Do guys my own age do not want traditional wife's and why?

[Alwayreckles93]

I feel old now and I've been feeling jelous of 18-25 year old woman. It's like 30 year old men all they care about is the model young woman rather then a woman that treated them right cooks fresh meals, cleaning and loving them. Most guys my age had told me referring as being a mom and not a wife. One time a guy who was an ex co manager told me that he would rather keep buying fast food and not want a woman to cook for him that's grandma area 😯. I mean why would 30 year old want younger woman who only care about partying drinking gold digger's problems rather then the traditional house wife that loves them and takes care of them? I don't get it.

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I'm actually 29 not 21 lol

[RealMarek]

You can thank feminism and globalism. By opening the workforce to women and exposing the US to foreign labor, they simply suppressed, through increased supply of labor, the median real income for men to levels so low it cannot support a household. Many men cannot afford a housewife. Divorce law is also a factor. Alimony and child support is much higher for a man with an ex-housewife than an ex-working wife. Also, many men are indoctrinated to dislike women who don’t work or are traditional. This is a shift in the culture. It is in the nature of liberal democratic states to erode or destroy the power of competing institutions, and the church in the US has gradually been neutered as a node of social power and the traditional family is being undermined through a relentless campaign of secularization, indoctrination, and cultural subversion.

[Sixgunsound]

This☝️

[Alwayreckles93]

Your statement explains a lot. I didn't give emu h tough until you informed me just now. You are right.

[RealMarek]

A lot of circumstances beyond our control are making many things difficult, or at best unstable. There is still hope though. You probably need to cast a wide net and meet a lot of men your age to find one who is compatible.

[Sixgunsound]

Also important is the desperation on the part of the government at various layers to tap and maintain a previously untapped tax cattle reserve to pay for its own bloat and expansion, as well as increase the ways and means of getting their cut individually. Twice the revenue coming in means twice the power to purchase the votes of poor uneducated welfare dependents.

[RealMarek]

@Sixgunsound Absolutely right. There are all sorts of benefits, both political and economic, to the oligarchy that runs this place.

[bamesjond0069]

I have a homemaker girlfriend and she's 19. Its best to have both a young woman who is a homemaker. Homemaker is a privledged, you have the position at the pleasure of a man since he will decide if he's going to sponsor that.

For me and id imagine other men, its offensive to pay for an older woman to do that. Id date with an older woman but i dont want to pay for her unless she's like a perfect 10 maybe and didn't sleep around. I dont want to pay for a woman who fucked other dudes for free is what it boils down to.

[WhitneySnow]

A lot of guys don’t want housewives today. Nobody my age of any gender dreams of a traditional marriage either (including me). Well, not nobody, but not very many people. And the ones who do are usually super religious.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are talking about some relatively immature 30 year-old guys.

[chicosuave]

Guys like me would take u in a heart beat. But you're single by choice. Gotta lower you're expectations on the guys. This is the reason most girls are single. You won't understand. But you have to see the reality. We don't know you until we live with you so how does a guy know you're traditional. Unless you tell him or invite him to you're house for a couple of weeks. Give each guy a chance and you will find the guy. But unfortunately most men are waking up to the reality of marriage. It's not you're fault. Thanks to feminism. 70 percent of marriages are initiated by women. Look at the stats. Huge shock right so that why most men are saying " no !! To marriage. They rather just not get married but settle down instead with no marriage papers. It's seems like relationships last longer that way.

[Gent207]

I'd rather have a wife that shares the same vision of the future and values of the present. As for chores I'm good for everything except cleaning the bathroom because no matter how hard I tried it was never good enough for my brother or my parents. So aside from some basic scrubbing I tend to avoid deep cleaning until I can't stand it anymore

[Gangactivities911]

Because traditional women are very unlikely to still be single at 29. If u were that girl who was partying around in her early 20s and not with a guy you’d realistically marry one day then those guys are chasing the younger version of u and trying to get them to settle down. I don’t want a woman to cook for me I want a fun sex life with someone I love and a happy relationship and I just don’t feel that anymore once women reach a certain age so I’m forced to only look younger.

[Sixgunsound]

I like traditional women so long as they will actually live the life instead of expecting a traditional man but they can do or not do whatever they want.

[loveslongnails]

When I was 30, I was dating a 23-year-old woman. She wasn't into partying or gold-digging. I don't rule out a woman because of an age gap or think that just because she's that much younger, all she wants to do is party.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm not into traditional BS. Traditional women seem broken and stupid who can't think for themselves and come off as woe is me and like to suffer degradation. It's not attractive to me at all.

[Alwayreckles93]

I'm shocked 😳 why?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's not attractive. I like women who think for themselves, rebel against norms and the system and set their own paths with their own good and positive vaules, not what some prick from the past said and set.

Traditional women come off as idiots to me. Cooking and cleaning all day stuck in a house? WTF.. that's not living, that's prison.

Besides the point, it's a fantasy to desire to become a housewife at least a full time one unless you marry a man that makes good money because the immense majority of men can't afford a housewife especially in these crazy expensive time right now.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

Word

[Jamie05rhs]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy spits the truth.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

Move to a country where the economy is better if you want that shit.

No individual paycheck of one schmuck right now is paying for two people.

[slatyb]

The men who want that want younger women. You cold try dating online. Say what you are looking for.

[SiberFox]

Because other women will do it for him for a lot less than you. Blame other women for being so easy.

[Tornado92]

Traditional wife's? 😆😆

That's for old people 🤣🤣🤣

I don't want old grandmas and I want to share my happy meals McDonald's is awesome!!!

[NYCQuestions1976]

You need an older guy. Not me though. I'm too old. lol

[Adogdog]

Seems like most woman are not like you. I feel the same way, I would like a traditional wife, but most woman don't want that.

[RuthlessAggression]

different people want different things hun

can't please everyone

[Alwayreckles93]

I'm 29 years old I feel old as I am already. My ex left me for someone else. Long story

[RuthlessAggression]

sorry?

why is your profile 21, not 29?

[Alwayreckles93]

I hit a wrong key by accident. It's okay it's not your fault.

[RuthlessAggression]

Thanks?

[Anonymous]

Not buying it. Pretty much every guys prefers a woman who cooks.

[Birdlegs]

I would love a woman who enjoys cooking for me

[jahaims]

Societal and cultural values have changed

[OddBeMe]

We want chicks to work their fair share.