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In my opinion, the only good reason to have a lot of female friends is so you have access to their social network — which means the guy has more opportunities to meet new women.
I have a few female friends, but none that I would hang out with unless I wanted to fuck them, which I don't. I have male friends and I hangout with them. Females are for dating and fucking.
Of course a guy can have too many female friends. It's the same idea as when a woman only hangs out with men because she "hates drama."
If people of your own gender don't generally want you around, there's ALWAYS a reason for it.
Lol. They're probably a threat to the opposite sex which is why they don't have friends of the same sex probably because they'll hookup with their friends boyfriend or girlfriend.
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@red324 @On_cloud_wine Exactly lol. The reality is that very few people matter enough to have actual enemies. If a lot of people hate you it's either because you're an unpleasant person to be around, you threaten their supply of nookie, or you're an extremely odd person and people aren't sure how to deal with you because you aren't like anyone else they've seen.
Personally I don't think girls and guys can be friends. Someone always wants something. I'm questioning the neighbor right now who's gay, but somehow the next door neighbor is always hanging out at on his patio with him. I'm thinking to myself why doesn't she hang out with her husband? I guess he works all time. I don't know I don't talk to my neighbors typically.
My guess is that they are female co-workers, I don't honestly know for sure Obviously. The man you married or in a relationship with comes home to you every night correct? With or without dinner by candlelight? Sometimes Chinese or Italian always with candles. I honestly cannot explain relationship between co-workers but I am assuming just friends because I don't even know where he works Lol
No. . . that's the thing that incels don't get.
They don't know how to use the friendzone to their advantage by getting a whole lot of woman friends.
Any guy desired by women, is going to have a lot of friends who are women.
Yes, he can when he is in a committed relationship.
If he still wants to have a lot of 'other girls' around him while he is dating you, then he is not 'committed'.
Tell him to knock it off or go find someone who will make you exclusive.
Nah, you get guys that get on better with women than guys. Just like you get those who only get on with other guys. The same goes for women. But you'll always find those people who think that they're trying to fuck every one of them because that's what they would do. It's fine, don;t worry about it unless one of his friends is an asshole to you for no reason, that's when you know that one is only in it to get with him.
In my opinion if your in a relationship your only "friend" should be your girlfriend and for women your only "friend" should be your boyfriend and family that's the only exception ofc
YESsssss. It is not good for serious commitment. It's like the Doctor saying, "No more Jelly Bellies" but yet you surround your off-time/friend-time with the "jelly bellies"
A guy with too many female friends is either a low test male that might as well be a woman or an alpha male with above average test whose "female friends" are past lovers that all secretly want him.
We all know that most "friendship" with women is often one sided and the woman using the man for his services.
Guys and girls cannot be close, intimate friends. He may have acquaintances, but if any of these women are very close to him, you can bet he's slamming them or he is gay.
I have way more female friends than men, but I hang out with the men more regularly.
No one has an issue with it.
My female friends are really good to me and I highly encourage everyone to have some.
I wouldn't mind. I wouldn't want the guy to be weird around my guy friends, so I'm not around his abundance of female friends.
Depends. Like if he met them on a trip or something, they probably once have hooked up. But if they're from college time, that's fine, cuz many people make those.
I wonder why he can't get along with men. I mean it's ok having a female friend, but having no guy friends at all raises a red flag
I’d honestly rather have more female friends, but being raised by a single mother set me up to function better in that environment.
Not really. No one can have too many friends of either sex.
It's just a matter of whether they will be "best friends" or "acquintance-type friends".
I can't even have one female friend.
That would make me feel uncomfortable because guys and girls can't be friends
Who are you to decide that?
@-Asca- It's my own personal opinion. No one has to agree with me on it. I mean obviously there's more to it. If it's mutual friends it's not bad but if they go everywhere together then that's where I draw the line in a relationship. You don't have to be rude and comment how am I to decide that. We are all entitled to an opinion here
@Changiis07 Opinions can‘t be right or wrong but what you said is not true so it‘s not an opinion it‘s just false lol. If you don‘t want to be friends with men or if you don‘t want your man to be friends with girls that‘s your decision but you‘re basically telling me the friendships I have with girls are fake? You say it like it‘s just impossible 100% of the time but I have proven to myself countless times throughout my life that is is possible. It‘s not even difficult.
@-Asca- Well good for you. But did I type that your relationship with your friends are fake? No I did not. You're basically saying that I mentioned that. If you can make it work then heck go for it but never did I say fake
Well you said guys and girls can‘t be friends so obviously since those friendships can‘t even exist they must be fake right?
@-Asca- in a relationship it is harder for men and women to be friends. In general it is not. But I myself find it hard to have guy friends because they like me more than a friend. So good for you that you can have a lot of female friends single or not. I would like to have more male friends but it can never happen as they always have a crush on me
Is he gay? Friends that he fucked before or got head from? Maybe they like him which could be bad for you. Something wrong there if a man does t really have male friends. Maybe ex’s of his.
80/20 rule!
Top 20% guys do have so many female friends.
Whereas bottom 80 % men barely have any female interaction other than their mother, sister or aunt.
Because most women are only interested in top 20% men who're rich and has the best genes.
Harsh but true! If you still want to be in denial it's your life your choice! But this is a fact which you can verify it by yourself.