too were just territorial about our women and we have a large capacity for Love which is why monogamy will never work we got enough love for everyone
Could be a case of what they call oneitis. I miss my ex-girlfriend after eleven years, but do I love her and want her back? No to both counts. It ended for a reason. I'm hoping to find someone new, whether female, male or non-binary - probably male around here given it seems all the good women are taken, lesbian or too far away.
It means she has something he really places a lot of importance on
It means he either knows exactly what he wants and is willing to wait for it, or he can't find anyone else.
Its either obsession or true love. but after years, obsession doesn't make any sense. Its either true love or he just can't get another girl
Maybe he can't find another girl and has no other options
He's wasting his time and never stopped loving her.
She really made an impression on him and he truly loved her.
That’s confirmation of a small probability of him not being a douche clown
It means he’s a desperate man that doesn’t know how to let up and when its time to move on
That he needs professional help. No one should be stuck on ANYONE that long.
He never forgot about her.
I could really see this happening in real life.
Maybe it was his true love that never faded away.
It means that ge can't find anyone better.
That she lost a caring person
That he felt she was quality.
What would have become.
It means he's a thirsty simp.
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