Did any woman in their 40s and up had this problem?

[Jacadia]

When you go grocery shopping with your boyfriend to a busy store. Some of the cashiers treat you bad and treat your guy amazing. I never experienced this in my life. Its almost always a minority woman whose younger that me. I have had: hateful looks, they avoid me and idolize him, he gets tons of bags and help to pack, they rarely offer me bags and rarely help me pack. Some of them flirt with my man too a white guy. They love to chat only with him and dont say much to much treat me like I dont exist.

[jennifer_bloom]

Most woman are too busy to devote their lives to stealing your husband, it’s your fears speaking to you and not your reality

[Guy13]

YES, especially at martini bars and clubs in general…

[Guy13]

The difference being that I’m much more likely to have one in your age range idolizing me with googly eyes 👀 than one my age.
-My age (20-25) are all up on 47-58 year old guys. It’s so bad that I had my hair guy put gray highlights and nicely flowing splotches in my hair.
—Maybe before Memorial Day the highlights will take effect.

[Jacadia]

They had no respect that the woman and man could be married for years like I even had a ring on. Secondly, my guy was no initiating anything with them and we are both tall and goodlooking people. In my day if a cashier did this they would be fired on the spot.

[Jacadia]

How is a cashier who is a stranger allowed to do such things. And we routinely shop there.

[Guy13]

Your husband is 50 and the girlies like olde men. My Mentors, who I do Thirsty Thursday 🍸 with, are married 48-58 AND they don’t care.
—In fact, they’ll torture me with the young girls (19-fake ID to 25) and afterwards, “how did you like taking to my wife…One of the guys, I saw that she (pointing) squeeze your bicep leaning on you. She looks good for 60, you got her number etc”…”what are you doing with us now?”
-That’s life in corporate Downtown area…

[Jacadia]

What you dont get is as you age you only are attracted to people in your age range. People 50 cannot relate to a 20 year old girl and its much worse today with social media etc. That is why guy 10 to 15 years younger dont date their age they love older women.