If it comes up, you must confess. Otherwise it’s deceitful. If you think it could come up, you should confess. Otherwise it appears deceitful. Unless you’ve had some conversation wherein you each suggest that “the past is the past and only the future matters” or something of the like, it’s probably worth admitting. I mean, there are probably stills and gifs of you floating around cyberspace just waiting to drop on his phone or laptop. Better to be up front with it than to appear deceitful or ashamed. Just my far less than concrete opinion.
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I already stated my answer to you yesterday. If you respect him, you'll tell him the truth immediately, as well as telling him it was a huge mistake, you're not that person anymore, and that you'd never do that again. And then BEG HIM for forgiveness for keeping such a secret from him, let alone doing that kind of 'work' to begin with.
Anything less than that and you don't deserve him and he needs to find someone better than you.
You should, but that wouldn't be like a first date thing, but after a while you should have a talk about both your pasts, not to judge but to make sure neither finds out something accidently after your invested.
How would you feel if he finds out by chance later, or how would he feel?
I told my man by the 12th date, as we were discussing our future together, that I used to do it. As I know people stole content and its out there and he might come across it.
It's better to tell him yourself than finding it out by one of his guy friends
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Would it be okay for him to hide important information from you?
Well, your face is out there on the net. So long as you aren't doing it anymore you should make that clear. If he cones across it and comes unglued it wouldn't be fun and would possibly bring up the fact you neglected to tell him about it in the first place therefore compromising trust in the relationship.
You may not be doing it anymore, but in his mind why should he believe you if you didn't tell him until he found out by other means. He may believe you are lying again.Does your use of it define who you are now?
Did you learn something profound from doing it, that you feel affects how you live your life now?
A lot of guys might not take it well, but then plenty of them would. Seems like it just depends on your boyfriend, if he isn't going to hold it over your head for the rest of your life, and you feel like he should know, then sure go for it.
Otherwise, I'd say probably not.If you’re only dating and feel like you have to keep secrets, it’s not gonna work out. One way or another he will eventually find out, and find out that you’ve either been lying by omission or potentially have had to increasingly escalate your coverups until they are overt lies. Some guys might be into that. I’m not one of them, but with the younger guys these days who knows?
I think the choice is entirely up to you and as long as you are honest with the person you are and feel like it is something that can't get in the way I say keep to yourself. Is there a chance he could discover? I wouldn't fear him discovering you on the site, if he's using it and finds some images of you or profile then he is hiding something simply by going on the site.
Yes it would be best to tell him. He may not like it, he may even break up w you about it but if he finds out on his own it may be just as bad or worse. He may not even care especially if you have quit doing it. As a man I’m thinking ok so basically you’re sort of s prostitute in a way. Like for $10 you were showing your ass off to other men. So how does that make me special?
If it was before the relationship, it's not really his business. Telling him could go either way. Maybe he trusts you more, or maybe it is a huge turnoff. Or maybe he find out later on from somewhere else and feels bad about it. Or does he even have a right to be?
It's 50/50. You aren't doing anything right or wrong either way. It just depends how you think he'll take it. Be prepared for any outcome.It is probably the best to be open about it! If he doesn't like it then you have to handle that issue. Maybe, just part ways and find a partner that is ok with it!
Might as well tell him now - if it comes out later, that's not so great.
You might as well be forthcoming about it, especially if you know he'd be bothered by it once he found out. I think most men wouldn't care as long as you're no longer doing i and didn't lie to them.
Why do you care? You can just get another boyfriend. You’ve got lots of fans who have jerked off to you. 🤷♂️
I wouldn't want my partner keeping that from me. I personally wouldn't date a girl that ever had an OnlyFans, but it shouldn't be something that's kept from a partner.
Yes you need to be open and honest with him.
him finding out later down the line would be really shit and for some potentially dangerous.Translation = Do I have an open and honest relationship based on truth or do I have one based on a lie and hope the truth never comes to light.
Yes. If he finds out from someone else it will be 5 times worse.
You should, yeah, chances are he will discover it at some point. And it's better if he learns about it from you.
How he will react is his own business, but honesty is a priority, especially if you want something serious with him.You might as well. The truth always comes out eventually, and it's best he hears it from you!
normally you tell them when you're dating, not when you're together already.
Full disclosure is always best. Should he find out from someone else or on his own it will end badly.
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