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+1 ySorry to hear about your situation. I am attaching an except of a handout I give all of my Massage Therapy students and clients. Hopefully it will allow you to sort out your feelings, and discover when and when NOT to expect responses from others, based on the "type" of love being shown, if any:
" The Greek language distinguishes several different senses (meanings) for the word "love" with a different root word for each sense. Ancient Greek has the words xenia, philia, storge, agape, and eros. Let’s look at them more closely and see how they relate to the Massage Therapist.
Xenia: Xenic hospitality was an extremely important practice in Ancient Greece. It was an almost ritualized friendship between a host and his guest, people who could previously have been total strangers. Xenic love was shown by the host by respecting his guest, and by the guest who would not be a burden to the host. The host fed and provided quarters for the guest, who was expected to repay only with gratitude, except in the case of traveling bards, wherein entertainment and news from other towns was the usual “thank you”. The importance of this can be seen throughout Greek mythology, in particular, Homer's Iliad and Odyssey.
Philia: This love has comradeship and friendship for another individual, but it expects a response. It is a love of relationship, comradeship, sharing, communication and friendship. While eros makes lovers, phileo makes a bond that is all trusting, and not sexual in nature. They share each other’s thoughts, feelings, attitudes, plans and dreams. They confide in each other secrets, fears and needs that they would not share with another. Note the use of this Greek root in the words philanthropy (generosity) and hydrophilia (water-loving).
Storge: This is the love often described as a comfortable old shoe relationship comprised of natural affection and a sense of belonging to each other. Storgic love represents a safe haven for people as it is a place of acceptance, mutual respect and shelter, one example of which is familial love- that of parents and offspring to each other. Many people dwell in storgic love for years and misunderstand it as being mundane or boring. But in effect it is a very safe place, but can simply lack excitement we might seek. It can also serve as the moat around your relationship, protecting it from outside forces. Storgic love can co-exist with other types of love and can be likened to a foundation made up of trust and safety.
Agape: Refers to a "pure," ideal type of love, not sexual attraction suggested by eros. To love agapically is to love completely, but expect nothing in return. Agape love is different from erotic love in that it is not sexual nor romantic in nature. Its nature is that of self sacrifice. Agape love was shown by Jesus, as He gave Himself totally to save mankind from sin. Agapic love is also different from the other kinds of love in that you can choose it. It is a giving of yourself for the betterment of the relationship. Agape love can help you to “protect” yourself emotionally during difficult times as you love someone but expect nothing in return. You can love someone completely and still have boundaries and maintain your self respect.
Eros: This type of love is associated with sex and romance. It is that erotic feeling we get when a sexual relationship moves forward. Your world and mind circles about your loved one and they are always on your mind. You strive for time together romantically. Eros love is totally emotional, sexual and cannot typically be summoned at will. Sadly, while most of us have experience erotic love in our lives, it is not sustainable. While erotic love is not sustainable, it can cycle in and out of a relationship over its course. "10 Reply
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+1 yFirst, very sorry you feel that way.
Second this is not an easy question to answer because it is a very good and important question.
Yes true love is real. There are 4 kinds of love Romantic (Eros), Family (Storge), Friendship (phileo), Principled (Agape). Agape is the unconditional love and it is not an emotion it is a choice. A conscious mindful deliberate goal oriented choice focused on the welfare of the other person, regardless of the return.
Most confuse romantic love, eros is a physical attraction, that often becomes possessive and is definitely not unconditional.
You will know what one it is because of the state you feel yourself in. We do not have a place for negative emotions. So like a big beachball in the kitchen they don't belong get bounced around knocking things everywhere. Making you feel disorganized and out of control.
Real love is exactly like what the bible says at 1 Corinthians 13:4
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous. It does not brag, does not get puffed up, does not behave indecently, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep account of the injury. It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.
HERE IS THE KEY
Here is the mental issue. We constantly think we have to earn love and be worthy. We think it has to do with us. Again the bible helps a lot to fix this wrong thinking.
1 John 4:18,19
There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment. The one who fears has not been perfected in love. We love because He first loved us.
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God recommends his own love to us in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.—Romans 5:8
So it is NOT the receiver that prompts the love. It is the GIVER. And the giver can promote love even in a hater.
