Should I not be so helpful to my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

So I'm helping out by taking him to work. Anyway we got into an argument and he said all types of disrespectful stuff like "you got me fucked up", " are you fucking crazy ", " if I lost all my mom in dogecoin I'll still be above you". I'm just shocked because he's never said it before and I'm tolerating this disrespect. He's a firefighter and I guess he feels he's on his high horse now that he has a career. All of that made me not want to help him.

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Edit not mom I meant money** in dogecoin

[A_stranger]

Respect is an important aspect of any relationship. He may have said all that things in anger and didn't really mean any of it (but you can judge it yourself). But if you feel that he doesn't really respect you and thinks he's superior then it's totally not okay.

I don't want to make any aggressive statements that may affect your relationship.
But it's a bit suffocating if you're not happy about something in that situation. You should talk to him about it and let him know how you feel and his response will make things clearer for you.

[Asker]

He was being a butthole about my vehicle that I'm letting him drive

[Anonymous]

That's a pretty fucked up attitude, he could be going through something heavy but that's not an excuse to treat you that way. You could talk to him about this when he's calm, if he tends to be physically aggressive just think twice if he's good for you and be careful.

[Asker]

Yeah he's using my car to drive around in because his is getting fixed and I asked him for $280 for the insurance.

[Opinion Owner]

Tbh, talking about money when that seems to be what his focused/bothered about doesn't seems like a good idea to make things better

[Asker]

Nope but it's the least he could do to help

[Daniela1982]

A firefighter and he can't afford his own car? He certainly does not appreciate you. If he feels so "above" you, tell him to buy his own car or fly to work as his ego is in the clouds.

[Asker]

His is getting fixed and what made me so mad was that he had a lot of bullshit to say and I let him drive mine. He said he said it outta anger because his is still in the shop but still no reason to be an ass.