Is it normal to be lonely in a relationship? Can anyone help me I’m crying?

[Anonymous]

Iva been lonely these days , this guy I date he don’t spend holidays with me, he don’t let me meet his family, we don’t take pics, he had invited me to Vegas March so we go April then we didn’t as he needed save now he suddenly went with his family to visit family. He don’t want go for my bday ocotber & wants go somewhere else. it’s messed up he don’t want go on trip with me. Most of the time I’m alone & I look single when girls are happy following guys family & daily with guy 24/7. My family are distant and all married 35-40 and have perfect life perfect home and kids. I’m settled down in life now at 25 and I cry daily of how empty I am. I’m not party girl so don’t say hang out with friends, even friends I have r all with guy and baby or his family. I don’t want marry yet but I just want a relationship and be apart of a guys family. I never experienced that before 25 years. Im depresed and just sleep all day im more skinnier of how unhappy I am. I don’t eat. I’m settled down and empty, no guy letting me be apart of his life. I didn’t know a relationship was being alone 24/7.

[Anonymous]

Dang girl I'm sorry.
I wouldn't stay with him he doesn't seem to be really interested.
He should want to be there for your birthday.
Meeting family guys will at times shy away for a while sometimes not but if you want to settle down and have a serious relationship I would break up with him your worth more than that no girl deserves that ❤️.

[Asker]

I don’t want marry, I just want meet parents. It’s not a big deal. It just means u r showing mom she is your girlfriend that’s it.

[Asker]

U say he’s not interested but he’s the one texting me daily dating me for many years

[Asker]

How is that not being interested?

[Opinion Owner]

I hope I'm not offending you but you said he didn't want to be there for your birthday and many years? hasn't wanted to meet your family I'm here for you if you would like to talk private message🙂

[Asker]

If he’s not serious he would be gone by now since long time I don’t understand

[Opinion Owner]

I'm just giving you my opinion you don't understand him or understand my response?

[Asker]

Yes but I’m just asking u

[Opinion Owner]

Ok I'm trying to say that he's not interested as in committing fully I don't know the whole but from your post that's what it seems if you guys have been together for years and you haven't met his mom and dad there is something wrong with that unless the family lives far away

[Asker]

Yea I read online some men hav issues to comitt. Meeting parents isn’t serious even teenagers have to meet parwnrs then break up next day. Even if I met a random new guy and he met my family it would not be serious. Serious into means to me if u r togeher for 5-10 years

[Asker]

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Any girl can easily show parents a random guy but it can be fake or not serious at all. It’s nothing serious to meet parents. But I need meet parents cuz I don’t want be lonely , I want be happy apart of a guys family , go to fmaily oarties, holidays with guys family, enjoy start a new life. If I have a baby one day, who will visit my baby? His parents will need know who I am and come to my baby’s parties and baby shower. 😥

[Asker]

It’s impossible find a boyfriend, all stores i go to All women r next to baby and guy. I think girls get bfs so easily cuz they have sex. I don’t see one girl without a baby. It’s just girl next to baby and guy. I think girls r trapping men with babies so no wonder I can’t get a new boyfriend never

[Asker]

I don’t want marry , I just want experience at age 25/26 what it’s like meet a guys family, then be my new family, holidays be gone at Bfs parents home to celebrate, plan to move together, take pics with a guy, it’s my dads birthday and I go celebrate and bring my boyfriend along next to me. How can I get that? Girls get that but it don’t mean u will marry. Most do all that and break up fast. It’s not serious to do all that. Not big deal.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why are you still with him? I've been telling you for at least 2 years to break up with him.

[Asker]

No guy wants be my boyfriend , I’m noticing women r trapping men with babies that’s y there’s no new guy to be my boyfriend. I go out all women r next to baby and boyfriend.

[Asker]

Each year that passes I look for new boyfriend and zero luck.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay, but that's not the point. You can get rid of this one now. You shouldn't be searching for a new man anyway when you already have one.

[Anonymous]

Hey, stop wasting your time on that chump and find a guy who really wants to be with you.

[Opinion Owner]

Its not normal.

[Asker]

lol no guy wants be with me , no guy I like is racing to be my boyfriend LOL

[Asker]

No one wants to keep me