That means you can be a source of love, just like God is, where there is none. Look at how people treat God and how his son was treated. And yet they still sacrifice so much and endure so much for us. Imagine how painful it is to watch people everyday act like they do. We feel this comparatively, only in a microscopic scale.
So it is understandable you feel this way.
What is more, the bible once again said that people would act in a very selfish and unloving way at 2 Timothy 3:1-5 if you care to read it.
I would suggest that you realize that you really are loved. There will be trivial and selfish people always around you who will want to tear you down. Stay focused on who you want to be. Be a source of love. Always choose to do the loving thing. It will no doubt draw the solid loving people into your life.10 Reply
+1 yI really dislike how people positively throw the concept of unconditional love around, the only time their should be unconditional love is between a parent and a child because that sense of responsibility for who they are is there. In romantic relationships unconditional love is non existent if not extremely dysfunctional, because we enter relationships to have our needs met which vary from person to person, imagine loving someone no matter what they do to you it’s toxic, I speak from personal experience of trying to love from more of a place with conditions now for my own health. If you don’t want to get ghosted just work on yourself and creating depth in your friendships and men and women will just become more drawn to you, don’t go out looking for love create it and expect more to come in, if you are looking then you will attract guys that can sense that desperation and that’s not a very good way to start a connection with someone, with them knowing they have the upper hand on you all the time.
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"no matter what they do to you"
Love does not equal accepting abuse.
+1 yIt really does seem like many relationships these days are very fragile, that the slightest thing can end it, ghosted and blocked without even talking about it.
People don't want to have confrontation and real world discussions, they find it easier to end it and move on... rinse and repeat dozens of times and then they complain there is no good people out there.
I have found when dealing with people over 35 or 40 they are WAY more likely to get down into the details to try and work things out. People closer to my age are far less likely to.
I will say it does exist, but one of the problems is that when someone does have unconditional love, someone else may take advantage of them. They abuse that love and trust until they ruin the other person who will no longer ever offer that to someone else in the future.
As a result in the future, someone who used to have unconditional is far more likely to just ghost, block and move on rather than put up with that crap again.24 Reply- +1 y
It is what happens when people believe love to be a feeling which it is not. Love is an action, not an emotion or a feeling. Yes you can feel love and certainly get emotional about it. But, love is an action. It is something that takes work to make it work. Unconditional love is a selfless act of giving and asking nothing in return. True love means you love them even if they don’t love you in return. Conditional love is not love, it is infatuation.
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@nawtee_me Love is also a feeling, though. You can't discount that.
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@Jamie05rhs how is love a feeling? Yes you can feel loved by someone else but that is you feeling their action of love towards you. How can your love for someone else be a feeling?
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@nawtee_me Either you feel it or you don't. You will know.
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+1 yI've been cheated on and I've broken up with someone I thought I'd marry. I was a but discouraged too.
But! I'm currently with someone that I know, without a doubt, that I'm going to be with the rest of my life.20 Reply - 368 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yTrue unconditional love is real, but very hard to come by. It’s a commitment to love each other and endure anything for each other. That kind of thing doesn’t happen immediately. Before a commitment like that is made a strong bond needs to be nurtured and developed. It is something that isn’t just found—it’s created.
To achieve this ideal in your mind for what love can be, you need to find someone who shares that same ideal in their mind, and then you can build and create that love together.
It’s conditional in the sense that it first needs to be built. You can’t expect someone you just met to take a bullet for you. But once you’ve built an emotional bond strong enough, you may find someone who is willing to go to hell and back for you. Someone who will love you through thick and thin no matter what. And, though not a requirement for them, you should feel the desire to do the same for them.
True love mutually going both ways is the most beautiful thing a human can experience.00 Reply 626 opinions shared on Dating topic. I do believe 100% in real love that comes from both sides by looking at my own experience!
But did doesn't mean that the relationship is going to last till the end! Nothing is certain in a relationship no mather if 2 people genuinely love each other!
Me and my ex lived together for 6 years in a very intense passioned relationship that could be very explosive during fights. Not healthy at all but the feelings and love for each other was very honest and mutual.
We broke up in 2016 didn't see eachother for 2 years but after seeing each other again somewhere in 2018 we talked everything out to close the relationship for good.
We made the deal that we were going to try to be mutual friends without anything more then just a friendship and we both sticked to those rules and the friendship couldn't be better. As long as both sides respect the rules not crossing the center line you can have a thrully valuable friend on your side for a long long time!
