Yes. I've rewritten several of my male friend's profiles and then within 2 months, boom they have a girlfriend. Also, who knew, commenting on her bio gets a lot more responses than commenting on her photos? :P
It's not hard, you just have to put effort into it. But most guys tell themselves its cool to not try too hard, but anyone smart knows that online dating is about marketing. You don't have to be a simp, but you have to look approachable and like you have friends who enjoy hanging out with you.
Also shots of fish, binge drinking, or bikini models is never going to attract anyone trying to treat you decently.
Could you review my profile if I PM it to you?
Yes for sure. Also, if you have any close female friends or a sister, have them look at your profile. A lot of guys' profiles don't stand out and have bad pictures, but the guys probably don't realize - because they don't see the other 1000 men's profiles in the area. If you know a woman who scrolls through many men's profiles, she can advise you on what to change so your profile stands out
Would you be able to review my profile if I Pm it to you? It might be good to hear a viewpoint from someone who doesn’t know me too.
The less you write the better. Just have your picture if you are attractive and post your income level. If you don't have your picture or income level you will get far less matches/interest.
Often one of the first things women ask about is your income (even if they just ask what job you have and for how long that pretty much accomplishes the same thing as asking how much you make because they want to know the specific job, not just the field of work.)
It is supposed to work.
Did it for a friend of mine, helped him write a nice fresh bio and helped him choose which photos looked good and he got a match the next day.
But at the same time, I've done multiple tries on mine and have no received a single match for months.
So it may work, may not.
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If you're going to the trouble of competing with thousands of men on those sites then I don't see why you wouldn't put the effort in. I'm going to dispel a myth here, it's not only the top end guys that find girls on them. Ordinary men do too. The one's that fail are the ones that take shit creepy photos and write weird profiles.
What makes a good photo/bio?
I have been told my photos are creepy but I do not know what makes them that way or how to do better.
I am definitely weird, but I am 100% not a fuck boy or rapist.
And the bio, what am I supposed to write? I do not have a boat and I don't want to start off with dishonesty.
I HATE online dating. It gives people the RIGHT to be shallow and ultra picky!
But sometimes, I feel like I didn't have a choice. I was too busy working to go to bars and it's just too weird to scrap up a stranger to talk to on the super market! You don't know if they are married or taken!
That is exactly how I feel. The problem is it’s not been your job to approach it’s mine. Your just starting to understand what men have to put themselves through to ask women out.
But then there’s bad attitude and entitlement being a dick as well. Have you ever been told ew when you put yourself out there to ask a man out?
It’s no surprise people have gone to dating online. Frankly I think anonymity and favoritism in the form of “pretty privilege” and “women’s equality” have made women more comfortable to show what they really are without checks and balances.
I think it’s the Japanese that have a saying. We all have 3 faces. The face we show everyone, the face we show our family, and the face we never show. If you think it makes sense. Everyone sees the polite side of us, then family live with us and start to see the more open and comfortable side with the negative things… Then there’s your guilty pleasures, your darkest thoughts, your cruelest, coldest, most selfish side you can’t share because people will hate you.
Yes, good quality photos that consist of certain things (eg; smiling image) and a quirky/impressive bio helps a lot.
However, it's also based on a rating system and takes into account how active, often you swipe left and tracks if you even message your matches! There's so much behind the ranking of profiles on online dating apps that we don't consider
True. Sometimes I really wonder, did you look at your pictures before putting them online?
And most guys look a lot better in real life than they do online, at least in my experience. Sometimes they look ugly - average online but they're actually really hot, such a weird thing.
And also bios can put me off. Lame jokes and pick up lines are a no, a story about how you are looking for true love is also a no, if you list all the things you hate about women is a no. Maybe a few other things.
True in my opinion. If a guy has bad photos and his bio barely has anything written then I will swipe left.
It’s hard to have a convo when there’s nothing to work with from his bio. You can also tell a bit from his bio about his personality. Is he funny? Quirky? Charming? Laid back? Does he have proper grammar?
You don’t really need a bio, because that will be the Kay thing she will be checking out, plus I wouldn’t say HD pics but more pics of your success the things you love to do, evolving loving, caring, sharing with people, children and pets with some dominance you can catch any female with that. When she sees those photos then she’ll check your bio and wants to know who you are, and the brave ones will automatically slide into your dms
Yes, and that means doing more than posting pics of them with their damn dog, cat, etc. Its soo lame.😩✋🏾
Or pics of them holding up a fish or a gun 😭
@petitedollbabee That too! 🤣
Are y’all being serious right now? So a man showing his hobbies is lame? A man that can care for other living creatures is lame? And able to provide food for others is lame?
Well in my opinion your names are about as lame as a woman can get… cunnunglis and “petitedollbabee”? Y’all might as well be smellytwat and twigbarbiedoll at this point.
Ooh looks like your feelings got hurt 😂😂 it’s really not that deep man. Don’t take it so personally.
If I keyed your car and told you it’s not that deep don’t take it so hard would you be angry? If I threw cold water in your face and told you “it’s just water” would I get a rise out of you?
Your words stink like your twat.
