I've been trying to get a girlfriend for my entire life. I've met girls irl and online and it seams time and again no girl wants to date me foreal. I often find girls I like who out right refuse to date me even if we have a connection. I used to go on dates often and had girls trying to date me who end up refuseing to see me again or commit after the first date. I'm genuinely wondering is their something enherently ugly or terrible about my face or something that can explain why I'm not getting any matches across the many dating apps I use or why the girls I do meet and date refuse to date me outright. I'm at a point where I'm at a total loss with girls where I feel so ugly that I wanna kill myself because the American dream of having kids and a family feels impossible because I'm too ugly to get a girlfriend. I've known a girl for a year wgo often flirts with me yet refuses to date me for reason I don't understand, yet likes everyguy who isn't me! Other girls I know just up and refuse to continue the conversation or result in findinf other guys to date over me. Now I can't get matches on any dating apps and often don't get any notice from females period.
If I were you, I would go on a woman detox. Stop thinking about them all day. Go home, at the end of a long day jerk off till your dick sounds like a bike pump when you climax.
You're a good looking dude and I think your egarness to date someone is throwing you off. I'm gonna let you in on a secret most women probably aren't aware of. They have a superpower.
They can feel somethings not right when the guys trying tok hard or wants it too bad.
How often do you see a guy and you almost think to yourself "he doesn't appreciate what he has" or "he doesn't even try"
Neither of those statements are entirely true for almost any guy who gets laid a lot.
Also you should practice precision questioning and answering. It's not an easy thing to research but learning to listen to what someone is saying and give quality answers helps not just professionally but in dating immensely
You are not ugly at all. Not even the slightest bit. Let me just say this from the start, suicide is not the answer here. That is so selfish and something that takes you away from those who love you, like family and friends.
Im not sure why you think you are ugly. You aren’t. Perhaps you are meeting the wrong girls. First thing is stop online dating. I’ve never used online dating but there is a good reason for that. It is so impersonal to me. How am I going to truly get to know someone to feel comfortable going out with them online?
Best meet girls in real life. Try going out with friends and seeing if you can meet some girls that way. Another idea I always mention is finding a local activity group/club that you are interested in and meet people there.
Thag is an easy way to meet likeminded girls that share a similar interest with you. Since you will already share a common interest, easy to break the ice and chat with them.
My only friend commited suicide last year for similar reasons, the only girls who share my commen interests in aorsoft already all have boyfriends so there are no girls to meet there. Every girl I meet is already dating or interested in dating someone else. Story of my entire life. I'm never as good as the next runner up.
What is aorsoft? Just for my own knowledge. I’m not familiar with that term.
Listen, it took me 24 years to find “the one” so you are not much different. It is all about finding the right person.
It is a waiting game for all of us until the right guy/girl shows up. Best you can do is stay patient and not try to force a relationship to magically appear.
Have a good attitude and don’t get down on yourself because you haven’t met Miss Right yet. You are NOT ugly at all.
How tall are you? How's your muscles? You may simply be very uninteresting, and in the worse case, frightening. Stop using dating apps, and take some night classes at a community college or something else like that. Try to meet some women there. Go out with groups of friends, don't act like idiots, and look for groups of women with a similar number of people, it'll help your chances. Maybe get a cute haircut, unless you have freakish ears. I don't know how freaky you are, but try making some solo vidz on phub or xham, don't show your face, advertise your area, and see if any women will trade videos with you. You can probably meet some people like that, but that may not be your crowd.
I am no movie star type myself, but I am strong and determined. I was a soldier at one time (AIrborne), and also involved with personal contact sports (wrestling, boxing, etc.) and martial arts. The gilrs that I attracted did not want a man who was handsome as much as they wanted a man who had guts. On the surface, I was no "tough guy," but the girls sensed that I never ran from a fight and worked hard at everything that I did. That part of my personality was more attractive to them than my average looks.
Mmm the only thing that came to ur mind was ur appearance. Looks ain't everything tho, cuz if people dated or loved for it thn less attractive people would be left out in the world. Manners maybe? Or etc... You look good, so stop making urself thk u r not. Try another thing
You are fine ma boi.. In terms of looks in my opinion, you are potentially above average especially if you worked out and maybe changed up the hairstyle.. What's probably stopping you is your game.. You seem to have a defeatist mindset.. If you gain confidence and be the best you can be, you'll definitely have that great girl that you want.. Meaning stop thinking you are ugly because you are clearly not, and looks max if you feel like they aren't adequate enough..
It's the attitude my friend... You can look like the most handsome man, but as soon as a girl notice weakness, lack of virility and specially if she notice you ask questions like that one you have just made, you have lost her already...
The world will be conquered by the strong, decided, unbeatable men, and not by the weak, you have to change your mentality, start working out, and reject modernity, embrace tradition and virility.
I dont think its your looks dude. Same situation here. Also never had a girlfriend, had also some girls online I had a great connection but always refuse to meet up (like "nah you should stay as my texting buddy, nothing more") In my case I think its a confidence issue
You need to improve how you're talking to woman. Ever heard of game theory?
Delete dating apps, they'll only serve to lower your self esteem. Get good at talking to girls in real life, it takes practice and persistence, experiment, see what works.
And of course learn how to read body language. If you're going to walk up to a girl you need to be able to walk away if she gets uncomfortable.
Trust me focus on yourself and the women will come nothing is more attractive than a guy with his shit together carry yourself with dignity you are enough brother 💯
Most guys have little to no luck on dating apps. It’s not got much to do with being unattractive or what not. I would make more effort to get out there more and meet people. Maybe join a few Facebook groups that you’re interested in where you can meet people
