Did I mess up with my boyfriend today?

[xJayleenx]

So today me and my boyfriend agreed to meet at 10 am and go to the park to walk my dog I dressed up all fancy with my green sundress and brown sandals to go but I eventually felt bad because he didn’t notice or say anything about how I got dressed today or anything. So after a while of him asking me what was wrong because I was looking down I told him “I dressed up today and you didn’t even notice and you don’t even seem happy at all to be with me. I think that you’re falling out of love with me.” I said in a sad voice and he told me well what else do you want from me? And he didn’t really enjoy the time because he didn’t really get to walk much, he had to keep on stopping because of my dog and stuff. And I told him “I guess you’re not as simple as I thought. To me, animals are a part of what makes me happy in life. I guess next time I’ll just go with my mom since this isn’t your cup of tea.” I said looking down. After this he walked away really fast to his house and then he kind of glared at me as I was walking through the hall and just went into the bathroom. That was weird. I was actually really excited about today I had ordered stuff for my dog, bought a little backpack, and an outfit just for today but my boyfriend wasn’t very happy it could also be because he was hangry? I don’t know. But I feel like sometimes he doesn’t notice things he does call me pretty a lot but today he didn’t seem to notice me and he didn’t seem happy at all so I felt bad. I work the whole week with wires so I was looking forward to this 😞

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1 y

Yeah he didn’t seem to notice I had to ask my mom if I looked okay.

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1 y

Everything ended up being okay we both don’t know how to stay mad at each other for even one hour and we ended up cuddling and playing video games. I apologized too thank you guys for making me realize that I was overworrying.

[integrale77]

That's a lot of information to take in.
I'll talk from my perspective with my girlfriend.
I don't know why she has in her wardrobe and it's constantly evolving, we have been together a year and a half and she always seems to have something new to wear but is it new? I don't know so it's impossible to compliment here on what she is wearing apart from me reminding her how sexy she is all the time.
I think she understands this (I hope) and I've not been in the dog house over not complimenting her on what she is wearing.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

When the honeymoon phases out in relationships, there are times things don't pinpoint the way they should be but I've always expressed my love towards my ex-girlfriends like I said, maybe you two need to sit down and talk things over, you are wanting him to say how good you look but this may be hard for him to express, you know sometimes guys acts in ways that they can drive you to worry about things that may never be true also you may be overthinking things too much.. I think young relationships should take their time don't force each other to do things, and keep communication open as you were walking the dog, My first relationship was at the age of 28 it didn't last long too much depression

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[QuietVerbena]

You guys just had a little fight. Sometimes guys don’t notice when you dress up. He’ll get over and you guys will be good as new.

[xJayleenx]

I don’t think this would be considered an argument right? I don’t think that we’ve argued before

[QuietVerbena]

That counts as an argument. But no big deal. Couples argue. You guys will kiss and make up.

[xJayleenx]

Aw damn now I can’t say that we’ve never argued anymore. It’s been over two years now though

[QuietVerbena]

That’s impressive!

[QuietVerbena]

Cuddling is fun 😊

[Blackcupcake]

you’re throwing accusations in his face… of course he would get upset

[NathanDavis]

you care way too much for the little things...

you could have just had a nice talk and a good moment with him

but you decided to make it about your outfit, which is a superficial thing to do... so maybe he's getting tired of that

[Sparkie460]

He seems to be less interested in you from a while back. I remember when he used to always give you compliments on how you look. I think the two of you need to sit down and talk about your relationship. I know you look forward to spending time with him and you always try to do nice things for him. What has he done nice for you lately?

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sparkie460 I agree. But that "talk" isn't going to end well. They're not mature enough to handle it. Neither one of them. They never were.

[xJayleenx]

He still gives me compliments every time we’re together he just didn’t yesterday until later so I kinda overreacted.

[Guardian45]

Oh boy. You two sound like me & my old girlfriend. Men don't think like women. You seem to need words of affirmation regularly. You also lack self-confidence. I think that your hot-blooded adds to the mix!

Firstly, know that you ARE beautiful whether ANYONE says it or not!

Secondly, because you need affirmation, and he is a typical guy, you're going to have to train him.

Start by both you doing the Love Languages test and talking about your results together.

[xJayleenx]

I ain’t the hot blooded type im more of the sad type 😂 but im usually always happy when im with him. Him on the other hand he seems less happy or just more quiet and that’s when I get sad. He used to tell me that he liked my outfits and that I was so beautiful all the time. He just didn’t notice today I guess. But for me I’m an overthinker so any change scares me.

[Guardian45]

Okay. I do agree you are an overthinker. Why don't you two try the 5 Love Languages test and then compare.

[Guardian45]

Glad to hear things worked out!

[xJayleenx]

Thank you

[motownplayer2000]

So you wanted to see you boyfriend and be with your boyfriend.. but somehow you made it all about you.. how you looked and how much you liked to get stuff for your dog.. did you ask him what he wanted to do. How he felt and make sure that’s something he wanted. Because men, will do stuff for women they really don’t want to do somethings just to keep you happy with nothing I’m return on her mind.

[Gent207]

Ah high school

I remember being that much of a thick headed asshole didn't notice my girlfriend was upset or that she wasn't looking for advice but a listening ear.

Thank God I grew up and got into psychology lol

[whiskeyontherocks]

Just saw your update
This sounds like anxiety and insecurity.
Something else may have caused you to feel this way or prime you’re brain to over think the whole situation. Either way glad things are ok

[driven159]

while stay with him if everything he does make you unhappy, I am sure you don't need to break up because it already happened

[RealMarek]

This is not uncommon. Guys don’t always notice details, but that doesn’t mean he’s unappreciative of how you take care of your appearance.

[Honesttguy]

I don't think he wanted to walk your dog, he might not be dog person.

[Anonymous]

I always complement her on date
Bkoz I know she spend lot of time in looking good for me...

[spartan55]

That shit would wear me out in a hurry.

[Flower7]

Maybe he needs some space.

[Jouth]

bro he's probably just having a bad day