If women are only interested if the guy is equally or less interested in them how can any guy find a relationship?

Let me explain why this is a problem it’s simple tbh. Men are more interested in sex than women this is an age old idea and proven over and over again by modern science. Unless the guy is trading down no women will want him, yet if he is trading down why would he want a long term relationship? Anyone else see why this is an impossible dilemma in modern dating. Either a guy has to be a really good actor or he has to go for women of lower value than himself or he has to have a low sex drive for a man. But men like me who have a very high sex drive are just fucked and there is really way out.
If women are only interested if the guy is equally or less interested in them how can any guy find a relationship?
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