We have till this day a honest, caring, loving connection and we both are really happy about it knowing there will always be someone who you can thrully thrust to be there if you need help or struggle in life.
Being friends instead of lovers was the best thing ever and we will never kiss, flirt or have sex with eachother again keeping the friendship as plane as can be in order to be able to succeed without difficult emotions00 ReplyFrankly, join the club. I don’t mean to be insensitive, so maybe you can take some comfort in knowing that you’re not the only one. That’s a very common problem for men. Take me for example. No one ever usually bothers texting me back. Like, not ever. Most people don’t even check their messages, and those that do leave me on “read”. No one EVER responds. The upside to my experience is that I know for a fact true love is real. Unconditional love is not the kind of love you want in a relationship though. Unconditional love is rare and very difficult to maintain because it literally doesn’t change no matter what happens. In a relationship though, you need to be able to keep your partner accountable. By definition, there must be conditions on that kind of love. What most people don’t understand these days that a genuine functioning relationship requires patience, dedication, effort and perseverance. So yes, it does exist and I am just waiting to give my love to one of those rare individuals to understand these things. The only trouble is that finding someone like that these days he’s like hunting the elusive Sasquatch or some sort of unicorn. So from one perpetually single man to one continually single woman, best of luck to you in your search and you can have my snap if you like. 😂
00 Reply350 opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah it's just hard to find because these days we're mostly socially-distant strangers.
Most of our time on earth, we were in groups of like 20 who traveled with like 10 other groups. So we only interacted with like 200-300 people over our whole lives, and far all we knew at the time, we were the only 200-300 humans in existence.
So everyone knew everyone else more intimately than most married couples do today.
And people only were comparing themselves against 200-300 other people. It wasn't like you were looking for dates and then supermodels walk by. People were on a relatively even playing field, and the cultures insisted it be this way. So the superficial counted for very little, and you knew everyone's deepest personalities.10 Reply
+1 yI believe love exists, but not the kind of love in the movies or that you read about in romance novels. That's far too unrealistic. No one can live up to that kind of expectation.
People often think it's not real or true love if it doesn't last a lifetime, but that's not true. Just because someone doesn't love you forever that doesn't mean what they felt at the time wasn't real or true love. People can change over time. When that happens their wants, needs and desires can change too. Gradually their feelings can start to change when that happens.
I believe unconditional love can only exist beween a parent a child. Not between a couple.10 Reply544 opinions shared on Dating topic. Love is not unconditional except loving Jesus Christ.
Love is a social contract where things of value are contributed.
"My crushes seem to not notice me."
You are not a flower waiting to be picked. You have to let us know, what they called "dropping the hankie" back in the Olden Days. Get our attention.
No. Not dressing excessively hot or (OMG NO!) sending nudes.
When you are near him simply say: "Perhaps you can buy me a coffee sometime".
Even if he is slightly interested, that is a Green Light. Let him act next.20 Reply- 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yI would say you're just choosing to talk to the wrong guys. There's many guys out there that are looking for true love, including myself. I believe true love... finding a partner that has tons of chemistry with you (similar interests, views, life goals, sense of humor, etc) and is faithful and honest with you is one of the great aspects of happiness. I'll be honest and say that not everyone is lucky enough to find that person. You have to know what to look for in a person and not give up every time the going gets tough. But it does exist. I really hope that you do find it one day :)
00 Reply 692 opinions shared on Dating topic. It's a real thing, though "unconditional" love, I've only experienced that towards my kids. Even between my wife and I love is conditional, like if I turned into a shit bag, she would leave me, or if she cheated on me, so on and so forth.
If you're getting burned out, maybe try looking for a guy at church, a club, class, whatever, rather than a dating site. Pretty much the only thing to get out of dating sites now is NSA or ONS, I'd be glad to get ghosted rather than getting an STD to be honest lol00 ReplyI think it is possible to find true love, but also note that it will never be unconditional because you will always like the person under the condition that they provide something of value to you (whatever you find valuable). I also think as a woman you are more likely to find unconditional love, it will just take some time before the right person decides to take you seriously. When people say there are more fish in the sea it's kind of like a double edge sword because yes to their point there are more people out there to meet but let's say you find someone then there are still more fish in the sea so why would you that person choose you. So it is important that you start doing things and changing yourself to be that person your ideal person would want to have in their life. It will be trial and error, not everyone gets it on the first try, but the best things in life are not easy.
