I got very drunk on our second date and I feel incredibly embarrassed?

[Anonymous]

Everything was great up until fourth cocktail... We ended up at my place after it and had sex, even though I wasn't planning on it (I had my period and it was so bloody). I even puked on the floor. I keep cringing and I feel too embarrassed to see him again. He probably doesn't like me anymore, which I can understand...
I texted him just now to apologize and thank him for a good time, so I don't know what he will say...

What would you do if you were him? Is there any way I could redeem myself?

[WindAtMyBack]

Let him decide, not us. Don't defeat yourself without knowing how he feels about it. I remember kissing with tongue after puking. Yea its gross in hindsight. It happens.

If it was me, my main concern is whether you have control over your drinking. I've had a bad experience with an alcoholic and now I'm very careful. So is your drinking under control?

Anyway, let him decide. Embarrassment is natural. If you like the guy, don't let that stand in the way.

[slatyb]

Don't you have enough experience to know that four cocktails was about two too many? But it's his behavior that concerns me the most. He had sex with you when you were barely capable of consenting. What sort of man wants to have sex with a woman who is seriously intoxicated?

[Nelis123451]

Personally I would give him a call and say your embarrassed and sorry. Being upfront is the best way. You can offer him some money for expenses that accidentally came. When you've done that you have done everything you could do. And if he doesn't accept it or still is pissed shit happens. As we say in the Netherlands "No handful but a land full". There are more guys.

[doe9de]

If I were him I probably won't care we all make mistakes noones perfect. I know you know that, but sometimes we just need to be reminded. If he really cares for you he won't judge you for it.

[Anonymous]

You've got much bigger things to worry about than whether this stranger wants to see you again. Your behavior could have ended up with you in much worse trouble. Did you use protection? You are prioritizing the wrong concerns.

[TenkRealist]

If it were me, well you got taken advantage of by the guy, he probably thinks you were a quick bang. That's all. You'll never get a respectful relationship from him if that's what you're looking for.

[exitseven]

I would just think it was a great date. Everyone embarrasses them selves. I bet you have a third date.

[ImNoOne111]

Highly depends on the guy. Yes you did kind of mess up but it's not the end of it. Seriously if this happened to me, it would just give both of us something to laugh at later

[Anonymous]

lol, well things happen. Blood and puke don't make for a good time lol, but he may not hold that against you? If he liked you enough otherwise, it might not be hopeless? lol

[Jay3344]

Most men are very forgiving when they get some sex. Plus I’m sure he can differentiate between the effects of alcohol on a person and the personality

[IsoUser]

My question to you as a guy would be why are you so Upset, You got what you wanted and potentially have taken advantage of a guy no less

[BillyBalls]

Who the hell wants to fuck during that time of the month?

[Philyouup]

Everyone gets one fuck up with me, shit happens sometimes. But I’m not everyone else

[Jamie05rhs]

It still boggles my mind that so many people continue to drink alcohol.

[larry69]

I would date you again and ask for period sex actually

[Sam_25]

If I were than I plan for next date at bed with your hot pussy...

[KrakenAttackin]

Welcome to the friends with benefits zone. He won't take you seriously as a potential relationship.

[jshm2]

At your age? You should know better

[lovelovrcrush20211]

not bad

[JesseJayNeak]

You messed up