There's a happy medium to everything. Temperance. You gotta find that. I get what you're saying. I don't think anyone wants to hurt someone (unless they're a bad person). That being said, you can be kind and firm. Women, as much as some of us might not want to admit it, like when guys take charge and act dominant from time-to-time. But like I said, happy medium. Don't do it so much that she feels like you're being controlling. The best advice I can say, and I feel like everyone needs to do this regardless of gender, is communication. Maybe she wants you more dominant in the bedroom? You wouldn't know that without communicating first though. Talk to her. Ask her if you're hurting her. Communicate. She'll tell you. Some women like a soft dom, some don't. Maybe find someone that has the same interests as you?
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Being kind is not the same things as being spineless. My husband is the kindest, most thoughtful person I know, but he also can be assertive when he needs to be. Good women love a kind man, but nobody likes a spineless Man.
Kindness is a basic requirement. All my friends are kind. What else do you have to offer? Do you have a life? Friends? Female friends? What do you like to do? If you meet a woman can you have a conversation without hitting on her immediately?
because kindness and money are usually all they have to offer
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Is that fear holding you back?
Because it sounds to me you're too afraid to take chances - and generally, people don't really take to cowards afraid to take risks very much.
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