How should I confront my boyfriend about his only fans account?

[Anonymous]

I need advice on how to confront my boyfriend about him subbing to girls onlyfans. It’s not something I feel comfortable with but the worst thing about it is that he’s lied to me about it before and is a hypocrite about it. We have had a similar conversation and he said he thinks it’s disrespectful that a boyfriend would sub to onlyfans. So why does he?
Anyways I need advice on how to go about it. Thank you!

[fortunechips]

How to confront? In a serious tone. Even giving him an ultimatum. Or that "Hey, we need to talk." and let that sink in for like 24hrs before you do. Y'all girls are good at that.

If you want a boyfriend to grow in love with you and to get to know you etc, he can't be spending time getting to know other girls online. Bottom line you sound like a girl who wants the attention she deserves from someone professing to call you his girlfriend. It's either you are the only fans.

Just a heads up, this is serious red flags for the future, from only fans, to a girl at work. A boy has no business in only fans if he's serious about his girl, just like a man has no business having a private emotional intimate conversation with his female co-worker when his wife is at home with the kids.

Just being real. Save yourself the heartache, you deserve attention and so much more.

[In_Trance]

What's your endgame here?
Are you dumping him or just a stern talking to that won't change a thing?

[Asker]

I guess I’m just hoping it will and I might be stupid for it but I have to have hope that he loves me enough to change something so superficial. I just want to tell him that I feel disrespected and betrayed and lied to. I just don’t know how to go about it.

[In_Trance]

Good luck with that

[Imcmullan]

What does subs to only fan even mean?

[disgustingweebtrash]

Wtfs he subbed to onlyfans for LOL