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+1 yTrue love is a fiction. Men are sold this nonsense so they will enter into arrangements that only hurt them financially. Women constantly look for someone better (hypergamy). When the guy comes along who makes more money, the wife alleges "abuse" and seeks divorce. She will take his kids, his house and half his assets. No guy should ever get married. Parents should get vasectomy for their boys at age 13. Boys should be taught that women are for sex but not for marriage. Never tell a woman you love her.
00 ReplyTrue love is real. Unconditional love isn't, unless maybe the being is a domesticated dog or cat.
My wife is my true love. I know this because of both prior experiences with other women, as well as being married to my wife. My wife wasn't my first love. But she wanted the same things out of love as me. But... That doesn't mean it is unconditional.
Conditions must exist for the relationship to be balanced how we choose. In my opinion, that is the point of both true love and marriage. A couple is free to explore and empower their relationship through said conditions. For every couple out there, it is different.
Bottom line is the same values and respect at some point align enough for two people to risk it all with confidence and conviction. And when those moments occur, true love is the driving factor.00 Reply
+1 yYep. Don't stress it or rush looking for it and it'll happen. You'll realize you never really felt anything for anyone like you thought you have. Let life happen and enjoy being single. Then when it comes you can enjoy being in a relationship. But even real love has pain and hard times. A lifelong relationship takes a lot of work, kindness, FORGIVENESS, and passion. There's so many options. It's easy to forget people are human and make mistakes because why go through that when there's the entire world of replacements easily found online.
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+1 yGive yourself another few. years and another dozen or so people to know. It all takes time and patience.
Concentrate on some personal goal, invest time in your hobbies and live your life. THings usually fall into place when you least expect it...10 Reply
+1 yMaybe it’s just my experience, but I feel that a lot of people between age 20 and 30 have real commitment issues nowadays. I don't know. Maybe it’s always been that way, but me and all my guys have found it difficult to seek out the women that want a relationship and a family in the future.
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+1 yDepends on your definition.
My definition of real love is being there for them in the tough times because they are worth it. That kind of connection takes time.
"I get ghosted over the most shallow and trivial things? No one even wants a relationship the ones that do I feel no connection with?"
Where are you looking? If it's dating apps and social media, then you are playing a losing game looking for love.
You need to meet real people, hang with them, and find someone you like over time.00 Reply
+1 yThe fact you're conflating "true love" with "unconditional" is already a problem.
There are several different kinds of love. I suggest you read up on them so you learn how to make sense of your emotions.
And no. All love is conditional, all of it. Wave your imaginary magic wand and create your perfect man. Your love for him is still conditional, he maintains those qualities,( or specific ones rather). For example, You wouldn't still love him if he beat you, (and you shouldn't)00 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI think it will take generations to learn how to date with modern technology.
People seem to believe that if a relationship is right then nothing will ever be difficult and with the illusion of endless choices, why struggle at all when you might find your dreams if you just swipe again one more time?30 Reply
+1 yYes it is. There's the right person for everyone out there. If you get ghosted by someone then it wasn't meant to be and obviously that person isn't worth your time. Accepting the reality of situations helps with dating. As for getting noticed, you can go talk to your crushes. Waiting for the guy to make all the moves won't always happen. If you want something then pursue it.
20 ReplyShort answer... no. Love can be betrayed... and once betrayed, that unconditional love everyone speaks of goes right out the window. For an example, the woman I was in love with and married, ended up hanging out with some friends she had not seen since middle school and she ended up on meth, addicted, kept it secret from me for almost 4 years before I finally found out the truth. I gave her one chance to go to rehab, she refused. My love ended... no more. That was the ultimate betrayal, especially when she knows I lost my only son to somebody who was on drugs. So yeah, love is always conditional... this unconditional love people speak of is complete B. S.
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+1 yI found the stronger the attraction, the more I'd avoid them... when fear and shame rule the heart.
you'd do well learning to project yourself more... confidently? you may be more introverted and shy, work on that inner strength if so.
Outgoing girls get the guy... sometimes.
Love is a choice... yes.
Ghosting... this generation of communication and etiquette is a mess...10 Reply
+1 yConnection is a must before anything for me, so my opinion properly won't be to everyones taste.