😂😂😂
@petitedollbabee You replied exactly as I would have 🤣🤣
@VanillaSalt Is coming at our names the best you got? Your username doesn't even make sense; Have a seat... A hit dog will holler I tell you. 😩
Vanillasalt consists of any type of course or ground salt combined with vanilla bean seeds to enhance the salt with the flavor and aroma of vanilla.
If you’ve ever opened a cook book you might know. Google still exists so if you just googled the meaning you wouldn’t be looking dumb right now.
Of course emojis are how you’d respond. I would expect nothing more from animals of such low intelligence.
at least one part of your username is very accurate, you’re salty as hell over a comment that wasn’t aimed directly at you, yet you managed to take offence to it. I bet you’re fun at parties.
Poke a stick in enough holes and your bound to find at least one rattler. Maybe you shouldn’t degrade men for their hobbies specially when you lack enough intelligence and sophistication to think of a less derogatory name… you ladies need to be humbled. I stand by every word I said.
Men do the exact same thing? You act as if it’s one-sided. Guys make fun of womens profiles too, a lot of women wear skimpy outfits or pull the duck lips face in photos, and they get the piss taken out of them for it. Stop playing the victim, seriously. It was nothing more than a bit of light fun being poked at majority of mens dating profiles.
You wanna compare dressing like a prostitute and doing that stupid duck lips pose to a majority of competent mens hobbies? Did you feel it was “light fun” when I called out your lack of intelligence? Seems like it offended you a bit. Maybe you offended many men out there and I’m just the one telling you.
I’m not a victim. I see you as the victim of your own failure to understand what you did.
Regardless… Perhaps laughing at men that post proof of their ability to acquire food on their own during the start of a food shortage isn’t the best way to handle it. Maybe laughing at men that treat animals well also is a bad use of your time.
You wanna know the character of a person… watch how they treat those they see as inferior.
Truly “nice guy” vibes coming from this one… 🥴 There’s nothing wrong with men who treat animals well or show off their hobbies. The joke was that male profiles all have the same types of photos. The joke went right over your head, and out the window. For someone who claims they’re intelligent, you really missed the whole point of the original comment, and ended up triggering yourself over something stupid. I think you’ve had enough internet for one day…
Really? Do you think men see women’s profiles or mens profiles? Seems like you mistook the joke “going over my head” with an inside joke that nobody but women would know or understand.
I never tried to be nice either. I’ve been straight with you from the start. Your characters obvious for anyone that looks. You’ve insulted mens hobbies then somehow it’s mens fault for getting offended? Like I said watch how someone treats the people they see as beneath them. It will tell you all you need to know about their character.
@petitedollbabee save your energy, arguing with that user isn't profitable. The moment they started degrading us as their way of coming back is the moment they lost
@VanillaSalt If you have resort low level brow beating to support your stance. Then it just proves that the hill you're standing isn't nothing but a lump of dirt. Enjoy throwing your rocks at a wall.
You didn’t have an issue talking shit about others earlier did ya? It’s hilarious you think you can run your mouth then have any defense when someone calls you out on it LMAO!
I’m not browbeating you. I’ll telling you what shitty people you are. Your incapable of understanding how what you did was wrong. I don’t think you see the irony in you two calling others out for doing exactly what you were doing earlier in this very post.
Good bye twig and twat.
True, it's literally built into algos.
Having a higher effort profile makes the app look good, so they'll push the ones that look better.
Also, presenting yourself nicely makes a big difference.
I knowww like I feel bad bc there’s a lot of guys I see on dating apps that I don't know they might be great guys. But I immediately swipe left because they take a picture of themselves laying in bed with they’re phone 5 inches from their face.
I would like if it's true but I'm not sure it is. The problem for me is to figure out a bio that is genuinely interesting and different from other guys.
Because I feel like what ever I write in there it doesn't make a difference
u Stating the obvious. Although some people can’t get more matches regardless of their profile if their personality is sh*t.
True! No one wants to see a lame bio with blurry, lame pictures.
Hmm... improving my looks, hobbies and personality... yeah, I think that would improve my chances of a match.
This is false. See this experiment. If you aren't in the top 10% of men, you will not get many matches online.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/35fiNZTVVtUand of course the beta male who made this question dissagrees.
as if writing 79% of people polled on this are wrong
What do you mean?
i mean that the people that said true are wrong. they have done studies.
So 80% are wrong?
True looks matter, it matters more than your bio. Bio has little importance
True 100%.
Most guys, me included, can't take a decent picture to save their lives.
Very true. It shows how much efforts they're willing to put, which is extremely important.
Nothing can help a racist or an Asian fetishist.
Yes, photos are the major thing.
Desperate people and their apps 😂
Maybe
But TINDER AND DATING APPS IS FOR SISSIES
@zagor
Work, Job. Gym, neighborhood
@zagor
I don't know, how did our ancestors do it.
Cause I’m sure as hell they didn’t sent applications with their pictures on it.
LMAOOOO 🤣
The porn and the fake Barbie on those apps that you can’t even obtain
Is getting to your head.
Every time I F*KED someone it was a bad boy alpha guy from work.
Coworkers and managers have the best D-K. too
A. Makes a lot of sense to me.
Sure it's possible
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Absolutely true!
It's true
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