Is sharing everything to your patner is okay... about ur previous patners and love life and crushes ... will they be insecure about that?

[Sanshe08]

[ohshee]

When you do that there's always going to be something that bring something up and it's going to backfire in your face it all depends on how mature how adult your new partner is but I don't know any couple it is told the other about their previous lover it always seems to backfire in their face what you need to do is tell your partner now that's the past our relationship is the new relationship and that's the only thing we should focus on

[Passing_by]

Totally depends on how you and your partner are. If your past really matters to your partner and they want to know about it, would you be okay with not sharing it with them and willfully hiding it anyway? Although they may become concerned about it but you have all the right to make a choice whether you want to disclose it or not and they have the right to accept it or leave.

[Lliam]

I would never do that. It would sound like I was still thinking about them or comparing my new partner to them. I can't see any benefit.
I don't want to hear my partner reminisce about her previous relationships or escapades, either.

[Phoenix98]

It’s not really something I talk about with my partners because that’s my past. But I mean if they are curious or want to know I don’t have an issue telling them.

[Berethor]

I appreciate honesty, I also appreciate girls that don't bring a lot of baggage.

[RuthlessAggression]

They don't NEED to know anything about your previous lovers. Only if you have

1. STD's
2. Kids
3. Legal trouble with them
4. Feelings still

And in that order

[bamesjond0069]

If they want to know and you can do it in a reassuring way then sure its awesome to have no secrets. But otherwise dont just blab it all out while at dinner... hello common sense applies here.

[ImNoOne111]

Yes. They will be. My mindset was that the ex is gone. So eis things she did to me and I did to her and etc. It's done

[BarryLiverstone]

How much did you wanna share? Like if he shared that with you how would you feel hearing the information?

[In_Trance]

Depends on the person but in my experience it's best you keep that information to yourself. It's really none of their business anyway

[jahaims]

Depends if they want to hear it and how mature they are

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Depends on your partner. Some guys take it casually while some get insecure.

[h3ll00]

yeah, just keep it to yourself. Tell it, if it is something he is going to know from others

[Sam_25]

It's self suicide...

[fireforeffect]

They do not need to know everything.