Personally, I think there's someone for everyone. That's why we break up then meet someone new until we find someone who just naturally fits, it just means the people you met aren't for you.
Fall in love with yourself, heal the wounds from previous dates/relationships. No doubt someone perfect will show up with you're least expected it.13 Reply- +1 y
Can I ask you a question
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Sure
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Could you be in a serious relationship with a man that doesn’t have a huge penis?
Love is real but it should never be unconditional. You have to know what you want and enforce boundaries after all. There are a ton of people in the world from every culture and background you can imagine. Of course many of them won't line up with what you ideally want. It takes time to find them, so look diligently but be patient!
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+1 yI can tell you that love is real, and unconditional love is real. I know what it is. I've experienced it. You know, a half century ago a young woman whom I dearly loved broke up with me after two years, saying she didn't think it would work. You know when I came to terms with this? When I realized that, 1, she was probably right, and 2, you can love someone who's wrong for you, but it doesn't mean it was wrong to love them, or that you still can't, even though they're not in your life.
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m +1 ya crush is not love... first of all
a crush is just idealization, infatuation more of a fantasy than actual feelings
true love can be real, yes... it does exist, but it is beyond those crushes and they are not unconditional, no... there has to be many conditions met, the right ones of course, for love to happen you have to put a lot into it ot make it worth and to make it genuine as well00 Reply 604 opinions shared on Dating topic. I think it is. Most people get ghosted just like you, and most people don't get to date their crushes, who knows why.. i think it's rare when that happens.
You are going for the wrong guys i bet. There are a lot of guys who don't want to settle and just fuck around with as many girls as possible.10 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Love in this world is always conditional. Even if you think you find the perfect person, and you love them more than life itself, that love would end if they turned into a child molester. There are always conditions.
10 ReplyTrue love has never existed as portrayed in media. There still is very deep love but nothing is unconditional, a lot of the time the co dictionary is being yourself and being loved in return. Otherwise, everyone would be romantically involved with everyone as they would be loved without conditions/standards. However for your case, it seems to be more so a poor selection
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI think if it's someone your talking with online then most can be very shallow because there hiding behind a device so they already don't have to do much this doesn't go for all guys so nice guys don't get offended. But the genuine guys are out there I promise
10 ReplyIt's crazy cause I feel the same way eversince what happend too me happend too me would explain but it's not something I'm gonna say on this app because why the fuck would anyone believe me
11 ReplyLove comes from many experiences stacked up on top of one another, especially the moments where you were in a crisis and that person was there for you. Like if you needed a new kidney and they donated theirs. Or if you were paralyzed and they cared for you in your time of need. How much truer is that?
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yCynics often swear it doesn't exist, while hopeless romantics think everyone should set out to find their soulmates. With science now showing that true love is not only possible, but can actually last a lifetime, we've decided to look at the psychological elements that allow love to bloom or fade.
00 Reply816 opinions shared on Dating topic. There really isn't such a thing as unconditional love with a partner. Being in love is a constant process. There is no once its there, it stays forever. Thats only if both continually work it out and communicate rather than argue. Is true love real? Ofcourse. But very few people even those in relationships have it let alone know how to maintain it
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+1 yI would stop trying to get in relationship and work on yourself. Why are you seeking shallow people who abandon you if you don't say the right things? Unconditional love is real. You have to be ready to recieve and not just saying you are because when you do meet it. It will terrify you if you aren't ready.
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+1 yI have loved a girl once unconditionally and have done everything to make her happy. What a waste of my feelings that she never respect my love which I gave her and she cheated and left me for that guy who always abuse her and beat her and he only uses her for sex. This is real truth may that if you loved any body unconditionally no one respect your love and respect your love. Now I'm afraid to love any girl now.
00 Reply960 opinions shared on Dating topic. I'd imagine it is, but I don't know about unconditional love. Maybe it's possible in someone who may have mental issues. But as an extreme example, hardly anyone would unconditionally love someone after they stabbed you.
But I'd like to think true love exists, though it may be hard to find.00 ReplyAh, I want to be in true love. And I think I can unconditionally love someone.
However, the person who would do such thing for me and make me fall in love doesn't seem to exist.
So,..
