The bottom line is the problem is YOU. The way you see yourself and how you handle dating is at fault. I had the SAME problem when I was still in HS. I could not figure out how so many people were dating yet I was not.
Get off the dating Auto-pilot mentality. Auto-pilot says, "Get into a relationship." The problem is a relationship is the end game. There is rarely if ever and training on how to get there.
Try dating a lot. By that, I mean ask out virtually anyone available JUST TO HAVE SOME FUN. Avoid relationship activities such as hanging out to watch a movie, etc. Always pick up or meet the date OUTSIDE of your home. Complete the activity, and then GO HOME.
This will an effect on you and other people. YOU will LEARN to easily and effectively make date request, and talk and communicate with women. You will learn how to NOT put up with a woman's bad habits or traits and stand your ground. You will learn what you want and don't want from women.
Women, on the other hand, will see you out with other people and start to see you as datable and even desirable. Many will view you as "Safe" and want to date you. in other words, it opens opportunities.
Eventually, you will come across someone that is attractive, fun, interesting, moral, and ready for a relationship. The skills you developed will help you with her significantly.
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I don't waste my time on woman that play games. I couldn't say for sure unless I observed you in action trying to get one irl but I'll take a couple jabs on what it may be.
#1 lose you expectations & live in the moment
#2 set boundaries for what you'll tolerate & what you won't, any fails the test & cut them lose.
#3 don't be desperate, desperation repels woman & they have a 6th since about such things.
#4 learn to read body language & never invest more of yourself than she does.
#5 most games woman play are a test to see characteristics in the man, you pass them by not caring / appearing weak, I know it sounds counter intuitive but most woman expect a man to lead & you HAVE to learn not to care if she chooses to follow or not.
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Have you tried online? Not that it has a very high batting average, but it does provide a larger fishpond.
live on the west coast? Yeah sex is easy to find but love is hard…
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