Well I don't know10 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYes it does but it's rare and hard to find. Most people (especially these days) don't seem to even be bothered to get to know a person beyond the surface at all. Goes for both men and women. They find the first "flaw" or thing that isn't "perfect" and they're gone.
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+1 yI feel ya, girl. It seems like every decent guy who MIGHT be capable of a true, loving relationship is taken :/
Still, I'm not giving up hope and neither should you! What else is worth pursuing in the long run anyway?11 Reply- 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yThis is how I see it: love is unconditional, but relationships are not.
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+1 yProbably not. Because of our specie’s inclination to survive, people are attracted to strong, healthy, intelligent, handsome/beautiful, cooperative, competitive, and charismatic people that make them feel better, not worse on average. In an ideal world, all people would love everyone unconditionally. But the hard reality is that not everything is fair. Everyone has different personalities and there is no equality of outcomes when people are too complex for that.
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+1 yYes I do and I think that ghosting someone is really pathetic. Especially if you are trying to tell someone that is important. That is not true love. Some people aren't mean to be but that does not mean YOU are bad
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+1 yTrue love is VERY real.. Providing you don't try explaining the scientific reasoning, because it gets unreal very quickly.
Just a thought, but have you considered the possibility you could be picking the wrong guys to fall for?00 Reply I think so, but I think that it's hard to find, and hard to form.
Not everyone should be unconditionally loved, but if you find someone that you can trust, and who fits with your goals, then I think that it can happen.00 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. You answered your own question, it's the people you are interested in that's the problem.
The people that are interested are not appealing to you, that should say a lot.20 Reply
+1 y"Love" is not a useful term here. It's far too vague of a concept.
I can tell you that all *affection* is conditional, all *respect* is conditional, basically all human emotions are conditional.10 Reply- 420 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yUnconditional love is usually just for your own kids but I do believe in true love. The problem is no one will have love for you in the beginning so will be more likely to be put off over the small things.
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+1 yPersonally, I don't think romantic love is unconditional. Family love is, romance is solely dependent on the person still maintaining and behaving like the person you agreed to be with.
This is why when people change, couples have problems.01 Reply- +1 y
Family love is totally conditional
I believe so though at times I feel like a moron. I've waited most my life other than a horrible relationship at 19 & a slut phase I had right after. I had a subconcious way of sabotaging love after that, whenever they got too close.
10 Reply5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, unconditional love is totally fictional. Nonsensical. In real life there is nothing called as unconditional love.
Love can never be unconditional.00 ReplyYes, it is and if you are just having sex, You need to learn to make love to your spouse and not just have sex. Sex is what teens and college kids do, making love is a totally different situation.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI stopped believing that females are capable of it...
But I know I am and many males I know are, I stayed with my wife even after her affair and after she was diagnosed with MS. I love her and fight through everything even when it kills me inside.
I know most men put up with so much crap from the women who say they “love” them.00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. my Crushes don seem to notice me either, But I still believe in true love.
It's just really hard to find and when you do it can be really hard to keep.10 Reply671 opinions shared on Dating topic. I can assure you it is real. It took me a very long time to find it though. I think it’s getting more difficult for people now than it used to be. We live in an unstable society.
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+1 yTrue love is real if you want it to be real & when it comes to love the heart wants what the heart wants.
10 Reply Not with any human. Merely because humans fall in & out of love with each other on a daily basis which is why we should put all our love & trust in our father in Heaven. God bless everyone in the world 🌎🙏🏾.
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+1 yYes it's real and you get ghosted cause there full of shit a man that loves you won't leave you cause he'd feel like he couldn't live without you. Trust me it's real take your time and you'll find it
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+1 yUnconditional love is for children and pets.
Expecting unconditional love from about adult is basically asking if you can have carte blanche to abuse them.12 Reply- +1 y
@artemissilver Yes. Love from a woman is highly conditional and will rapidly evaporate if you displease her, lose your job, become disabled, seriously Ill, or otherwise fall short of her idea of what you should be. Women are brutal opportunists.
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Oh believe me man I know I've lived it
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+1 yi don't consider "unconditionally loving" somene "true love". i consider that to be naive idiocy. the only beings that you should love unconditionally is your baby and maybe your pet.
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+1 yTrue unconditional love can and she's exist, and it didn't even have to be in Romania relationships. I have friendships in which unconditional love and emotional intimacy are the building blocks of the friendships with both men and women.
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